You can make meher/nikaax and she yours and xalaal...and later on you can have other things like wedding,furniture,honeymoon
How do people afford marriage nowadays?
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Like what @Desert Flower was saying establish yourself first and worry about the Xalimo second. No bird wants to nest if your roost is garbage. Education isn't everything tho. I wish I was handy so I could just learn a skilled trade and make as much as a professor within a few years
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A lot of girls help the guy out. I've seen it happen so many times. They pretend like the dude pays everything they dont usually. Lol its all a hype. Find a fully ready chick around 30 or 28 by then she wont play around ready to have a family. If you're talking abt 25 and under the good luck to you, if all else fails go to africa.
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I know a girl from good family and I already kind of proposed to her. She said whenever your ready holla at me!
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Then save up for few more years if shes someone you want tell her about your financial situation she might land a hand. A lot gurls brag about big wedding but wouldnt mind skipping it if the dude is nice guy that they like. Not everyone finds someone they like so Congrats and Best of luck to you.
thank you abayo. I wish you all the best as well.
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No problem. Weddings re becoming over rated now a-days. Is not worth it. Skip it and go on vacation. Dont stress yourself to impress people that dont even know you. Lead her by example from the start she might follow.
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My wedding cost me £1000 for meat, rice, drinks, sweets and other things. We had it at someone's home who hosted us. The rest of the food was shared with other families. Get a woman who is humble and you won't spend alot of money on a wedding. Now I have a cad cad wife who knows how to cook and acts like a woman and takes care of her birth family and my family. Acts like a proper wife who I love so much. I am so lucky. She doesn't give me a headache. I have to force her to buy something special for herself she always says no. She is not materialistic at all. I have to choose the gifts. She asks to be dropped off at her family's house on the weekend so the baby's screams don't annoy me but I never complain about it.
She thinking about my mental health when I am the happiest in my life. Now tell me why anyone has to spend £20,000 for a wedding and even more for meher? For what? This love is not real. They are probably not virgin. They maybe can't cook. They will refuse to please you. They will scream at you every night. Wallahi a woman who loves you will not ask you to do that expense.
She thinking about my mental health when I am the happiest in my life. Now tell me why anyone has to spend £20,000 for a wedding and even more for meher? For what? This love is not real. They are probably not virgin. They maybe can't cook. They will refuse to please you. They will scream at you every night. Wallahi a woman who loves you will not ask you to do that expense.
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Well you better be nice to her and not take her forgranted. Btw your baby's screams annoy you? Your own baby? And you let her take the baby away in weekends because of that? ?? That seems pretty cold. Just saying.
SOMALIKNIGHT
Golan Heights belong to Syria
You should read that sentence again
Truss me fam, Allah will provide for you in means you wouldn’t have expected, I know brothers who didn’t have much money or a job before they got married, and once they were married, Allahuma barik lahu they’re driving nice cars, good job, kids, so let’s not focus on money or job that much that will come after marriage, just be patient, Allah is with the patient
Masturbation is haram sister, It’s better for the brother to marry being broke than committing zina, this dunya isn’t permanent, you can die at any minute, imagine you’re working hard to get a good job and disobeying Allah, and you get a lot of money in this life, and all of a sudden malikal mawt takes your soul, All that for nothing, it’s not gonna benefit you in your grave, so brothers have yaqeen (trust) in Allah, and go for marriage, don’t worry about financial or job, Allah is the best of plannersSxb, don't be fooled, once the post nut clarity overcomes you, you will soon realise that you've made a grave mistake. Finish school, get a well-paying job and keep saving up. Otherwise, you will just attract unnecessary stress. If you re doing it for sexual gratifications, well then your god blessed you with two hands for a reason, Here I hope this help:You don't have permission to view the spoiler content. Log in or register now.
Now go and study!
Wallahi you gave me a beautiful idea, find me sisters that are 28 that live on their own with a good job, I’m ready to move in.
Allahuma barik lahu Akhi, facts bro, I advice brothers to focus on the girls deen, if she is a practicing sister then she’s more likely humble and wouldn’t care about materialistic things, so brothers have to put pressure on these girls that are asking silly meher prices, are they hafiz of Quran, have they memorised Sahih bukhari and Muslim, are they a niqabi
MashaaAllah well said brother. Allah never breaks his promise. But we weak humans tend to not take it seriously.
I swear this brother @Mr.Haggis is like 30 years old with kids running a haggis restaurant, where is this going to uni and looking to get married come from?
