I am thinking about getting a second wife (specifically white revert for my own reason)

[Fratello]

Swear down bro
How can you make a landheere clan with that mindset

He needs to pattern

 

[Boogie]

Tafseer al-Sa’di (p. 163).

It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever has two wives and favours one of them over the other, will come on the Day of Resurrection with one of his sides leaning.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1141), Abu Dawood (2133), al-Nasaa’i (3942) and Ibn Majaah (1969). Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Targheeb wa’l-Tarheeb (no. 1949).

But my awoowe had 2 wives

 

[Boogie]

Ok...

make sure you treat both of them, provide for both, buy houses for both, buy cars for both, buy baby supplies for both, monthly rent payment, groceries for birth, house decoration for both, money for holding guests (you guessed it!) for both.

So if someone does that it's ok?

 

[Lady Whistledown]

That’s bullshit logic. You can love multiple people at once. That’s like saying that if you love your dad then you don’t love your mom.

 

[bobsburger]

Go for it king

 

[QueenofKings]

Potayto potahto
You think your forefathers cared too much
War your the spawn of a guy who died with 4 wives and multiple divorces remember that

Speak for yourself sxb and your own ratchet birth story. I’m the product of a monogamous marriage that lasted 50 years and there are literally no divorces in my family. Your struggle is not my struggle. But do you ... just don’t lie about our Deen to make your case is all I was saying.

 

[Amirah]

the prophet scw said that a man who had more than one wife and was not fair between them would be raised up on Judgment Day with half his body paralyzed

Man! A lot Somali men are coming out paralyzed on the day of resurrection! Alhamduililah!

 

[Basra]

I disagree. You want a nice and quiet second wife with zero family interference of theirs.

The advantage of having an Anglo-Saxon wife is that not only they’re wild animals on bed but you know she’ll be in her own with you, they’re not family oriented and they only keep in touch with their parent and 2 siblings once every 6 months or so. Not to mention, she will be relying on you most of the time to learn the deen from scratch and you will feel better about it.

You don’t want Arabs and Turks who have a large family culture and dozen macho nutjobs who will force you to see them often.

Wow. You sound like a capital narcissist. Isolate her & conquer her. Do you have a basement dungeon?

 

[Boogie]

Man! A lot Somali men are coming out paralyzed on the day of resurrection! Alhamduililah!

Why do u always hate on farax its getting old

 

[Villainess]

So if someone does that it's ok?

yes

 

[Basra]

Why do u always hate on farax its getting old

I told YOU. She wants to be an AMIIR. I mean Amiira. I mean Farah. Oh lord, am confused

 

[Saredo]

I need advice on getting another wife. I love my wife and she's my best friend but for the sake of Allah SWT, I need to increase my family size. I am expecting a second child and would like more. Pros and cons please of marrying a second woman.

First masha Allah for your second kid. May Allah {SWT} keep him and your wife healthy.

A lot of people here are not married so we can’t really help. It’s better if you ask men around you who are already practicing polygamy, they can advise you and give you a reality check about finances and time management. Polygamy is not easy. Even though Allah {SWT} gave you this right, women also have their rights and you need to make sure that you will honour them both.

 

[Boogie]

First masha Allah for your second kid. May Allah {SWT} keep him and your wife healthy.

A lot of people here are not married so we can’t really help. It’s better if you ask men around you who are already practicing polygamy, they can advise you and give you a reality check about finances and time management. Polygamy is not easy. Even though Allah {SWT} gave you this right, women also have their rights and you need to make sure that you will honour them both.

Finally good advice

 

[المهندس]

I told YOU. She wants to be an AMIIR. I mean Amiira. I mean Farah. Oh lord, am confused

She wants to be an amiir

ill give you that warya that was funny

 

[Lostbox]

One wife = 1 headache


But 2?

That is called death my friend

 

[Basra]

She wants to be an amiir

ill give you that warya that was funny

Funny right?

 

[المهندس]

Funny right? View attachment 170731 View attachment 170732View attachment 170733

You turned into an iguana yet ? @Asli

 

[Basra]

You turned into an iguana yet ? @Asli

 

[المهندس]

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You should make it your new profile picture ever since you shaved it bald

 

[Hassan Garguute Buldanana]

If you love your wife you wouldn't be getting a 2nd wife

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