Why does religion even have to be on the table? Can you not tell her you do not give a flying monkies about it? Plus ask her will religion pay the bills or make you feel special for the upcoming decades also you should promise her you wouldn't brainwash your kids into athiesm at the very least.
Who says deenta pays bills? islam encourages you graf for a living. I'd say watch mouth and tobad keen for writting the above. Why does religion have to be on table? maybe because she is muslim and intends marrying a muslim.
I think a large part of somali athiest will end up living a munafiiq lifestyle. Kernel my advice to you and other athiest is, if you leave islam you leave somalinimo. Stop being spineless and be true to yourselfs and people around you. Because I tell you what, you will find it very lonely living a muslim lifestyle and practising for "show" when you dont believe it.