Have you ever seen a young Somali couple?

[NotMyL]

The place I live is like 95% cadaan so it's what I've got to deal with until I move to a better place. That's why I don't date atm. I see myself ending up with a latino or arab guy tho

Arab guy would have whole other family, you don’t want to be a side piece all your life do you? Plus they’re hairy

Btw do you watch Shameless? Ian’s storyline is one of my favorite

 

[Aaegal]

Arab guy would have whole other family, you don’t want to be a side piece all your life do you? Plus they’re hairy

Btw do you watch Shameless? Ian’s storyline is one of my favorite

I don't understand what you mean by having other family and side piece ;o Also who said hairy was a bad thing

Yes I've watched shameless. I liked Ian's story before they turned him into bipolar gay jesus.

 

[Halimo-2018]

It's very rare here in London. I mostly see middle aged women with their kids and no father present.

Yeah, they're usually unhappy. I think is better to wait atleast until you're 28 by then you know yourself better and what to expect.

 

[Keo]

Somalis don't hold hands or do public displays of affection so you wouldn't recognize a married couple even if you saw one.

I don't even see any walking with each other.

 

[Samaalic Era]

The place I live is like 95% cadaan so it's what I've got to deal with until I move to a better place. That's why I don't date atm. I see myself ending up with a latino or arab guy tho

This is disturbing to read, I'll make dua for you to be guided back to Islam

 

[HIGH PRIESTESS]

I think some women think of marriage as a trap, same with men I should add. If you can’t imagine doing the things you love with your partner then they’re not the right person. I honestly do all the things I did before I got married, not much changed. Of course when kids come is when things will change but right now we are both not ready for it.

Why are you moving out? You could stay and save a lot of money. If experience is what you are looking for go travel for like 6 months, see the world instead of being stuck paying for bills.

I want to move out because I need the time alone. I’m very introverted and social situations drain me quickly. And there’s the fact that my little siblings are undisciplined af and it’s difficult living in a house that’s chaotic and messy. I just want a place of my own to be comfortable and at peace.

 

[government]

I mean it's sad that we have stone another lost brother, but again i fully believe in what Islam says so i agree with that ruling

You know stoning isn't a part of Islam no where does it say that in the Quran gays should have the same penalty as people who have sex outside marriage

 

[NotMyL]

I don't understand what you mean by having other family and side piece ;o Also who said hairy was a bad thing

Yes I've watched shameless. I liked Ian's story before they turned him into bipolar gay jesus.

I meant they are usually not out, they do the whole bearding thing, at least from what I heard. So they would end up marrying a woman.

Lol you are right about Ian’s storyline, I think the whole show went to shit after season 5, that’s why I haven’t kept up with it

 

[Bohol]

A lot of young farahs don't like their female hanging around with them in public outside of the bedroom that could be the reason.

 

[NotMyL]

You know stoning isn't a part of Islam no where does it say that in the Quran gays should have the same penalty as people who have sex outside marriage

al-Tirmidhi (1456), Abu Dawood (4462)and Ibn Maajah (2561) narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever you find doing the action of the people of Loot, execute the one who does it and the one to whom it is done.”. Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi

You can say you don’t agree but there’s plenty of places that mention the punishment of gays, also just use your brain if extra maritalsex is punished by stoning you think being gay is less of a sin?

 

[scarecrow]

What's a young couple? am 32 wifes 26. I was 25 when I got married she was 21. Always independent, both got masters. Working in good jobs upper middle salary moved to a Muslim country 4 beautiful full somali children couldn't have it any another way.

My advice to the boys get married after 25 and after you have some money to pay for that wedding.

Girls get married as soon as you finish university. Get that degree but don't wait too long. The older a girl is the harder it gets later to find the right partner the best guys don't want a 27 -30 year old wife. Not to mention the clock is ticking and the longer you leave it the harder it is to conceive. I know woman who finally got married at 33 but so many miscarriages doctors told her she should've done it in her 20s.

Ps there are thousands of young somali couples in the West. A whole new generation!

 

[Crow]

al-Tirmidhi (1456), Abu Dawood (4462)and Ibn Maajah (2561) narrated that Ibn ‘Abbaas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever you find doing the action of the people of Loot, execute the one who does it and the one to whom it is done.”. Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi

You can say you don’t agree but there’s plenty of places that mention the punishment of gays, also just use your brain if extra maritalsex is punished by stoning you think being gay is less of a sin?

Being gay isn't a sin, committing zina is. Gay sex is just a form of zina so the punishment is the same.

 

[Molotoff]

I see them all the time, in shopping malls, the local shisha spot...

 

[Aaegal]

A lot of young farahs don't like their female hanging around with them in public outside of the bedroom that could be the reason.

I hear there is a secret order of Somali moms spying on the youth reporting back to each other about the misdeeds they commit. That's how my mom found out my brother smokes.

"Wa lugga arkay" - Someone saw you.

 

[Aaegal]

Being gay isn't a sin, committing zina is. Gay sex is just a form of zina so the punishment is the same.

I'll get married then. Problem solved.

 

[Crow]

I'll get married then. Problem solved.

It won't make a difference. Gay sex while married is still zina. Your only option is celibacy.

 

[A_A]

@Aaegal is a troll 100% my senses tell me of this.

 

[Aaegal]

It won't make a difference. Gay sex while married is still zina. Your only option is celibacy.

I was trying to be funny and no thanks

 

[Aaegal]

@Aaegal is a troll 100% my senses tell me of this.

Yes I have been trolling since Apr 5, 2017.

 

[NotMyL]

It won't make a difference. Gay sex while married is still zina. Your only option is celibacy.

This makes no sense at all, are you saying being a gay is not a sin but acting on it is? Say more baal