Is it normal for husband to joke about killing spouse?

[Karim]

Give him a proper warning to stop such reprehensible talks. If he doesn't stop then immediately involve family members so they can hastily interfere. If he doesn't heed then consider leaving him as the final option. Divorce should be the last option on the table especially if kids are involved.

 

[peterpeter]

He does have anger issues which he likes to dismiss like once he punched a hole in the door. He has become possessive lately and worried the way other men look at me even though I don’t entertain men and his afraid of losing me even though he doesn’t fix the issues and has started making these jokes more frequently

sister for your own sake tell your parents a shiekh your friends and move accordingly too many times statements of violence become actions of violence, Somalispot isn't the place for this.