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LOOOOOL Abdi you’re spot onThe consequences of extreme Somali sex segregation post-2010, especially in Europe where it occurred way earlier than that. They can't even talk to each other 10 feet apart. This is why there are so many socially awkward and emotionally inept Somalis, again especially in Europe. You should consider doing an experiment by talking to Somali customer service workers: young men are dismissive and unhelpful while young women will tense up and not give eye contact. I dont think it has anything to do with Somalis seeing a random Somali as a sibling and cant possibly fall in love with them. It's a convenient and weird excuse no one else uses. What a big difference with their parents who had no issue doing respectful shukansi much younger than their kids were.
Yes it’s odd. Idk how people can feel this about any ethnicity but especially not finding your own attractive is super weirdI'm talking from a pure physical stance. I don't know if it's because I've lived in Europe all my life but it feels weird to shukaanshi with Somali girl or to look at them romantically like other races
LOOOOOL Abdi you’re spot on
I’ve seen this in real life. When I was in my late teens and early 20s I too would get tense and weird, thank God I grew out of it.
I am seeing people my age act like this! I don't tolerate this behavior. It's very disrespectful. It's even worse if they're emotionally unstable too.
Where did that come from though? I too noticed the same thing around the same time as well and it only got worse.The consequences of extreme Somali sex segregation post-2010, especially in Europe where it occurred way earlier than that. They can't even talk to each other 10 feet apart.
100% it’s lax back home and it was lax when our parents were young. Back home lot are the extreme opposite they’ll banter and flirt with each other in public and the women will verbally abuse the men and the men would laugh and find it funny and still try and get the girls number and crazily enough even after cussing out the guy sometimes even after trying to intimidate the man they’ll give their number. Weird courting ritual indeed@Angelina @AbdiFreedom It's like that in the West/diaspora but I hear things are more lax back home. People shukaansi openly and marrying very young is still extremely common.
Im actually back home right now and im shocked, the women here,even the most shy ones, have the audacity to talk to other men normally, when every somali female i knew back home never spoke to the opposite gender unless they were ciyal suuq and smoking e cigs.@Angelina @AbdiFreedom It's like that in the West/diaspora but I hear things are more lax back home. People shukaansi openly and marrying very young is still extremely common.
Mostly AsiansThis is usually a problem I hear from women not finding their male counterparts attractive because they feel stuck seeing them all as brothers.
I see even niqabis flirting here. But really, life in somalia is so fucking boring young people do almost nothing else.100% it’s lax back home and it was lax when our parents were young. Back home lot are the extreme opposite they’ll banter and flirt with each other in public and the women will verbally abuse the men and the men would laugh and find it funny and still try and get the girls number and crazily enough even after cussing out the guy sometimes even after trying to intimidate the man they’ll give their number. Weird courting ritual indeed
When I’m back home, I’m out here looking at these people thinking they can’t be real.
100% it’s lax back home and it was lax when our parents were young. Back home lot are the extreme opposite they’ll banter and flirt with each other in public and the women will verbally abuse the men and the men would laugh and find it funny and still try and get the girls number and crazily enough even after cussing out the guy sometimes even after trying to intimidate the man they’ll give their number. Weird courting ritual indeed
When I’m back home, I’m out here looking at these people thinking they can’t be real.
That’s wierd,whenever I see a fellow Somali I welcome and try to help them no matter where I meet them.The consequences of extreme Somali sex segregation post-2010, especially in Europe where it occurred way earlier than that. They can't even talk to each other 10 feet apart. This is why there are so many socially awkward and emotionally inept Somalis, again especially in Europe. You should consider doing an experiment by talking to Somali customer service workers: young men are dismissive and unhelpful while young women will tense up and not give eye contact (I find the latter to be worse). I dont think it has anything to do with Somalis seeing a random Somali as a sibling and cant possibly fall in love with them. It's a convenient and weird excuse no one else uses. What a big difference with their parents who had no issue doing respectful shukansi much younger than their kids were.
100% it’s lax back home and it was lax when our parents were young. Back home lot are the extreme opposite they’ll banter and flirt with each other in public and the women will verbally abuse the men and the men would laugh and find it funny and still try and get the girls number and crazily enough even after cussing out the guy sometimes even after trying to intimidate the man they’ll give their number. Weird courting ritual indeed
When I’m back home, I’m out here looking at these people thinking they can’t be real.
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