Yep, it is low self esteem. Looks at @Abdisamad attacking me to defend madow men who put cadaan people and features on a pedestal. Heās actually calling me salty can you imagine. Heās one of them through and through. Combine that with his threads hating on madow women despite living in a country with hardly any madows except Somalis and his threads loving up on cadaans, heās a mess of a human. Looks like also some Somali men have succumbed to this.Yeah very true self hate, featurism, colourism came out of this. I wouldn't even say its exclusively a madow issue. It's basically all ethnic people outside of white people that are like this since basically everywhere was directly or indirect effected by colonisation but madow men are defo bottom of the barrel when it comes to this discussion.
Even mathow guys feel a type of way if a non madow woman has been with other madow men because they feel she has been polluted/spoilt etc
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Abdisamad
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Can we be friends again.. I'm not good at fighting you
Iām not fighting you. I simply donāt understand you. Iām more confused than irritated. Nothing personal. Very rarely do I take sspot personal.
@Abdisamad why are you giving me a prayer emoji for the post in reply to @Odious Delirium.
I was dragging you, so have a bit of pride and at least give me a thumbs down. I canāt see a Farax go down like this. Come on. Youāve become too soft.
I was dragging you, so have a bit of pride and at least give me a thumbs down. I canāt see a Farax go down like this. Come on. Youāve become too soft.
Odious Delirium
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Globalisation.
Abdisamad is trolling I think
I feel bad for dragging the lad. Heās Scandi. English isnāt his first language and the guys there are a bit weird anyways.
Abdisamad
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Mozart
You need people like me
Youāre extremely biased. The reason why they donāt do it is a lack of commitment to them from these men via marriage.
Rihanna was with an Arab guy who would never marry her and black women celebrated it. They celebrated Serena Williams marrying a white guy. They were fanatical about Megan Markle marrying into a white royal family. Theyāre no different to the men they moan about.
Why do Somali women idiolise Imanās marriage to David Bowie ? Same reason.
Every study Iāve seen and even real life in the past Iāve noticed black women donāt even look at them.So what are YOU basing it on? Your own bias as well?
Yet on the flip side black men are also chosen less by cadaan women yet still pursue them?
Thatās the new gen of divestors who are bitter and angry over black men degrading them for decades. Iām not talking about the now. There has been a rise in IR relationships for black women btw so your point about them not being able to get commitment is false. I mean you even listed two black/mixed women who clearly did get commitment. So that goes against your point doesnāt it?
Iāve never seen Somali women idealize Iman for being with Bowie a man that literally used dress up in a flamboyant feminine manner. I donāt want to talk about the dead. But you clearly donāt know what youāre talking about.
The only reason why any woman would
Idolize their marriage is because Iman gave impression that he loved her extremely. women Love a fairytale. If he was a black man theyād idolize it the same way they also idolize Sabrina and her man who is black.
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Talk about getting karbaashed into submission.
Wa iga kaftaan yaanan la igu ooynin wa billahi tawfiq
Iyaaaaaa maxa tiri?Can we be friends again.. I'm not good at fighting you
Talk about getting karbaashed into submission.Wa iga kaftaan yaanan la igu ooynin wa billahi tawfiq
Odious Delirium
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Women idolise uber rich youthful providers no matter there skin tone with clout/appeal both Bowie and idris have that. Irl I haven't seen anyone talk on them or idolise them in particular but online and on sspot we all have seen plenty somali or not.
you try so hard to relate Somali women to black women and it flops every time
David treated Iman like royalty, that's what we admire, not the fact that he was cadaan and "cute mixed babies with dat gud hairr"
The alchemist
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Your name might be Xalimo, but your essence is Shaniqua, darling.you try so hard to relate Somali women to black women and it flops every time
David treated Iman like royalty, that's what we admire, not the fact that he was cadaan and "cute mixed babies with dat gud hairr"
Madow (and ethnic) women are on the other side of the same coin, which is what you happen to leave out. Most ethnic women also worship light and white people as well. Most women also prefer lighter men in these same cultures you talk about. Itās just that white men have black women at the bottom of their list and would rather hit up Asia or just be incel than f*ck with most non white women and black women. Angelina and l like you and think you are intelligent, but I think you are being brutally disengenious when you sit here and pretend that this phenonoma is madow men specific, hell even in Somali culture most Somali men and Somali women also prefer lightskin people and kids as well, this is why I sometimes can never can take your anti madow male jargon seriously because if you think madow men with self issues (most non white people do btw) are oh so different to madow women who have self hate issues, then Iām not gonna take the stuff you say seriously about madow men, Iāve been to school with African Americans and both lightskin women and lightskin men alike are put on a pedestal ol it you wanna sit here and pretend that isnāt the case
No Somali women idolize her marriage to that pedo, stop making qashiin posts about your mothers,sisters and cousins.
Facts lightskin is sought after in both genders, the darker you are the less attractive people will make you out to be. Some women won't accept this because they're naturally biased into defending their own gender, those who deny this shit exists are just lying to themselves. Thats why bleaching is rampant across africa deep down they know if they were lighter their options would increase.
Iām not necessarily blaming women tho becuase men are guilty of the same thing, but wallahi if you think that black, Asian, Indian, Latina, etc. women are all that different to the men of the culture, then I will just laugh tbh, because they are not. lightskin is seen as a goodlooking trait on women and kids but not men according to these chicks
. Wallahi, these chicks donāt wanna have a honest conversation at all, because it requires introspection and a degree of honesty that SOME women donāt havevery try hard indeed. I mean girls idolizing Bowie?! Really now. Nah itās because Iman keeps on going on about her treated her nice and how heās the love of her life. No one cares about his race or even him tbh. He was a famous superstar but the average Xalimo only knows him through Iman.you try so hard to relate Somali women to black women and it flops every time
David treated Iman like royalty, that's what we admire, not the fact that he was cadaan and "cute mixed babies with dat gud hairr"
lol madow women are notorious for being into darker skin men like Idris Elba. What you fail to understand is that men and women donāt have the same beauty ideals. In the black community, light skin is seen as a more feminine trait which is the beautiful in that community are BeyoncĆ©, Rihanna and the like yet people like Idris, Micheal Jordon and the like who arenāt light are celebrated.
I think youāre so set on trying to point the finger at block women as well that you forget about cultural beauty standards and how men and women are judged differently. Everyone know that within the black community darker men do alright compared to their darker counterparts. As for Somalis, Arabs and Latinos then youāre right. They do
Prefer lighter men but noway near to the extent of their men. In every culture the women are lighter than their men and thatās usually the pairing, hence your idea that women only like to go for lighter men go against reality.
