Do you take the first step to reconcile in your relationship?

NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
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My nigga, you didn't talk to your wife in two weeks? I'm fearing for my life for leaving mine on read for 6 hours :damn:
Men like these are not to be trusted, he’s probably washing dishes now saying sorry for the 100th time. It’s like Beyoncé telling women to leave their cheating husbands while she lays next to her cheating husband. Don’t listen to him, go apologize before you lose your girl over a petty thing.
 

VixR

Veritas
I am currently having an dispute with her
So every time you have an argument, no matter who’s wrong, you don’t apologize and ignore each other for two weeks or more, and take her spending money (which by that, I’m assuming she’s a housewife)?

I don’t see how you’ll last as a marriage. What a nightmare.
 

Calaf

Veni Vidi Vici
2022 CHESS CHAMP
GENERALISSIMO
VIP
So every time you have an argument, no matter who’s wrong, you don’t apologize and ignore each other for two weeks or more, and take her spending money (which by that, I’m assuming she’s a housewife)?

I don’t see how you’ll last as a marriage.
Its our first argument, I am bring all the guns out
Next time, she will think before arguing with me
 

Abdalla

Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
Prof.Dr.Eng.
VIP
When you say you were wronged, why do I get the feeling you just think you were, but she has no idea?

You seem like the kind of guy who feels wronged over random, unexpected things.

Even if I was stabbed by her, you'd say I'm exaggerating.

I'm telling you. If I knew she was mad, I'd reach out to her.
Men like these are not to be trusted, he’s probably washing dishes now saying sorry for the 100th time. It’s like Beyoncé telling women to leave their cheating husbands while she lays next to her cheating husband. Don’t listen to him, go apologize before you lose your girl over a petty thing.

I'm assessing things from my point of view. I'm mad at her for legit reasons.

She use to call me every two minutes, in her break, when she's driving. But now that I'm mad she's playing mind games.
 

Abdalla

Medical specialist in diagnosing Majeerteentitis
Prof.Dr.Eng.
VIP
My ex would never do what this one is doing. There i said it.
 

VixR

Veritas
Its our first argument, I am bring all the guns out
Next time, she will think before arguing with me
Arguments are part of life. So you’d rather she can’t communicate anything to you?

I’d suggest you make a gesture and get to her right now.
 
Pettiness and grudges are for women not men.

Any argument that transpires between a couple no one is ever 100% correct or 100% at fault.

So if for e.g she is 90% at fault but not mature enough to own up like the majority of women today

I will be the bigger person immediately and apologise for everything including on behalf of herself to myself in silence.

When you do this properly, your status and rank is elevated automatically and her libido and desires for you increases.

Being petty and argumentative is a feminine trait, it's beta in nature and shows deep levels of inadequacy about your manhood.
 

Calaf

Veni Vidi Vici
2022 CHESS CHAMP
GENERALISSIMO
VIP
Chow. May allah free her from u if u are fr and aren’t willing to give her her rights. it’s sounds like Guantanamo smh :gucciwhat:
What do you think this is, a prison
All rights are provided
Its just she ain't thinking straight
 

NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
VIP
Pettiness and grudges are for women not men.

Any argument that transpires between a couple no one is ever 100% correct or 100% at fault.

So if for e.g she is 90% at fault but not mature enough to own up like the majority of women today

I will be the bigger person immediately and apologise for everything including on behalf of herself to myself in silence.

When you do this properly, your status and rank is elevated automatically and her libido and desires for you increases.

Being petty and argumentative is a feminine trait, it's beta in nature and shows deep levels of inadequacy about your manhood.

As long as you’re doing it in silent:siilaanyosmile:
 

Calaf

Veni Vidi Vici
2022 CHESS CHAMP
GENERALISSIMO
VIP
People, I came all the way from Singapore for her
I wasted above 4k just to stay with her
I broke all my plans, just so i can be with her
I Even took an intermission from Uni, so i can be with her

Yet, she is the one that's complaining

:wowsweat:
 
Even if I was stabbed by her, you'd say I'm exaggerating.

I'm telling you. If I knew she was mad, I'd reach out to her.


I'm assessing things from my point of view. I'm mad at her for legit reasons.

She use to call me every two minutes, in her break, when she's driving. But now that I'm mad she's playing mind games.
From a scale from 1-10 how bad is the things she has down? If it’s forgivable, talk to her face to face,
explain it from your point of view and work together. If she’s still hard headed cut her sxb.
May allah save your marriage and make it easy for the both of u. Ameen
 
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