Does your family pressure you to marry?

[Abu Hesi]

you nafs is addicted to something and shaydhan is whispering in your heart, only you know what that is, you have been posting about this topic for around 4-5 years and it is clearly bothering you bro.

 

[Spongebob]

So your voluntarily celibate? Why is that?

Some people just don't care about having a wife, or having kids, or sex, and that's fine

 

[Spongebob]

I think they're more bothered by you living at home. If you move out, they won't ask you

Most likely

 

[3LetterzMM]

No my mom knows I despise the idea of marriage and my dad wants nothing to do with me granted I’m much younger then you so time will tell.

 

[Kisame]

I like being by myself. I think being married and having to spend all of that time with a woman would annoy and irritate me. Plus with children I would have no free time as well

If any of you faraxs are married, can you please share how your life was before and after

Find a child free Somali woman.

 

[Hilmaam]

school, marriage , friends , work …. parents apply pressure because they want what’s best for you. Get married first have faith. Then you can say it’s not for you

 

[LilBang]

school, marriage , friends , work …. parents apply pressure because they want what’s best for you. Get married first have faith. Then you can say it’s not for you

Bro you need to understand that everyone aint built for marriage my guy

 

[Rayaale]

Most Somali parents are chill they don’t pressure their kids

 

[Hilmaam]

Bro you need to understand that everyone aint built for marriage my guy

It’s half the deen though. If you don’t get married most likely will fall prey to vices to fill hole

 

[LilBang]

It’s half the deen though. If you don’t get married most likely will fall prey to vices to fill hole

I understand where your coming from but my point still stands

 

[Vividlaaiznimo]

I'm male, 33 years old and it's understandably becoming a concern for my family. I've talked to my mom, dad and an uncle about it about how I don't want to marry. I'm positive my mom isn't ok with my decision and has decided for herself that I will marry but she hasn't talked to me about marriage at all lately.

Next week it's gonna be Christmas holidays and another uncle will stay with us for a couple of days. I'm pretty sure he's gonna talk to me about it as well. I don't have difficulties with standing behind my decisions and I'll tell him the same as what I've told every one but it's tiring to do so because my mom may jump in as well and then it's gonna be a 2 vs 1

My mom and dad have already done a 2 vs 1 against me in the past so I'm experienced

Nah, I stay screaming niggas ain’t shit they know what’s up