Family burden - how should i respond to my mother? or siblings? what can i do to solve this burden?

[Yaraye]

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That's tuff

 

[Basra]

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[Yaraye]

That's tuff

Thanks. Any advice?

 

[Yaraye]

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I'd rather die from the stress

 

[Yaraye]

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what does that have to do with anything?!

 

[The Oponian Guild]

Just pass on the recipes and so they can make it for themselves when you’re busy/not around.

 

[The Oponian Guild]

Or let them have mushaari init, easy to make and healthy

 

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Dont feel bad for being selfish. If your siblings wanted to eat they would , you’re not there to feed them. Feeling guilty implies you did something wrong by not including them because they either- lack the skills to cook or are too lazy to cook themselves. Either they that’s a them problem. Don’t burden yourself with chores and as for your moms comments just ignore them cuz it’s not that deep. She told you herself make something quick for yourself so do it. As for your weight gain, this is what happens when you prioritise other people’s happiness and comfort over your own. It’s a side effect of your kindness, stop being so miskeen naaya

 

[Yaraye]

Just pass on the recipes and so they can make it for themselves when you’re busy/not around.

I have, it is the lack of time that is their issue

 

[Yaraye]

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Dont feel bad for being selfish. If your siblings wanted to eat they would , you’re not there to feed them. Feeling guilty implies you did something wrong by not including them because they either- lack the skills to cook or are too lazy to cook themselves. Either they that’s a them problem. Don’t burden yourself with chores and as for your moms comments just ignore them cuz it’s not that deep. She told you herself make something quick for yourself so do it. As for your weight gain, this is what happens when you prioritise other people’s happiness and comfort over your own. It’s a side effect of your kindness, stop being so miskeen naaya

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[Yaraye]

Dont feel bad for being selfish. If your siblings wanted to eat they would , you’re not there to feed them. Feeling guilty implies you did something wrong by not including them because they either- lack the skills to cook or are too lazy to cook themselves. Either they that’s a them problem. Don’t burden yourself with chores and as for your moms comments just ignore them cuz it’s not that deep. She told you herself make something quick for yourself so do it. As for your weight gain, this is what happens when you prioritise other people’s happiness and comfort over your own. It’s a side effect of your kindness, stop being so miskeen naaya

I have tried to ignore her comments but inside i just feel annoyed, pissed, and hurt. I don't know how to stop myself from feeling that way.

 

[The Oponian Guild]

Dont feel bad for being selfish. If your siblings wanted to eat they would , you’re not there to feed them. Feeling guilty implies you did something wrong by not including them because they either- lack the skills to cook or are too lazy to cook themselves. Either they that’s a them problem. Don’t burden yourself with chores and as for your moms comments just ignore them cuz it’s not that deep. She told you herself make something quick for yourself so do it. As for your weight gain, this is what happens when you prioritise other people’s happiness and comfort over your own. It’s a side effect of your kindness, stop being so miskeen naaya

While I would agree if this was the case in a public environment. OP is referring to their family, there are different dynamics at play.

 

[The Oponian Guild]

I have tried to ignore her comments but inside i just feel annoyed, pissed, and hurt. I don't know how to stop myself from feeling that way.

Ask for the burden of responsibility to be lessened for the time being, do talk to your siblings and parents about it, maybe amay ka naxaan and you get time off to help balance things out, after all, if you cannot speak frankly to your family who can you confide in?

 

[Yaraye]

Ask for the burden of responsibility to be lessened for the time being, do talk to your siblings and parents about it, maybe amay ka naxaan and you get time off to help balance things out, after all, if you cannot speak frankly to your family who can you confide in?

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[Dharbash]

What’s your BMI