That's right. Allah does not hold people accountable for their sick thoughts, only their actions.This makes no sense at all, are you saying being a gay is not a sin but acting on it is? Say more baal
But being gay is not just having sick thoughts about the same sex, it’s also saying out loud I prefer the same sex. Even the closeted gays tell at least one other person about their sexuality whether it’s online or in person. Of course if you are talking about just having sick thoughts without acting on it or talking about it, I agree with youThat's right. Allah does not hold people accountable for their sick thoughts, only their actions.
I don't think it's a sin to say it out loud as long as one does not act on it. The sin is when someone promotes or commits zina.But being gay is not just having sick thoughts about the same sex, it’s also saying out loud I prefer the same sex. Even the closeted gays tell at least one other person about their sexuality whether it’s online or in person. Of course if you are talking about just having sick thoughts without acting on it or talking about it, I agree with you
They don't realize the danger in spreading the false notion that simply being gay is haraam. It's how you end up with people like @Aaegal leaving the diin when all he had to do was keep his futo closed.Committing zina is the same exact punishment as having gay sex. Don't know why so much western muslims aren't aware of that.
But being gay is not just having sick thoughts about the same sex, it’s also saying out loud I prefer the same sex. Even the closeted gays tell at least one other person about their sexuality whether it’s online or in person. Of course if you are talking about just having sick thoughts without acting on it or talking about it, I agree with you
Whats considered young? I’m 25, my husband is 26. I have friends same age and married.
My sexuality is like #4 on the list of why I left... For a while I was Muslim and gay hahaThey don't realize the danger in spreading the false notion that simply being gay is haraam. It's how you end up with people like @Aaegal leaving the diin when all he had to do was keep his futo closed.
Do Somali people do that whole get married just to have sex thing? Is that even legal in Islam? I know arabs do that.@TheShinning
It’s for London folks. I see plenty of young married ones here too. For London folks, they’ve adopted the Salafi misyar marriages. Google misyar marriages.
Lol why would you say that? You’re one of my favorite people here. Just discussing what the religion’s view on homosexuality is, that’s all.
Do you hate me?
Okay good. You're one my fave people here as wellLol why would you say that? You’re one of my favorite people here. Just discussing what the religion’s view on homosexuality is, that’s all.
What is reason #1 to #3?My sexuality is like #4 on the list of why I left... For a while I was Muslim and gay haha
So like a temporary thing? Audubillah@TheShinning
It’s for London folks. I see plenty of young married ones here too. For London folks, they’ve adopted the Salafi misyar marriages. Google misyar marriages.
Interfering hand of God.What is reason #1 to #3?
Due to that he has to work to provide for his family in that over priced cityIt's very rare here in London. I mostly see middle aged women with their kids and no father present.
Yup one day n one week marriages just for sex and moneySo like a temporary thing? Audubillah
So like a temporary thing? Audubillah
What's a young couple? am 32 wifes 26. I was 25 when I got married she was 21. Always independent, both got masters. Working in good jobs upper middle salary moved to a Muslim country 4 beautiful full somali children couldn't have it any another way.
My advice to the boys get married after 25 and after you have some money to pay for that wedding.
Girls get married as soon as you finish university. Get that degree but don't wait too long. The older a girl is the harder it gets later to find the right partner the best guys don't want a 27 -30 year old wife. Not to mention the clock is ticking and the longer you leave it the harder it is to conceive. I know woman who finally got married at 33 but so many miscarriages doctors told her she should've done it in her 20s.
Ps there are thousands of young somali couples in the West. A whole new generation!