Is it normal for husband to joke about killing spouse?

[Karim]

Give him a proper warning to stop such reprehensible talks. If he doesn't stop then immediately involve family members so they can hastily interfere. If he doesn't heed then consider leaving him as the final option. Divorce should be the last option on the table especially if kids are involved.

 

[peterpeter]

He does have anger issues which he likes to dismiss like once he punched a hole in the door. He has become possessive lately and worried the way other men look at me even though I don’t entertain men and his afraid of losing me even though he doesn’t fix the issues and has started making these jokes more frequently

sister for your own sake tell your parents a shiekh your friends and move accordingly too many times statements of violence become actions of violence, Somalispot isn't the place for this.

 

[Malab]

@Malab im worried please leave him and get him some help no body should ever speak like this about someone they claim to love

That’s really scary. You should leave before it becomes reality. Nobody who is right in the head would joke about that

f*ck getting him help, she needs to get out quick. It's not our job to fix all people, especially those who put your life at risk.

He does need help but there’s only so much I can do. Why come up with these scenarios in your head and hypothetically speaking if I did cheat why would murder be the first thing that comes on their mind? He has crazy eyes too the whole thing has me freaked out

 

[mudugnapalm]

"Tell me your husband is addicted to corn without telling me he's addicted to corn"

 

[reer]

Give him a proper warning to stop such reprehensible talks. If he doesn't stop then immediately involve family members so they can hastily interfere. If he doesn't heed then consider leaving him as the final option. Divorce should be the last option on the table especially if kids are involved.

this is a crazy red flag. it sounds like the psychopath murderer documentaries.

 

[Ya.dhahay]

He does need help but there’s only so much I can do. Why come up with these scenarios in your head and hypothetically speaking if I did cheat why would murder be the first thing that comes on their mind? He has crazy eyes too the whole thing has me freaked out

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[El Nino]

Bag your packs and leave, ninka wuu waaladey. You can’t be making jokes about murder.

Go back to your parents house and stay there. That man is lost.

 

[wonyluvr]

He does need help but there’s only so much I can do. Why come up with these scenarios in your head and hypothetically speaking if I did cheat why would murder be the first thing that comes on their mind? He has crazy eyes too the whole thing has me freaked out

Leave him pls

 

[Qeelbax]

I told you to stay away from those white boys

 

[Moon-]

thats not normal at allll

 

[Unicorn]

Is he abusive? Idk if ur man is somali but if he is cadaan he 100 percent means it. Cadaan guys are known for taking their family out. Either way tell some of ur family about it so u have a witness if something happens.

 

[Yaraye]

He does need help but there’s only so much I can do. Why come up with these scenarios in your head and hypothetically speaking if I did cheat why would murder be the first thing that comes on their mind? He has crazy eyes too the whole thing has me freaked out

Exactly. Murder shouldn't be the first act to think of in response to cheating (Hypothetically in this case)

Crazy eyes? Bisinka sis, you need to run. Find somewhere to sleep tonight quick. You're freaked out for a reason, listen to your intuition.

 

[Yaraye]

I told you to stay away from those white boys

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[Malab]

I told you to stay away from those white boys

He is Somali

 

[Malab]

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@Qeelbax he is Somali I don’t know why you’re making jokes. @Yaraye im doing an exit plan I’m saving money my immediate family are in a different country they are not here I only have cousins who are way older.

 

[Yami]

@Qeelbax he is Somali I don’t know why you’re making jokes. @Yaraye im doing an exit plan I’m saving money my immediate family are in a different country they are not here I only have cousins who are way older.

Make sure to keep your tracks on the downlow. Him finding out you're suddenly leaving could be his trigger to actually do something.

 

[wonyluvr]

Make sure to keep your tracks on the downlow. Him finding out you're suddenly leaving could be his trigger to actually do something.

Exactly yami!!!

 

[wonyluvr]

@Qeelbax he is Somali I don’t know why you’re making jokes. @Yaraye im doing an exit plan I’m saving money my immediate family are in a different country they are not here I only have cousins who are way older.

Stay safe sis be careful

 

[Yaraye]

@Qeelbax he is Somali I don’t know why you’re making jokes. @Yaraye im doing an exit plan I’m saving money my immediate family are in a different country they are not here I only have cousins who are way older.

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[ɴᴏʀ❥]

My husband makes up scenarios in his head where he will catch me cheating on him with someone and he will state how my body won’t be found. He’s been saying it more frequently and has become possessive and keeps commenting on my beauty. It’s been freaking me out.

What the heck.. These aren't jokes pls pls pls view those as threats !