Hypocrites

[Caaro]

I said what I said. ✌

I think I know what's going on now... You're the hypocrite everyone's talking about and you're trying to justify yourself

 

[Sloane Ranger]

If you don't want to be ostracised for sleeping around keep your mouth shut and your legs closed.

 

[qalanjoqoordheer]

I've seen this on both genders, farta yaa la isku fiiqin.

I haven't. I don't know about other people's families but the Somalis I heard about being sent back because of misconduct in their host country tend to be men for engaging in ciyaalsuuq behaviour (i.e. having girlfriends, doing drugs and whatever else they do). And let us not pretend as though we don't see men posting about how many women they've been with. Most Somali girls are too busy focusing on their education, unlike certain people we know so don't you point fingers at our Somali sisters.

 

[Royalflush]

op seems sus as hell always calling out men in particular when women do it more often. besides why do you care

 

[Lord]

I dont even really care weather she is a virgin or not.

 

[Amazonian]

A woman can fall in love with whomever she desires. But at the end of the day's it's her single friends who wont be happy about their union . Apparently the husband's past is evidently way more important, and when it's time for her freinds to settle down those same girls who were extremely vocal about finding the right spouse are now all of a sudden different and do not wanna hear any negative opinions about their current husbands.
If you want a virgin, no problem go marry one.

But theres no need for you to disrespect two people who are in love simply because one of them is not a virgin and you for whatever reason believe they shouldnt be together.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

Honestly nothing is wrong with that if he actually has a change of heart same for women. I just don't think its right to dismiss people Allah is always willing to forgive us why should we deny that to anyone else.

If he genuinely repented why does he have to specifically go look for 1 that also repented? And if he doesnt hes fake and a hypocrite? Cmon g

Who hurt you?

If ppl repented doesn't mean those ppl can go for virgins cuz tht is double standard I think why wouldn't those ppl want their match since they are match
I think ppl should stop using repentance excuse to justify marrying virgins cuz I think those hypocrits
Allah already revealed in quran non virgins for non virgins and virgins for virgins

 

[Basra]

Hes been around the world done drugs, sleeping around left and right ,clubbing

One day gabadh bu jecladay the feelings are mutual than he ask her if shes a Virgin she says yes and he falls even more in love with her and wanna marry her

In our culture we have guys who slept around but when it comes to marriage and settling down they want a virgin that they can bring home to their parents

These people are hypocrites and fake

huuno facts of this world. The Cow has to wait someone to buy them, otherwise if the cow gives milk left and right, there wont be left some

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

I think we should make a distinction. As far as I know, there's nothing wrong with someone who repented from zina and turned towards allah hoping for forgiveness to marry a virgin Muslim guy/girl. There's no sin that you cannot turn away from and repent.

Laakin, if they never repented and changed there ways, we should keep far away from those danyeers.

"The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicato1 or a polytheist, and that [i.e., marriage to such persons] has been made unlawful to the believers." Qur'aan 23:4

But how can non virgins marry virgins even they repented
Isnt tht haram
Allah doesn't allow non virgins to marry virgins

 

[Singularity]

But how can non virgins marry virgins even they repented
Isnt tht haram
Allah doesn't allow non virgins to marry virgins

It's haram to marry a Zaani or Zaaniyah (someone who commits zina openly and unapologetically) that doesn't repent from it. Laakin, that prohibition isn't against someone who repented from it.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

It's haram to marry a Zaani or Zaaniyah (someone who commits zina openly and unapologetically) that doesn't repent from it. Laakin, that prohibition isn't against someone who repented from it.

Where did Allah say tht
U know pure mean someone tht didn't commit sin aka sex and someone tht committed tht isn't pure it doesn't matter if fornicator repented it doesn't change tht tht person is fornicator and I think it is against cuz Allah has said tht in the quran
Repentance doesn't make someone a non fornicator
Allah said in Surah an-Nisa 24:3 =

"The fornicator does not marry except a fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that has been made unlawful to the believers."

However, if the person makes toubah and asks for forgiveness, then the sin is not held against them. Because Allah said in Surah aali-Imran 3:135=
If someone repented Allah will not held the sin against tht person but tht does not mean tht person can marry a virgin I think it is haram even person repented just cuz someone stop doing sex sin and repented doesn't make right tht person marries virgin it is clearly haram

 

[Singularity]

That Ayat is referring to those who don't repent from their sin and change their ways.

Ibn Qudaamah (may Allah have mercy on him) said:


If a woman commits zina, it is not permissible for the one who is aware of that to marry her, unless two conditions are met:


1. That her ‘iddah has ended; if she became pregnant as a result of zina, then her ‘iddah ends when she gives birth, and it is not permissible to marry her before that.


2. That she should repent from zina.


He also said:


If these two conditions are met, it is permissible for her to marry the zaani or someone else, according to most of the scholars, including Abu Bakr, ‘Umar, Ibn ‘Umar, Ibn ‘Abbaas, Jaabir, Sa‘eed ibn al-Musayyab, Jaabir ibn Zayd, ‘Ata’, al-Hasan, ‘Ikrimah, az-Zuhri, ath-Thawri, ash-Shaafa‘i, Ibn al-Mundhir, and ashaab ar-ra’y.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

That Ayat is referring to those who don't repent from their sin and change their ways.

How so cuz Allah revealed tht However, if the person makes toubah and asks for forgiveness, then the sin is not held against them. Because Allah said in Surah aali-Imran 3:135
U talking about scholor opinion
Allah already forbid it and Allah didn't reveal in the quran tht those who repent can't marry virgin I can't take sahaba or scholars view over Allah
I think tht is excuse to non virgins use to marry non virgins
If Allah revealed non virgins can't marry a virgins
How can scholar or scholars say non virgins can marry virgins I think those scholar or scholars are wrong to say tht
It is clear tht Allah has forbid tht
Tht Surah or Ayat reffering to those tht commit zina and repented tht can't marry virgins

 

[Singularity]

Sxb, niether me or you are qualified to make tafsiir of the qur'aan. You're making this claim from your perception of the translation of the qur'aan.

Do you know who held that opinion? Abu Bakr (ra), ‘Umar (ra), Ibn ‘Umar (ra), Ibn ‘Abbaas (ra). Some of the greatest Sahabah to ever live and greatest minds on the shariah. They learned from the mouth of the nabi (saw). How can we argue that we're right and they're wrong when we don't even know Arabic in the qur'aan?

Also, you can see there's a bigger list of great ulema. I promise you they all didn't come together as a conspiracy to support non-virgins. They're pious and righteous people.

 

[Mr Sufi]

I DONT CARE as long as she loves me

I been through a lot of pain physically mentally spiritually all I want is someone who will ride for me die for me so her virginity or lack of means nothing to me

As long she wasn't a star

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

Sxb, niether me or you are qualified to make tafsiir of the qur'aan. You're making this claim from your perception of the translation of the qur'aan.

Do you know who held that opinion? Abu Bakr (ra), ‘Umar (ra), Ibn ‘Umar (ra), Ibn ‘Abbaas (ra). Some of the greatest Sahabah to ever live and greatest minds on the shariah. They learned from the mouth of the nabi (saw). How can we argue that we're right and they're wrong when we don't even know Arabic in the qur'aan?

Also, you can see there's a bigger list of great ulema. I promise you they all didn't come together as a conspiracy to support non-virgins. They're pious and righteous peopl e.

I didn't even mention sahaba
What I can clearly see in the quran tht it is forbid it non virgins to marry virgins where do I need someone else to tell me tht it is not the case
Like I said allah forbid it it it is in the quran if I can understand tht Surah clearly when do I need to goto scholar or scholar
Allah made the quran easy to understand
But u can't tell me or scholar or scholars or sahaba tht non virgins marrying a virgin isn't forbid when I see it in the quran
U should read the whole Surah and see it for yourself
And no I am not making my own
claim from my perception of the translation of the Qur'an. I only wrote to you what Allah has revealed in the quran and not my perception of the translation of the quran

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

Lets debate another time

 

[Distant1]

Okay girls dont believe this stuff. Most guys dont care about virginity, if you look desirable and have an ok personality you will get your dream husband/partner.

Only a minority of conservative guys have this view. And these guys will most likely go to somalia for a spouse.