I am thinking about getting a second wife (specifically white revert for my own reason)

[Mercury]

you booty clap so much for the women on this site its crazy. prophet muhammad has 11 wives do you think you love your wife more than he did

Heres the thing the prophet scw didn't take on multiple wives, one after the other, for pleasure

He was married to only 1 wife for 25 years which is alot longer than majority somali guys who jump into polygamy quickly

2ndly its only after she passed away that he married a number of other women for good reasons such as to support widows and cement clan ties, not because he was bored with his first wife like alot of guys these days

 

[Royalflush]

Heres the thing the prophet scw didn't take on multiple wives, one after the other, for pleasure

He was married to only 1 wife for 25 years which is alot longer than majority somali guys who jump into polygamy quickly

2ndly its only after she passed away that he married a number of other women for good reasons such as to support widows and cement clan ties, not because he was bored with his first wife like alot of guys these days

forget somali guys stop tryna put them down why does it matter why they marry another wife its their right.

and you can love multiple wives just like the prophet did, his action was an example to us so id say have your own preferences but dont project negatiev opinions on us

 

[Revolutionary]

Heres the thing the prophet scw didn't take on multiple wives, one after the other, for pleasure

He was married to only 1 wife for 25 years which is alot longer than majority somali guys who jump into polygamy quickly

2ndly its only after she passed away that he married a number of other women for good reasons such as to support widows and cement clan ties, not because he was bored with his first wife like alot of guys these days

OP didnt say he was doing it for "pleasure"

No need to jump to conclusions, if he is happy, if his wife is happy, that's all that matters

 

[Xaruun]

that logic is dumb its like comparing having alot of wives with the love you have for your children

Cope. You’re wrong, end of.

 

[Mercury]

forget somali guys stop tryna put them down why does it matter why they marry another wife its their right.

and you can love multiple wives just like the prophet did, his action was an example to us so id say have your own preferences but dont project negatiev opinions on us

You can only love one person why do you think the prophet stayed monogamous for 25 years?

 

[Xaruun]

You can only love one person why do you think the prophet stayed monogamous for 25 years?

Stop embarrassing yourself. Admit that you’re wrong.

 

[Basra]

You can only love one person why do you think the prophet stayed monogamous for 25 years?

I think that Khadija ra was a magnificent wife in my opinion. She is my favorite of ALL wives of the prophet pbuh.


my second is Zaynab ra. For some reason i just love her. Aisha ra always mentioned her imaan

Third is Asma ra for her fierce intelligence

 

[Fratello]

You can only love one person why do you think the prophet stayed monogamous for 25 years?

Say wallahi you’re not a woman

 

[QueenofKings]

you booty clap so much for the women on this site its crazy. prophet muhammad has 11 wives do you think you love your wife more than he did

It is well established in Islam that it’s virtually impossible to love multiple women equally, hence the focus with polygamy is to treat wives equally and justly. And that’s the one thing most men cannot do! They have neither the resources nor the iimaan.

 

[Royalflush]

Say wallahi you’re not a woman

Swear down bro
How can you make a landheere clan with that mindset

 

[Mercury]

Say wallahi you’re not a woman

Wallahi im not

 

[QueenofKings]

You can only love one person why do you think the prophet stayed monogamous for 25 years?

Khadija and Aisha RA where special to him, though he was fair and just with all of his wife’s.

 

[Basra]

It is well established in Islam that it’s virtually impossible to love multiple women equally, hence the focus with polygamy is to treat wives equally and justly. And that’s the one thing most men cannot do! They have neither the resources nor the iimaan.

Love is a modern concept. lol You can't put it in practical use. But yes, our deen encourages fairness and just, because ALLAAH swt is the Supreme Justice

 

[Royalflush]

It is well established in Islam that it’s virtually impossible to love multiple women equally, hence the focus with polygamy is to treat wives equally and justly. And that’s the one thing most men cannot do! They have neither the resources nor the iimaan.

Potayto potahto
You think your forefathers cared too much
War your the spawn of a guy who died with 4 wives and multiple divorces remember that

 

[Boogie]

If you love your wife you wouldn't be getting a 2nd wife

Mercury but Islam permits 4 wives

 

[Zoobear]

I disagree. You want a nice and quiet second wife with zero family interference of theirs.

The advantage of having an Anglo-Saxon wife is that not only they’re wild animals on bed but you know she’ll be in her own with you, they’re not family oriented and they only keep in touch with their parent and 2 siblings once every 6 months or so. Not to mention, she will be relying on you most of the time to learn the deen from scratch and you will feel better about it.

You don’t want Arabs and Turks who have a large family culture and dozen macho nutjobs who will force you to see them often.

Never thought of it that way, you might be right.

 

[Mercury]

Love is a modern concept. lol You can't put it in practical use. But yes, our deen encourages fairness and just, because ALLAAH swt is the Supreme Justice

the prophet scw said that a man who had more than one wife and was not fair between them would be raised up on Judgment Day with half his body paralyzed

 

[Basra]

the prophet scw said that a man who had more than one wife and was not fair between them would be raised up on Judgment Day with half his body paralyzed

inaa lilaaah waa inaa ileehi rajiuun

 

[Boogie]

the prophet scw said that a man who had more than one wife and was not fair between them would be raised up on Judgment Day with half his body paralyzed

Source

 

[Mercury]

inaa lilaaah waa inaa ileehi rajiuun

Tafseer al-Sa’di (p. 163).

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever has two wives and favours one of them over the other, will come on the Day of Resurrection with one of his sides leaning.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1141), Abu Dawood (2133), al-Nasaa’i (3942) and Ibn Majaah (1969). Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb (no. 1949).