Is it normal for husband to joke about killing spouse?

[TheLand]

The possibility of OP dying shouldn't end the marriage right away?

I think he’s projecting because of his own mental health issues and hoping he would get a second chance should he let his murder fantasies slip into conversation. Absolutely the op should run, why even take the risk?

 

[Garaad Awal]

I think he’s projecting because of his own mental health issues and hoping he would get a second chance should he let his murder fantasies slip into conversation.

When did I ever have murder fantasies of my spouse you fucking incel? Go get a spouse before giving advice on marriage you p*rn addicted faqash child

 

[TheLand]

When did I ever have murder fantasies of my spouse you fucking incel? Go get a spouse before giving advice on marriage you addicted faqash child

That was terrible advice you mentally ill lunatic, telling the girl to give a guy with murderous fantasies a second chance. Go take your meds for whatever generational trauma and ptsd you have. They should lock you up.

 

[Garaad Awal]

That was terrible advice you mentally ill lunatic, telling the girl to give a guy with murderous fantasies a second chance.

He should seek professional help which is what I said. You fucking basement dweller. Either way whether he stays with her or not, he needs professional help just like you and your cousin @DR OSMAN

Go take your meds for whatever generational trauma and ptsd you have. They should lock you up.

I’m perfectly fine, I’m not an incel married to my hand like you little nigga.

 

[TheLand]

He should seek professional help which is what I said. You fucking basement dweller. Either way whether he stays with her or not, he needs professional help just like you and your cousin @DR OSMAN

I’m perfectly fine, I’m not an incel married to my hand like you little nigga.

You keep repeating that word in, incel. It’s clear to me now that you don’t have a wife and are just using it as cover for your deep insecurity. Either way that’s your problem. Stop quoting or mentioning me weirdo.

 

[Qeelbax]

He is Somali

You said you were with a white guy, I’m not making jokes cadaans are like 100 times more likely to take out their family then a Somali.

 

[Garaad Awal]

You keep repeating that word in, incel. It’s clear to me now that you don’t have a wife and are just using it as cover for your deep insecurity. Either way that’s your problem. Stop quoting or mentioning me weirdo.

I’ve posted my wife dna results many times incel. I know the word incel triggers you Stop wasting time on p* rn & FKD. Go figure out your life

 

[TheLand]

I’ve posted my wife dna results many times incel. I know the word incel triggers you Stop wasting time on p* rn & FKD. Go figure out your life

Does the woman you are currently stalking know you post her dna here?

 

[Nin123]

My husband makes up scenarios in his head where he will catch me cheating on him with someone and he will state how my body won’t be found. He’s been saying it more frequently and has become possessive and keeps commenting on my beauty. It’s been freaking me out.

This is not normal behaviour and you should be careful with him.

 

[samira24]

There's nothing normal about that, leave him.

 

[Kalsoon]

Did you call him out on it the first time he said it? Have you tried contacting domestic violence orgs or women's shelters? A husband should never use that language.

 

[OPIUM KHAT]

My husband makes up scenarios in his head where he will catch me cheating on him with someone and he will state how my body won’t be found. He’s been saying it more frequently and has become possessive and keeps commenting on my beauty. It’s been freaking me out.

that's not normal wtf you should tell your family members about this

 

[MansaMoose]

Your Husband fantasizing about catching you cheating and then telling you how he'd murder you... that is something to be terrified of. even its something he's joking about or ''Kaftan''. there is always a piece of truth in a joke. I'd definitely be cautious, and maybe even inform a close friend or family member about these ''jokes''

 

[gasara]

Please stay safe and make sure the people you confide to do not confront him at all. Don't even tell him your leaving or make it appear so just leave asap. This is not normal at all. Are you able to move to a place that is far away from him that he wont be able to find you at all?

 

[FuadTuur]

Get the F outta dodge

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I am so sorry to hear this, ninkaan wuu waalanyahay and he is waiting for WHEN to harm you.
Please do not confront him or warn him. Just run away and do it so that he doesn't suspect you're escaping.

Trying to 'rehabilitate' a murderous mind is not worth your life. May Allah SWT protect you. Somalis will try to get you back together, don't fall for it.

• Immediately tell people you trust, so that there is evidence of his behaviour.
• Make this call when you are outside the house, safely away from him. NO messages and tell your trusted people to not call you or message you about this.
• Delete evidence of the call. Don’t change up your behaviour, act the same.
• In case he has bugged the house or there are cameras, act very casual and never make those critical calls at home.
• He could be bugging the house/cameras watching you, so forget about your worldly possessions. So don't go around packing etc. All you need is your passport, phone, and bank card to book a ticket and get out.
• In case he has hacked your emails/knows your passwords, change everything, but do this just before you escape so he is not suspicious. OUTSIDE THE HOUSE, so if he gets angry/ a notification, he can't reach you.
• Turn off location sharing.
• The day of the escape, factory reset your phone (there could be spyware) or buy a burner phone or use a secure messaging app (like Signal) to communicate with trusted people.
• Avoid using shared devices/accounts that he might access.
• Change your passwords on all accounts (email, social media, bank accounts) using a secure, private device just before you escape. Enable two-factor authentication for extra security.

After the successful escape Insha'Allah

• Inform your workplace, school, or other key contacts to prevent him from contacting you there.
• Research restraining orders or protective orders, and seek legal assistance if needed.
• Change all your contact details (email, phone numbers, social media) to avoid further contact.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Please stay safe and make sure the people you confide to do not confront him at all. Don't even tell him your leaving or make it appear so just leave asap. This is not normal at all. Are you able to move to a place that is far away from him that he wont be able to find you at all?

This.

Stay silent, don't confront, just giggle along and when he goes to work or is gone for a few hours. Escape the house immediately and go to the nearest Airport to fly home or wherever else is far away from him.

 

[Yaraye]

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