How can I stop my deep emotions?

TekNiKo

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I am really empathatic and emotional person, if I see a homeless person begging I feel so sad I have to fight back tears I always try to help them even its as little as a quarter. I dont know how to control it, something God instilled in me. When I love someone I love them deeply to the extreme even at the expense of myself. I feel like a female with all these emotions I know its why many of you call me “flip flopper” for my political stances If I support a side I support it to the death.

Is there something wrong with me? I had no other place to share these thoughts.
 

TekNiKo

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Last time i cried was when I was 9 probably bcuz I HG.
Bro In Somalia I couldnt even watch a goat get killed infront of me. I found it too sad. My heart is too soft and I have failed to harden it after all these years. Growing up I could never be a roadman and all those other criminals alx because I could never point a knife or gun at someone its antithetic to my nature. Its really my nature I cant change no matter how hard I try.
 
Bro In Somalia I couldnt even watch a goat get killed infront of me. I found it too sad. My heart is too soft and I have failed to harden it after all these years. Growing up I could never be a roadman and all those other criminals alx because I could never point a knife or gun at someone its antithetic to my nature. Its really my nature I cant change no matter how hard I try.
It is bcuz you care. Your not supposed give a shit. Everyone has weaknesses you just have to learn how to neglect shit and be indifferent about shit 99 percent of the time. It has to do with enviroment too.
 
bro you have beautiful emotions may allah increase it for you, thats not your problem or weakness all you need is a structural mental alteration to guide them emotions for them to gain equilibrium. and that you can gain from a good understanding of your deen. count yourself lucky for those deep emotions its a gift by itself and can be a source of great ecstasy if handled well. may allah guide you.
 

TekNiKo

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It is bcuz you care. Your not supposed give a shit. Everyone has weaknesses you just have to learn how to neglect shit and be indifferent about shit 99 percent of the time. It has to do with enviroment too.
I feel like I am born like this, I have been like this since I was young I always avoided confrontation and I absolutely detest blood I feel like vommiting.

Even movies on Netflix which are too violent make me sick.
bro you have beautiful emotions may allah increase it for you, thats not your problem or weakness all you need is a structural mental alteration to guide them emotions for them to gain equilibrium. and that you can gain from a good understanding of your deen. count yourself lucky for those deep emotions its a gift by itself and can be a source of great ecstasy if handled well. may allah guide you.
Thanks for the positive feed back I will ask you how I can structure it
 
I am really empathatic and emotional person, if I see a homeless person begging I feel so sad I have to fight back tears I always try to help them even its as little as a quarter. I dont know how to control it, something God instilled in me. When I love someone I love them deeply to the extreme even at the expense of myself. I feel like a female with all these emotions I know its why many of you call me “flip flopper” for my political stances If I support a side I support it to the death.

Is there something wrong with me? I had no other place to share these thoughts.
Estrogen is high take some zinc
 
I am really empathatic and emotional person, if I see a homeless person begging I feel so sad I have to fight back tears I always try to help them even its as little as a quarter. I dont know how to control it, something God instilled in me. When I love someone I love them deeply to the extreme even at the expense of myself. I feel like a female with all these emotions I know its why many of you call me “flip flopper” for my political stances If I support a side I support it to the death.

Is there something wrong with me? I had no other place to share these thoughts.
I used to be like that too but studying Quran and getting to know Allah on my own made me come to terms with the circle of life + the older you get it gets easier.

Everthing is a test weather you have nothing or have a lot, weather you are considered unattractive or attractive, but much of the suffering in the world is created by humans themselves and sometimes down to the individuals action. Whatever you strive for is what you will get so your intentions need to be truly good to get good.
 
I feel like I am born like this, I have been like this since I was young I always avoided confrontation and I absolutely detest blood I feel like vommiting.

Even movies on Netflix which are too violent make me sick.

Thanks for the positive feed back I will ask you how I can structure it
deep emotions are like a deep lake or sea you need a strong and steady ship to safely wade through its waters. the ship here is the mind and their is nothing better to strengthen the mind with than the love, fear and guidance of your creater. nobody in my view needs god more than a person with deep emotions. they can be a double edged sword when manipulated by the evil one.
 

Basra

LOVE is a product of Doqoniimo mixed with lust
Let Them Eat Cake
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I am really empathatic and emotional person, if I see a homeless person begging I feel so sad I have to fight back tears I always try to help them even its as little as a quarter. I dont know how to control it, something God instilled in me. When I love someone I love them deeply to the extreme even at the expense of myself. I feel like a female with all these emotions I know its why many of you call me “flip flopper” for my political stances If I support a side I support it to the death.

Is there something wrong with me? I had no other place to share these thoughts.


i think u need anti-depressant pills
 

Basra

LOVE is a product of Doqoniimo mixed with lust
Let Them Eat Cake
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Become a stoic


yes


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TekNiKo

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deep emotions are like a deep lake or sea you need a strong and steady ship to safely wade through its waters. the ship here is the mind and their is nothing better to strengthen the mind with than the love, fear and guidance of your creater. nobody in my view needs god more than a person with deep emotions. they can be a double edged sword when manipulated by the evil one.
So I have to return to my Lord Allah SWT and funnel those emotions for good thanks for your great advice. Sometimes I feel like I am going crazy due to these deep emotions I need that ship to guide me.
Estrogen is high take some zinc
How did estrogen get in my body since I am a man? I stopped eating fast food long ago and drink bottled water. Is low testestorone or estrogen genetic? I have a high libido so this doesnt make sense
 
the problem with philosophy is that it tries to disregard ideology.
the mind can never be a stand alone and final entity the universe is much bigger than the mind and their is where ideology comes in.
its what you would call the bigger picture
 
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