Isn't shukaansi haram?

[Teflon]

Too young? My mum says she wants me to be married when I reach 20 cause thats the age when she got married.

holly f*ck your mum is mad then

20 years old

 

[Tukraq]

For us Somalis, this is how it goes...
Your parents talk to other people in the community/ in their network.
They find some decent hard working dude (hopefully)
Introduce the two
Talk on the phone
If you like the guy y’all maybe meet up with chaperone (Starbucks or dinner/lunch with chaperone, or meeting family )
If both are into it boom aroos, if you don’t then the guy won’t pass the phone talk phases

That’s for the betas, parents would look at you very negatively if they had to do all that, real Mali’s raise as the odayaal call it “ladies man” or “play boy”, and expect you to shukansi it up, they only resort to arranged if they think your butt ugly like what @Samaalic Eras parents thought about him, so they tried to help him out(didn’t work so instead of facing more rejection they forced his cousin)

 

[Medulla]

I like talking to ladies, alone! I don’t want no creepy guy staring at me. Plus if it’s in public technically there’s hundreds of mahrams

It must be the toxic masculinity in me but I love the idea of someone having to watch me flirt with someone they know LMFAOOOO.

 

[beenleey]

Too young? My mum says she wants me to be married when I reach 20 cause thats the age when she got married.

How old are you? My mum got married very young and is against me marrying as young as her.
She said I shouldn't even look at a man till I graduate and get a job

 

[Macalin M]

It must be the toxic masculinity in me but I love the idea of someone having to watch me flirt with someone they know LMFAOOOO.

If a guy was watching our every move I might have to accidentally brush past her back with my cro..

 

[Medulla]

If a guy was watching our every move I might have to accidentally brush past her back with my cro..

WHAT LOOOOOOL

 

[Odkac WRLD]

That’s for the betas, parents would look at you very negatively if they had to do all that, real Mali’s raise as the odayaal call it “ladies man” or “play boy”, and expect you to shukansi it up, they only resort to arranged if they think your butt ugly like what @Samaalic Eras parents thought about him, so they tried to help him out(didn’t work so instead of facing more rejection they forced his cousin)

This method I speak of is pushed by older unmarried women or western girls with, shall I say, used goods

 

[Macalin M]

WHAT LOOOOOOL

Just so the nigga knows I ain’t no .

 

[Tukraq]

How old are you? My mum got married very young and is against me marrying as young as her.
She said I shouldn't even look at a man till I graduate and get a job

By then you missed out as women secured the market already and all your potential options are married

 

[Daacad90]

1

In Arranged marriages your family find someone and they bring them to the home. You can then converse with the presense of a Mahram and that doesnt mean someone sitting there with you but family present.

You can then accept or reject

I don't want my family to find and choose someone for me tho, I will choose who I marry.

 

[Tukraq]

This method I speak of is pushed by older unmarried women or western girls with, shall I say, used goods

Yes he from that angle I can understand it

 

[Daacad90]

How old are you? My mum got married very young and is against me marrying as young as her.
She said I shouldn't even look at a man till I graduate and get a job

19

 

[riyaale]

Shuukansi is Xaram. Only Arranged marriage walal. Thats the Prophetic way

since when 'haasaawayn' is haram r u sure u r not al terrorists

 

[Odkac WRLD]

19

Are you in uni? If so just tell your mom you want to focus on your studies hehe

 

[Xanibacal bin Barqa]

ma aqani. She's even investing thousands of pounds for my 'aroos' I already told her I don't want one and would prefer to buy a house or something instead.

Listen to Hooyo walaal, and tell her Plo Koon is ready to bring the odyaal

 

[Calaf]

Indeed. My shukaansi Plan started since day 1 of Secondary school in UK. I made sure she knew that I was on her case. I annoyed her, stalked her and even made sure she hated me in every kind of ways, yet I was kind enough. Once I left, I made sure I left my anti-social behavior memory's on her, by being the biggest cock in the world

Fast forward to 2020, where I am 20, I am pleased to announce that I am happily married for 2 years now, with good intimacy

 

[Daacad90]

Are you in uni? If so just tell your mom you want to focus on your studies hehe

She says I can continue my studies along with getting married.

 

[Daacad90]

Indeed. My shukaansi Plan started since day 1 of Secondary school in UK. I made sure she knew that I was on her case. I annoyed her, stalked her and even made sure she hated me in every kind of ways, yet I was kind enough. Once I left, I made sure I left my anti-social behavior memory's on her, by being the biggest **** in the world

Fast forward to 2020, where I am 20, I am pleased to announce that I am happily married for 2 years now, with good intimacy

You're 20 and married for 2 years? or is my reading comprehension 0?

 

[Calaf]

You're 20 and married for 2 years? or is my reading comprehension 0?

Yep, Allahimdullah. 2 Years. I am doing well financially and even studies is going really well. 22nd Highest student in National University of Singapore. (Being top 50 in the whole country)

With hard work, everything can work in your desires.

 

[Odkac WRLD]

She says I can continue my studies along with getting married.

Over
Hmmmmm do you have any interest in getting married at all?

 

[Daacad90]

Over
Hmmmmm do you have any interest in getting married at all?

Depends... like if he is rich or something then yes