How do you reject a guy in a nice way?

[Yaraye]

And If you’re having sex, cooking/cleaning, and working… then you’re a bang-maid roommate

i swear that a maid, mom, and sex toy in one and that's what these stupid men are looking for

 

[jemappelle]

both. for muslim women, to stick to the religion and don't cheat. doesn't mean you don't got eyes tho

non muslim women want to have bf and not get married wth are u on about, everyone is in on the same game, just sleep around and have fun, i think u guys are projecting ur own feelings onto non muslim girls

 

[jemappelle]

i swear that a maid, mom, and sex toy in one and that's what these stupid men are looking for

no its what every single man is looking for

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

i swear that a maid, mom, and sex toy in one and that's what these stupid men are looking for

Not all of us. A classic 'marwo', who knows how to make 'suqaar' shall suffice.

Joking aside, most of us are decent fellows.

 

[Yaraye]

non muslim women want to have bf and not get married wth are u on about, everyone is in on the same game, just sleep around and have fun, i think u guys are projecting ur own feelings onto non muslim girls

no non muslim women also want to get married cuz they know the assets, legal benefits can only be retrieved by a wife not GF. the court only acknowledges a wife not GF. those ones that speak online about only wanting a BF are a loud minority. it doesn't actually apply ir

 

[Ragaasi]

yes but they are big cheaters and love cadaans, the usual francophone African.

I don't know about the big cheater thing but who doesn't like cadaans?

#AbdiExit if it aint cadaan it aint _______

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

A couple of more tricks ladies must watch out for:
a) They befriend unsuspecting Faaraxs only to get closer to the ladies.
b) They also send their females, as honeytraps, to befriend the Horners only to lay a trap.

Be smart. Be not naive.

Yep!! There is a Madow "Muslim Musician", who has Somali male friends and he even went to Mogadishu to make a Music video. He even has Hijabi girls dancing in the videos he made in America, not sure if they are Somali, but it's still disrespectful. The naivety kills me.

 

[jemappelle]

no non muslim women also want to get married cuz they know the assets, legal benefits can only be retrieved by a wife not GF. the court only acknowledges a wife not GF. those ones that speak online about only wanting a BF are a loud minority. it doesn't actually apply ir

Oh my God you women are so out of touch with reality you dont even know
average age for marriag for women is 35 for non-Muslim women
hell no they dont want to get married when they have a boyfriend
you guys are actually so much in your Muslim bubble you dont understand
they want to have fun, enjoy their life, have multiple boyfriends, not just get married to the first boyfriend they live with

 

[Yaraye]

no its what every single man is looking for

Not all of us. A classic 'marwo', who knows how to make 'suqaar' shall suffice.

Joking aside, most of us are decent fellows.

well, I'm looking for a great dildo, that can shut his mouth and will pay for all my bill

 

[jemappelle]

well, I'm looking for a great dildo, that can shut his mouth and will pay for all my bill

You do realize a man would literally like that? If women were like this men would be happy?
But women want so much more than that its draining

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

It makes me sick how many women live with a boyfriend, split the bills and are waiting around for a ring,

If they are living together, well, that is different, and outside out culture.

if you date for about 3-4 months and it ain't going anywhere serious.

Could you ladies come up with a different label for it instead of 'dating || girlfriend || boyfriend', for dating has a different connotation in my book, and would involve more than hand holding.

If he is a suitor to be a possible husband, or she is a potential wive, then it should have another label, methinks.

 

[jemappelle]

Nope, the vast majority of women want to get married. It's the most legit and respectable union in society.

Vast majority of women dont want marriage, and dont even want children.
The average age for marriage for non muslim women is 35
non Muslim women want to have fun, enjoy their life and freedom, they want multiple boyfriends, they dont want to be stuck to one man and make a life ending decision of getting married to someone for their entire life, non muslim women are like men, they will get into relationships for multiple years, enjoy themselvs, then break up, keep doing that until they are in their 30s and try to find a man they want to settle down with

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

well, I'm looking for a great dildo, that can shut his mouth and will pay for all my bill

Quite the potty mouth, missy. You are a riot. I should go to wash my ears & eyes now.

 

[Yaraye]

Oh my God you women are so out of touch with reality you dont even know
average age for marriag for women is 35 for non-Muslim women
hell no they dont want to get married when they have a boyfriend
you guys are actually so much in your Muslim bubble you dont understand
they want to have fun, enjoy their life, have multiple boyfriends, not just get married to the first boyfriend they live with

that's only when they are in the 20s when they want to have fun plus that also applies to the men too. Neither wants to get married in their 20s. so when they approach marriage age, the men go for younger women, and the women are left. Also women today had enough about men not changing, they ain't settling for less. it isn't that they don't want to et married, its hard for them to find a quality man to get married to

You do realize a man would literally like that? If women were like this men would be happy?
But women want so much more than that its draining

when I say to shut his mouth i mean he can't order me around and ask for shit.

 

[Mek Nimr al-Ja'ali]

Yes,

Madows are on forums writing essays about how they hate black women who marry out and trying to strategize how to get with women that are any color but black but you’re still of the belief that these people aren’t toxic self haters as well as the select few other idiots who do the same with their ethnicities? 70% single father rate = I will disown my daughter if she brings home a Madow. Nothing more to it.

 

[jemappelle]

that's only when they are in the 20s when they want to have fun plus that also applies to the men too. Neither wants to get married in their 20s. so when they approach marriage age, the men go for younger women, and the women are left. Also women today had enough about men not changing, they ain't settling for less. it isn't that they don't want to et married, its hard for them to find a quality man to get married to

u just proved my point, gettin married at 35 is about 20 years of commiting zina with multipl men in unserious relationships.
Women only want to get married in their mid 30s
this entire thread is about ppl in university, noone wants to get married in uni, man or women, so stop saying "women want to get married" when no women wants to marry her bf in her uni

 

[jemappelle]

Madows are on forums writing essays about how they hate black women who marry out and trying to strategize how to get with women that are any color but black but you’re still of the belief that these people aren’t toxic self haters as well as the select few other idiots who do the same with their ethnicities? 70% single father rate = I will disown my daughter if she brings home a Madow. Nothing more to it.

Bruh I thought you were all about statistics why are you givig me anecdotal information? There are somalis on this forum who write paragraphs about why they hate somali men

 

[Yaraye]

You do realize a man would literally like that? If women were like this men would be happy?
But women want so much more than that its draining

bang me, bill me, bail out that's what i want in a man

 

[Magan95]

Oh my God you women are so out of touch with reality you dont even know
average age for marriag for women is 35 for non-Muslim women
hell no they dont want to get married when they have a boyfriend
you guys are actually so much in your Muslim bubble you dont understand
they want to have fun, enjoy their life, have multiple boyfriends, not just get married to the first boyfriend they live with

I have several Gaalo girlfriends and that lifestyle has damaged many of them… I’m all for people having autonomy over their body and making their own choices but my god… these women have been misled. My gaalo friends that are having a better time are the ones who are abstaining from sex into their mid to late 20s. These girls take their time finding the right guy.

Having casual sex/ relationships only puts you in danger to get hurt. There’s nothing “fun” about it long term.

 

[jemappelle]

when I say to shut his mouth i mean he can't order me around and ask for shit.

Are you going to do your duty as a wife though?