Fob Gone Wrong

Somalis need to see someone like her to understand that it's okay to live on the outskirts or do anything that looked down upon. she's using her freedom (!!!)
Normalize degrading behavior so women with zero self-respect can feel more comfortable in their skin and feel more accepted. Sure.

Deviance that violates social norms will always automatically arouse a reaction to protect the macro values of society. Somalis follow Islam, and it gives us an absolute moral/value framework that isn's up for debate.
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NotMyL

"You are your best thing"
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She’s got a beautiful body. Our problem as Somalis is expecting everyone to abide by this “Somali culture” maa walaasha baa? Why do you care how and what she does with her body :gucciwhat:
 
Normalize degrading behavior so women with zero self-respect can feel more comfortable in their skin and feel more accepted. Sure.

Deviance that violates social norms will always automatically arouse a reaction to protect the macro values of society. Somalis follow Islam, and it gives us an absolute moral/value framework that isn's up for debate.
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That's a lot of words to say "I not likey bikini!!1!1"
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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Normalize degrading behavior so women with zero self-respect can feel more comfortable in their skin and feel more accepted. Sure.

Deviance that violates social norms will always automatically arouse a reaction to protect the macro values of society. Somalis follow Islam, and it gives us an absolute moral/value framework that isn's up for debate.
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:siilaanyosmile: I told you I'm creating a Fashionova Channel where I also review 19th C Russian writers.

I am called to discuss Pushkin in a Pushup.:fittytousand: Thank you @Peaches for the encouragement.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
make sure you occasionally speak somali so that we can lure in as many odays as possible :it0tdo8:

What if I don't really speak it? Unfortunately, I have a hard time connecting with fobs. Maybe I'll have to consider an alternative hustle in life.
 

Calaf

Veni Vidi Vici
2022 CHESS CHAMP
GENERALISSIMO
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She can do what she wants, but later on, her actions will affect her kids, parents, family, tribe and herself at the end.

فَيَوْمَئِذٍ لَّا يُعَذِّبُ عَذَابَهُ أَحَدٌ - 89:25
وَلَا يُوثِقُ وَثَاقَهُ أَحَدٌ - 89:26
 
the west messed xalimos up man. its sad to see. Somali mothers are some of the strongest women ever, escaping a war and raising boatloads of kids in the west hoping to give them a better life.

then their western daughters turn into this.


smh


My worst nightmare as a father. Seeing a daughter lost like this. Imagine raising her for her to turn into a qashin.

Moral of the story. Men always always always pay attention to your womenfolk. Don't let then wander around and fall for sin to gain attention and validation
 

VixR

Veritas
The body positivity is infectious.

I might consider a fashionova haul. :farmajoyaab:
*Hooyo scolds me for daring to wear a tank top without a cardigan*

Maybe next life time.

@VixR, now I get why Somali girls marry. There is no other outlet to showcase the goods and dance suggestively besides the mirror.

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It’s a perfectly normal part of being a girl. How much you show is down to personal values and taste, but they make off as if living comfortably in your own body, especially in your youth when you’re meant to enjoy it the most, is a thing of horror.

Hijab is on an extreme end, whether people like to admit it or not. Everything that makes you feminine, including the hair on your goddamn head is to be shrouded. I felt my femininity was robbed with hijab.
 
It’s a perfectly normal part of being a girl. How much you show is down to personal values and taste, but they make off as if living comfortably in your own body, especially in your youth when you’re meant to enjoy it the most, is a thing of horror.

Hijab is on an extreme end, whether people like to admit it or not. Everything that makes you feminine, including the hair on your goddamn head is to be shrouded. I felt my femininity was robbed with hijab.


If a headscarf robbed you of your femininity then you have some issues.
 
Think about it: the aim of hijab is to make you as sexless as possible. You’re basically as not a woman as possible.

The aim of the hijab as sent down was to reinforce modesty for woman. The jews of bani israel had them. Mary mother of jesus had it. The early disciples of jesus had it.

You still are a woman. The hijab does not make any less of a woman. Unless you're idea of a woman is to correlates to wearing as little clothes as possible. In which case you have more in common with workers in a red light district
 

VixR

Veritas
The aim of the hijab as sent down was to reinforce modesty for woman. The jews of bani israel had them. Mary mother of jesus had it. The early disciples of jesus had it.

You still are a woman. The hijab does not make any less of a woman. Unless you're idea of a woman is to correlates to wearing as little clothes as possible. In which case you have more in common with workers in a red light district
It’s not about wearing as little as possible. Everyday, I was dressing to tiptoe around the fact that I’m a girl instead of just being a girl. As a girly girl in appearance prior to trying out hijab, it was a disaster. I couldnt even do basic things like fo my hair. I couldnt wear polish, nothing. It’s erasing your female form. It’s distorting your relationship with your own body/femininity. It’s actually disturbing, truth be told. And I’m not just saying that just to say it. That was my experience. But I’m an n of 1.
 
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