If your ex and your first love got divorced and runs back to you?

[Southerner]

A man would never entertain going back to an ex he previously smashed, especially if
he's married and has kids.

This can only be about unfinished business

 

[Tukraq]

Sorry, did you expect my blessings?

This is how I respond to my Somali sister getting screwed over all because you cannot get over your ex and keep your “feelings” in check.

how is she getting screwed over? he's not divorcing her or anything, just adding another

 

[TekNiKo]

how is she getting screwed over? he's not divorcing her or anything, just adding another

Exactly, @VixR and co are exaggerating everything and acting like I abandoned one family for another, which is absolutely false.

 

[Jaydaan]

Fam, it’s just the truth. I loved a Somali man and he was a good one, but I know they’re mostly like the poster. Just leaving a tornado of a mess in their wake.

Doesn’t mean I have to watch.

Im sure he was vix. But we are not all trash. I personally wouldnt do it as she married someone else and he is also married with. Also vast majority of men shouldnt have 2 wives as its too much responsibility

The divorce was 8 months ago, she said she tried contacting me, I put her on block for all social medias, she finally found my new number and contacted me. Does that change things?

Do you intend to bring first wife to europe? If so ignore this one. You are more forgiven than me. How you just gonna bounce and marry someone cause you are mad at me?

 

[Desert Flower]

I find it funny how if another male poster posted this, @TekNiKo would be the first to say to never go back to an ex because she’s been ran thru blah blah. Oh how the tables have turned!

 

[TekNiKo]

I find it funny how if another male poster posted this, @TekNiKo would be the first to say to never go back to an ex because she’s been ran thru blah blah. Oh how the tables have turned!

Acudubillah, stop comparing marriage to s, Prophet (SAW) all his wives were formerly married except Aisha (RA).

 

[TekNiKo]

Im sure he was vix. But we are not all trash. I personally wouldnt do it as she married someone else and he is also married with. Also vast majority of men shouldnt have 2 wives as its too much responsibility



Do you intend to bring first wife to europe? If so ignore this one. You are more forgiven than me. How you just gonna bounce and marry someone cause you are mad at me?

your right bro, shit is ridiculous, I think I am too forgiving one of my weaknesses, Ill just stick to wifey. I aint ever bringing any women to europe the cesspool of kuffs.

 

[Tukraq]

Im sure he was vix. But we are not all trash. I personally wouldnt do it as she married someone else and he is also married with. Also vast majority of men shouldnt have 2 wives as its too much responsibility



Do you intend to bring first wife to europe? If so ignore this one. You are more forgiven than me. How you just gonna bounce and marry someone cause you are mad at me?

what do you mean not all men are "trash", theres no such thing this is just a case of different value systems, @VixR in her system sees polygamy as a negative while many see it as a positive, so just different value systems no trashness in this case

 

[Jaydaan]

what do you mean not all men are "trash", theres no such thing this is just a case of different value systems, @VixR in her system sees polygamy as a negative while many see it as a positive, so just different value systems no trashness in this case

Bro i seen broke ass nigg as marry second wife when they cant take care of one. Its not for everyone

 

[Desert Flower]

Acudubillah, stop comparing marriage to s, Prophet (SAW) all his wives were formerly married except Aisha (RA).

Let me spell this out for you, because you seem a bit slow. The Prophet (PBUH) was married to every single one of the women he was with. YOU are only married to one woman and we’re NOT married to this ex of yours. So why are you bringing up the Prophet (PBUH) when you have not, nor did not, take the necessary, halal steps to engage with this ex woman of yours? What were you an ex of? Girlfriend? Because being boyfriend/girlfriend is haram, as you know, ya sheikh. So learn the deen before you come for me.

 

[Desert Flower]

Bro i seen broke ass nigg as marry second wife when they cant take care of one. Its not for everyone

Shhh, don’t tell them that!

 

[Tukraq]

Bro i seen broke ass nigg as marry second wife when they cant take care of one. Its not for everyone

if your broke marry rich women

 

[VixR]

Im sure he was vix. But we are not all trash. I personally wouldnt do it as she married someone else and he is also married with. Also vast majority of men shouldnt have 2 wives as its too much responsibility

The ROI on marriages to Somali guys is practically zero as an average from what I’ve seen.

If you found one good person, you’re not going to find another. A lot of them don’t understand the idea of building something together.

Somali women and their children are of no value in Somali culture. Divorce her, marry another, stay married and f*ck with others, go overseas to pawn desperate girls, cut ties with their kids, etc.

You’re more likely to find value outside Somalis. It’s not worth it.

This shit he described isn’t even the worst of it, and its very common.

what do you mean not all men are "trash", theres no such thing this is just a case of different value systems, @VixR in her system sees polygamy as a negative while many see it as a positive, so just different value systems no brashness in this case

I can tell by your tenacity for polygamy that your kids won’t have much value in their lives.

 

[IstarZ]

I find it funny how if another male poster posted this, @TekNiKo would be the first to say to never go back to an ex because she’s been ran thru blah blah. Oh how the tables have turned!

Hypocrisy is one trait they excel in. They can dish it but can’t take it.

 

[Tukraq]

The ROI on marriages to Somali guys is practically zero as an average from what I’ve seen. If you found one good person, you’re not going to find another. A lot of them don’t understand the idea of building something together. Somali women and their children are of no value in Somali culture. Divorce her, marry another, stay married and f*ck with others, go overseas to desperate girls, cut ties with their kids.

You’re more likely to find value outside Somalis.

This shit he described isn’t even the worst of it worse, and its very common.
I can tell, by your tenacity for polygamy that your kids won’t have much value in their lives.

I have grand plans for my descendants, you couldn't be further from the truth

 

[IstarZ]

I have grand plans for my descendants, you couldn't be further from the truth

I honestly believe you live an alternate reality.

 

[Tukraq]

I honestly believe you live an alternate reality.

how so?

 

[TekNiKo]

Let me spell this out for you, because you seem a bit slow. The Prophet (PBUH) was married to every single one of the women he was with. YOU are only married to one woman and we’re NOT married to this ex of yours. So why are you bringing up the Prophet (PBUH) when you have not, nor did not, take the necessary, halal steps to engage with this ex woman of yours? What were you an ex of? Girlfriend? Because being boyfriend/girlfriend is haram, as you know, ya sheikh. So learn the deen before you come for me.

We never ever had haram interactions nor did we engage in haram acts. You assume to much. Sheeko and caways ia normal for people

 

[HalimaJ]

Marriage and kids is a joke to some Somali men.

There is no sense of responsibility.

Its more upsetting that wifey no 1 is from back home as without you, she probably can't stand up on her own two feet.

Explains why a lot of men here prefer women from back home. Anything goes I suppose.

 

[Tukraq]

Marriage and kids is a joke to some Somali men.

There is no sense of responsibility.

Its more upsetting that wifey no 1 is from back home as without you, she probably can't stand up on her own two feet.

Explains why a lot of men here prefer women from back home. Anything goes I suppose.

why not? if he's sending her money she's Gucci, especially if he gets her a maid/cook/ and nanny as most do for their wives back home(not to expensive in Africa), she can then relax and be the supervisor over the maids and cooks