What advice would you give this sister? How can situations like this be avoided in the future?
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What advice would you give this sister? How can situations like this be avoided in the future?
Somali Reddit is pushing fake stories to tarnish farax image. The Somali Reddit banned me for using the word J on the madows.What advice would you give this sister? How can situations like this be avoided in the future?
I can’t stress this enough, before you get married GET a STD check done, with your potential spouse. Know in regards to her current predicament, my advice to her would be to divorce that brother asap, but if she’s willing to work on said relationship. Then I would advise them to seek marriage counselling, as soon as possible otherwise that rage, guilt and resentment both parties are feeling will morph into a vicious cycle of toxicity. Without honesty there is no relationship, keep that in mind people.She needs to seek treatment ASAP and get rid of the man. Best way to avoid is to STD test before marriage.Twice and make sure there is 6 months in between the two tests. I don't have any other advise. No matter how much a person does their due diligence and testing, it your potential suitor is dead set on deceiving you, there isn't anything you can do about it. The best thing we can do is run a background check/ digging into them, deep conversations with potential suitors (Deen, morals, values, education, future plans, family situation...etc), clinical testing (not just sexual health but overall health), and most of all dua to allah for the best outcome.
Somali Reddit is pushing fake stories to tarnish farax image. The Somali Reddit banned me for using the word J on the madows.
Nah somali reddit is not badSomali Reddit is pushing fake stories to tarnish farax image. The Somali Reddit banned me for using the word J on the madows.
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what’s with you and hivShe is lucky she got HPV and not HIV.
Poor couple. They should seek therapy together. And she should stop being hollier than thau.
Well women date and marry them more than any other group of men, that’s where we get all the lifetime stories from.Modern women don’t find these types irresistible.
Not only do they sleep with just about anybody, they also pay prozzies for seggs.Those men have higher body counts because they’re willing to sleep with lower quality partners.
This is where redpill goes wrong. Goes against data.
what’s with you and hiv
Yes, my point is these men aren’t picky. That’s why they date more women.Well women date and marry them more than any other group of men, that’s where we get all the lifetime stories from.
Those lifetime stories are different. They are men who come across as having their shit together. Some even have a good rep in the community but are actually Narcs. Many men and women can mask their behavior. You have abusive Imaams. You have even a case of an Islamic speaker with an amazing reputation caught on adultery site.Some of which you yourself have shared with us on many occasions.
Not only do they sleep with just about anybody, they also pay prozzies for seggs.
No, my point is that redpill explanations aren’t sophisticated and lack data backing.The red pill promotes “spinning plates”, meaning dating multiple women at a time.
Not hook ups or paying for hookas.
what’s with you and hiv
Yes, my point is these men aren’t picky. That’s why they date more women.
What women say they want or think they want in a partner, is usually the complete opposite of who they end up with. Call it political correctness!Same with lower quality women. They date more because they’re not picky.
The men and women people want are selective Kane.
How do modern women of value end up with low value men like this, if their choice is not a true reflection of their true self.Hence it doesn’t make sense for you to say they’re seen as irresistible.
It’s because those types will get with crack head women, unhygienic women, women with all sorts of issues. The type of women even average men would want to avoid.
You’re conflating a lot of things and that’s the issue with redpill right there.
Those lifetime stories are different. They are men who come across as having their shit together. Some even have a good rep in the community but are actually Narcs. Many men and women can mask their behavior. You have abusive Imaams. You have even a case of an Islamic speaker with an amazing reputation caught on adultery site.
People are smart enough to hide their true selves which is why Islamically fathers and brothers have to do proper background checks.
Kane, the fact that those types of men have to hide their real personalities show they’re not irresistible to women. Once they reveal their true colors, they have the highest divorce rates.
These men have to act like
The type of women want and then the mask falls off.
No, my point is that redpill explanations aren’t sophisticated and lack data backing.
Ive only seen a few men with high body counts who constantly slept with good looking women. All these men were athletes.Modern women don’t find these types irresistible.
Those men have higher body counts because they’re willing to sleep with lower quality partners.
This is where redpill goes wrong. Goes against data.
Wallahi thats tuff. Mandatory testing should be standardI wasn't lying orr going crazy when I said std test will be mandatory for my me and my partner yearly. I'm even going to be in the room @@Mudug_gyal