You know how you know somalis are too welcoming to ajnabis. Just watch this tiktok above of a "Somali" hiking group. Why are there ajnabis there?
It's not only this. Any other Somali event, somsoc etc... there is always ajnabis there. On the other hand you would never see Somalis at a Asian or Arab or Nigerian event/society nor would they welcome us.
We can't be welcoming these people with open arms into our community, and then later be confused as to why they are in our business. Or why they are too familiar with us. Somalis say "laxda meesha is dhigta, baa lagu qalaa" we are too blame tbh.