Hypocrites

[Alluring]

Never seen people get so defensive about someone saying doing a sin is wrong and being hypocritical about it is also wrong. That is bare minimum Islam, get it together.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Allah is willing to forgive, but we’re not. The biggest fallacy is comparing us to allah and expecting us to act the same way. And everything is wrong about it, not being fully truthful about your past just so you can marry someone is ok?

You seem to have an odd set of morality for someone who’s so pious.

I said what I said. ✌

 

[Jungle]

if he has repented why would he reject a girl who got similiar past as him in fact theres guys that call those girls used etc

Dont try switch it up mate. Theres plenty of married couples with similar backgrounds. Your clearly ignoring the repent bit and on some they have no right to be with women like that just because of their past. Now if someone is still on that shit and wants a virgin etc thats a different story and abdis pull that off as well tbh. As long as everyone is honest with eachother i dont see a issue.

People triggered by who a next man marries lol.

 

[Ibrahim hassan]

Hes been around the world done drugs, sleeping around left and right ,clubbing

One day gabadh bu jecladay the feelings are mutual than he ask her if shes a Virgin she says yes and he falls even more in love with her and wanna marry her

In our culture we have guys who slept around but when it comes to marriage and settling down they want a virgin that they can bring home to their parents

These people are hypocrites and fake

I don't know how to respond without being massive misogynist, but your wrong.

 

[Amazonian]

If he genuinely repented why does he have to specifically go look for 1 that also repented? And if he doesnt hes fake and a hypocrite? Cmon g

Who hurt you?

That's what I dont get. I know many girls who wouldnt care about a guys past life depending how he simply treats her.
Theres no hypocrisy in acceptance

 

[Angelina]

That's what I dont get. I know many girls who wouldnt care about a guys past life depending how he simply treats her.
Theres no hypocrisy in acceptance

Lol there is. Men like you operate on the idea that it is acceptable for men to have pasts, but not women. So you f about with the idea that 'oneday I' ll settle down with a nice Halimo'. To top it off, society is hypocritical and supports this wayward mentality.

When it comes down to it, women need to expect more and do better. For too long, our standards have been low, which allows men like you to think you have a chance.

For more context guys, all you have to do is look at this guys threads and Emilys.

Isn't it incredible that no one was angry at your conduct? A Muslim Somali male, openly bragging about zina and shamelessly dragging women.

Yet people were angry at a non Muslim woman who was dating around. She is a Kafir doing what kafirs are known to do, yet she was abused and revilled.

 

[Boogie]

Gender wars again

It will never end misogynist vs misandrist

 

[Amazonian]

Lol there is. Men like you operate on the idea that it is acceptable for men to have pasts, but not women. So you f about with the idea that 'oneday I' ll settle down with a nice Halimo'. To top it off, society is hypocritical and supports this wayward mentality.

Acuudu bilaah

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

You can never wife up a hoe or a player

 

[Revolutionary]

Lol there is. Men like you operate on the idea that it is acceptable for men to have pasts, but not women. So you f about with the idea that 'oneday I' ll settle down with a nice Halimo'. To top it off, society is hypocritical and supports this wayward mentality.

When it comes down to it, women need to expect more and do better. For too long, our standards have been low, which allows men like you to think you have a chance.

For more context guys, all you have to do is look at this guys threads and Emilys.

Isn't it incredible that no one was angry at your conduct? A Muslim Somali male, openly bragging about zina and shamelessly dragging women.

Yet people were angry at a non Muslim woman who was dating around. She is a Kafir doing what kafirs are known to do, yet she was abused and revilled.

Just looked back at both threads, men were against emily but there were females supporting her, as for amazonian women were against him and males were supporting him, it was all on gender lines for the most part, all involved were hypocrites

 

[Angelina]

Acuudu bilaah

We've all seen you're threads.

 

[Angelina]

Just looked back at both threads, men were against emily but there were females supporting her, as for amazonian women were against him and males were supporting him, it was all on gender lines for the most part, all involved were hypocrites

Emily is a gaal.

We really can't hold her to the same standards as us. I was one of the people that didn't understand why a non Muslim was attacked for doing what gaals do.

 

[Singularity]

I think we should make a distinction. As far as I know, there's nothing wrong with someone who repented from zina and turned towards allah hoping for forgiveness to marry a virgin Muslim guy/girl. There's no sin that you cannot turn away from and repent.

Laakin, if they never repented and changed there ways, we should keep far away from those danyeers.

"The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicato1 or a polytheist, and that [i.e., marriage to such persons] has been made unlawful to the believers." Qur'aan 23:4

 

[salma saluuni]

Mashallah the double standards are everywhere in here

 

[Revolutionary]

Emily is a gaal.

We really can't hold her to the same standards as us. I was one of the people that didn't understand why a non Muslim was attacked for doing what gaals do.

She shouldnt have made threads on her gaal experiences

nor should people encourage her or encourage anyone else from doing so

 

[Amazonian]

May Allah bless h



We've all seen you're threads.

Mind your own business, perhaps then you can learn to love yourself. Stop worrying about who can love who and start worrying about your own. You can choose whoever you please, but whoever I end up with I know we'll love regardless, but again that shouldnt be none of your concern

 

[Amazonian]

Mashallah the double standards are everywhere in here

You qashined me, but I never applied double standards. I said there are girls who'll marry guys who aren't virgins because of their mutual connection just like how some guys will wife a girl who's a non virgin due to their attraction. That's the real world, some people connect, pasts are ignored and love wins

 

[Boogie]

Somalispot gender wars are boring annoying stupid corny but people wanna argue just to argue it never stops if this continues gonna block that shit

 

[Amirah]

Hes been around the world done drugs, sleeping around left and right ,clubbing

One day gabadh bu jecladay the feelings are mutual than he ask her if shes a Virgin she says yes and he falls even more in love with her and wanna marry her

In our culture we have guys who slept around but when it comes to marriage and settling down they want a virgin that they can bring home to their parents

These people are hypocrites and fake

Wallahi o Billahi this is one of the most confusing and hardest to comprehend in our twisted culture. How does one seek someone the exact opposite of what they are and feel justified to do so? I think I might have understood it tad bit if they’ve actually repented(even then who are they to judge after all they’ve done themselves?), but often even more bizarre these same guys are boasting about all their exploits and yet think they’re entitled to pure classy cultured girls. How? In what world?? What’s even more insane is even after they get with these maskiin girls they still don’t stop at exploiting or mistreating, cheating, abandoning or polygamy-izing on them. All without an ounce of self-awareness or guilt!. You have to be some unaware, self-righteous entitled asshat of a sociopath to act this way. And shocking yet still is how these guys who weren’t born or raised in Somalia still have the same mindset despite being educated and being exposed to other cultures! But then again we are one messed up group of humans so idk what more we’d expect at this point.

 

[salma saluuni]

Wallahi o Billahi this is one of the most confusing and hardest to comprehend in our twisted culture. How does one seek someone the exact opposite of what they are and feel justified to do so? I think I might have understood tad bit if they’ve actually repented, even then tho who are they to judge after all they’ve done themselves? but often even more bizarre these same guys are boasting about all their exploits and yet think they’re entitled to pure classy cultured girls. How? In what world?? What’s even more insane is even after they get with these maskiin girls they still don’t stop at exploiting or mistreating, cheating, abandoning or polygamy-izing on them. All without an ounce of self-awareness or guilt!. You have to be some unaware, self-righteous entitled asshat of a sociopath to act this way. And shocking yet still is how these guys who weren’t born or raised in Somalia still have the same mindset despite being educated and being exposed to other cultures! But then again we are one messed up group of humans so idk what more we’d expect at this point.

It’s a mans world sis. Not only do somali men have that mindset but men in general.