Halal intimacy

[Veteran]

i’m not going to read through that pls summarize

It's haram to masturbate is the easiest way to summarize.

And if you want other sources than Islam then there are plenty scientific studies explaining masturbation's side effects.

Here are several items to consider:

• Frequent masturbation lowers testosterone utilization
• Three weeks of abstinence increases testosterone levels
• Masturbation is associated with lower psychological health and reproductive well-being
• Sperm contains compounds that prolong lifespan, fight cancer & heart disease
• Masturbation decreases dopamine
• Watching reduces gray matter in prefrontal cortex
• addiction has similar mechanism with substance addiction
• Making sperm shortens lifespan of male worms
• Masturbating 3 days in a row decreases sperm count by 20%
• Increasing ejaculation frequency decreases sperm count significantly
• Prevalence of erectile dysfunctiondoubled between 2004 and 2013
• ography consumptionassociated with mental health issues

 

[CaliTedesse]

Masturbation is makruh frowned upon but not haram sxb

 

[a y a n]

It's haram to masturbate is the easiest way to summarize.

And if you want other sources than Islam then there are plenty scientific studies explaining masturbation's side effects.

Here are several items to consider:

• Frequent masturbation lowers testosterone utilization
• Three weeks of abstinence increases testosterone levels
• Masturbation is associated with lower psychological health and reproductive well-being
• Sperm contains compounds that prolong lifespan, fight cancer & heart disease
• Masturbation decreases dopamine
• Watching reduces gray matter in prefrontal cortex
• addiction has similar mechanism with substance addiction
• Making sperm shortens lifespan of male worms
• Masturbating 3 days in a row decreases sperm count by 20%
• Increasing ejaculation frequency decreases sperm count significantly
• Prevalence of erectile dysfunctiondoubled between 2004 and 2013
• ography consumptionassociated with mental health issues

lmao i’m not a guy and i don’t masturbate but idc i was just not tryna read through all that HDJAHW

 

[CaliTedesse]

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This ni99as life is haram kkkkkk this haram that haram kkkkk I guarantee you man has one tab open with phub as he comments

 

[Guure]

This ni99as life is haram kkkkkk this haram that haram kkkkk I guarantee you man has one tab open with phub as he comments

Nigga said i cant even fantasize, how is that even possible, while living in the west? kkkkkk
I see some big ass naaso multiple times a day, and this nigga said i cant even think about them? kkkkkkk
cut us some slack man

 

[AhmedSmelly]

Is BDSM haram? Asking for a friend

BDSM is the best way partners can express their kindness to each other. Trust is essential in BDSM, you really don't want to be cuffed to the bed, while she surprises you with another man.

Everything thats Haram in sex, we have been told in detail. And BDSM is not one of them.

If you want a good BDSM Animation without sex, just tell me.

 

[a y a n]

BDSM is the best way partners can express their kindness to each other. Trust is essential in BDSM, you really don't want to be cuffed to the bed, while she surprises you with another man.

Everything thats Haram in sex, we have been told in detail. And BDSM is not one of them.

If you want a good BDSM Animation without sex, just tell me.

https://mangazuki.me/manga/nana-to-kaoru/nana-to-kaoru-1/?style=list

homie cuffed to the bed
y’all really playing police officer i’m out

 

[CaliTedesse]

Nigga said i cant even fantasize, how is that even possible, while living in the west? kkkkkk
I see some big ass naaso multiple times a day, and this nigga said i cant even think about them? kkkkkkk
cut us some slack man

He's ignorant fam allow him kkkkkkkkk

 

[Guure]

BDSM is the best way partners can express their kindness to each other. Trust is essential in BDSM, you really don't want to be cuffed to the bed, while she surprises you with another man.

Everything thats Haram in sex, we have been told in detail. And BDSM is not one of them.

If you want a good BDSM Animation without sex, just tell me.

No way this nigga just linked hentai

 

[Shmurda]

This is why I am marrying mid illahay ka baqin. Reading dua during sex is a turn off.

I'll hit that 10 times a day bahal mode

 

[Basra]

It's haram to masturbate is the easiest way to summarize.

And if you want other sources than Islam then there are plenty scientific studies explaining masturbation's side effects.

Here are several items to consider:

• Frequent masturbation lowers testosterone utilization
• Three weeks of abstinence increases testosterone levels
• Masturbation is associated with lower psychological health and reproductive well-being
• Sperm contains compounds that prolong lifespan, fight cancer & heart disease
• Masturbation decreases dopamine
• Watching reduces gray matter in prefrontal cortex
• addiction has similar mechanism with substance addiction
• Making sperm shortens lifespan of male worms
• Masturbating 3 days in a row decreases sperm count by 20%
• Increasing ejaculation frequency decreases sperm count significantly
• Prevalence of erectile dysfunctiondoubled between 2004 and 2013
• ography consumptionassociated with mental health issues

Watching reduces gray matter in prefrontal cortex


Really? Men should run to watch then. If it reduces gray matter in the brain. Did u know, the gray matter increase means u will have early damanetia or alzheimer? Its also called plaque

 

[Veteran]

Watching reduces gray matter in prefrontal cortex


Really? Men should run to watch then. If it reduces gray matter in the brain. Did u know, the gray matter increase means u will have early damanetia or alzheimer? Its also called plaque

That's a lie eedo.

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[AhmedSmelly]

Watching reduces gray matter in prefrontal cortex


Really? Men should run to watch then. If it reduces gray matter in the brain. Did u know, the gray matter increase means u will have early damanetia or alzheimer? Its also called plaque

Wallahi that explains a lot, After going to that site yesterday in the first time in almost a decade(8 years) I feel a lot worse. I have become more vulgar. My words have been too direct, too impulsive. Never going to that site again. Somali isn't worth it

Hentai will always be my get-go, its better for the soul. Its still haram, but a lot better than those disgusting Somali snaps.

 

[Xaruun]

Praise be to Allaah. Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence: First from the Quraan: Imam Shafii stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from the Quraan (interpretation of the meaning): "And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts (including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor. "And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33. This verse also clearly orders whoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty. Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him): Abdullaah ibn Masood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allaahs Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066. The hadeeth orders men who are not able to marry to fast despite the hardship encountered in doing so, and not to masturbate despite the ease with which it can be done. There are additional evidences that can be cited to support this ruling on masturbation, but due to the limited space we will not go through them here. Allaah knows what is best and most correct. As for curing the habit of masturbation, we recommend the following suggestions: 1) The motive to seek a cure for this problem should be solely following Allaahs orders and fearing His punishment. 2) A permanent and quick cure from this problem lies in marriage as soon as the person is able, as shown in the Prophets hadeeth. 3) Keeping oneself busy with what is good for this world and the hereafter is essential in breaking this habit before it becomes second nature after which it is very difficult to rid oneself of it. 4) Lowering the gaze (from looking at forbidden things such as pictures, movies etc.) will help suppress the desire before it leads one to commit the haraam (forbidden). Allaah orders men and women to lower their gaze as shown in the following two verses and in the Prophets hadeeth (interpretations of the meanings): "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) ..... " 24.30-31 Allaahs messenger said: "Do not follow a casual (unintentional) look (at forbidden things) with another look." Al-Tirmidhi 2777. This is a general instruction by the Prophet to abstain from all that may sexually excite a person because it might lead him/her to commit the haraam (forbidden). 5) Using ones available leisure time in worshipping Allaah and increasing religious knowledge. 6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation. 7) Avoiding the illusion that some youth have that masturbation is permissible because it prevents them from committing illegal sexual acts such as fornication or even homosexuality. 8) Strengthening ones willpower and avoiding spending time alone as recommended by the Prophet when he said "Do not spend the night alone" Ahmad 6919. 9) Following the Prophets aforementioned hadeeth and fast when possible, because fasting will temper ones sexual desire and keep it under control. However, one should not overreact and swear by Allaah not to return to the act because if one does not honor ones promise, one would be facing the consequences of not living up to ones oath to Allaah. Also, note that medication to diminish ones sexual desire is strictly prohibited because it might permanently affect ones sexual ability. 10) Trying to follow the Prophets recommendation concerning the etiquette of getting ready for bed, such as reading well-known supplications, sleeping on the right side, and avoiding sleeping on the belly (the Prophet forbade sleeping on the belly). 11) Striving hard to be patient and chaste, because persistence will eventually, Allaah willing, lead to attaining those qualities as second nature, as the Prophet explains in the following hadeeth:
"Whoever seeks chastity Allaah will make him chaste, and whoever seeks help from none but Allaah, He will help him, and whoever is patient He will make it easy for him, and no one has ever been given anything better than patience." Bukhari:1469. 12) Repenting, asking forgiveness from Allaah, doing good deeds, and not losing hope and feeling despair are all prerequisites to curing this problem. Note that losing hope is one of the major sins punishable by Allaah. 13) Finally, Allaah is the Most Merciful and He always responds to whoever calls on Him. So, asking for Allahs forgiveness will be accepted, by His will. Wallahu alam. And Allah knows what is best and most correct.

You’ll probably read dua this long before you have sex with your wife

 

[karkaar]

I heard somewhere that's its good to pray two rakas of sunnah, bring her a cup of water and kiss her on the forehead,then begin foreplay.Also before you deflower there is a certain dua that protects the children that may be a result of the sex that is about to happen.

 

[Ayaanle__]

Praise be to Allaah. Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence: First from the Quraan: Imam Shafii stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from the Quraan (interpretation of the meaning): "And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts (including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor. "And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33. This verse also clearly orders whoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty. Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him): Abdullaah ibn Masood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allaahs Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066. The hadeeth orders men who are not able to marry to fast despite the hardship encountered in doing so, and not to masturbate despite the ease with which it can be done. There are additional evidences that can be cited to support this ruling on masturbation, but due to the limited space we will not go through them here. Allaah knows what is best and most correct. As for curing the habit of masturbation, we recommend the following suggestions: 1) The motive to seek a cure for this problem should be solely following Allaahs orders and fearing His punishment. 2) A permanent and quick cure from this problem lies in marriage as soon as the person is able, as shown in the Prophets hadeeth. 3) Keeping oneself busy with what is good for this world and the hereafter is essential in breaking this habit before it becomes second nature after which it is very difficult to rid oneself of it. 4) Lowering the gaze (from looking at forbidden things such as pictures, movies etc.) will help suppress the desire before it leads one to commit the haraam (forbidden). Allaah orders men and women to lower their gaze as shown in the following two verses and in the Prophets hadeeth (interpretations of the meanings): "Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) ..... " 24.30-31 Allaahs messenger said: "Do not follow a casual (unintentional) look (at forbidden things) with another look." Al-Tirmidhi 2777. This is a general instruction by the Prophet to abstain from all that may sexually excite a person because it might lead him/her to commit the haraam (forbidden). 5) Using ones available leisure time in worshipping Allaah and increasing religious knowledge. 6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation. 7) Avoiding the illusion that some youth have that masturbation is permissible because it prevents them from committing illegal sexual acts such as fornication or even homosexuality. 8) Strengthening ones willpower and avoiding spending time alone as recommended by the Prophet when he said "Do not spend the night alone" Ahmad 6919. 9) Following the Prophets aforementioned hadeeth and fast when possible, because fasting will temper ones sexual desire and keep it under control. However, one should not overreact and swear by Allaah not to return to the act because if one does not honor ones promise, one would be facing the consequences of not living up to ones oath to Allaah. Also, note that medication to diminish ones sexual desire is strictly prohibited because it might permanently affect ones sexual ability. 10) Trying to follow the Prophets recommendation concerning the etiquette of getting ready for bed, such as reading well-known supplications, sleeping on the right side, and avoiding sleeping on the belly (the Prophet forbade sleeping on the belly). 11) Striving hard to be patient and chaste, because persistence will eventually, Allaah willing, lead to attaining those qualities as second nature, as the Prophet explains in the following hadeeth:
"Whoever seeks chastity Allaah will make him chaste, and whoever seeks help from none but Allaah, He will help him, and whoever is patient He will make it easy for him, and no one has ever been given anything better than patience." Bukhari:1469. 12) Repenting, asking forgiveness from Allaah, doing good deeds, and not losing hope and feeling despair are all prerequisites to curing this problem. Note that losing hope is one of the major sins punishable by Allaah. 13) Finally, Allaah is the Most Merciful and He always responds to whoever calls on Him. So, asking for Allahs forgiveness will be accepted, by His will. Wallahu alam. And Allah knows what is best and most correct.

My right hand possesses my right hand
Checkmate

 

[CaliTedesse]

I heard somewhere that's its good to pray two rakas of sunnah, bring her a cup of water and kiss her on the forehead,then begin foreplay.Also before you deflower there is a certain dua that protects the children that may be a result of the sex that is about to happen.

Ain't nobody got time for 2 rakaats fam kkkkkk

 

[karkaar]

Ain't nobody got time for 2 rakaats fam kkkkkk

nah cuz you gotta make the deflowering a momentous occasion, anything after that we going crazy

 

[Shmurda]

I heard somewhere that's its good to pray two rakas of sunnah, bring her a cup of water and kiss her on the forehead,then begin foreplay.Also before you deflower there is a certain dua that protects the children that may be a result of the sex that is about to happen.

How am i gonna pray when a tent formed in my khamiis

 

[psyche]

Sexual intercourse is sadly something I'll never experience.

It pains to see threads about stuff I can't do