Isn't shukaansi haram?

[Medulla]

Yep, Allahimdullah. 2 Years. I am doing well financially and even studies is going really well. 22nd Highest student in National University of Singapore. (Being top 50 in the whole country)

Where are you originally from?

 

[Calaf]

Where are you originally from?

Reer UK, originally raised in Reer Italy but at young age, moved to UK.
I now reside in Malaysia, near the border of Singapore.

 

[Dalmoor]

Shukaansi being haraam? what in the world!


Your religious adeer was once a player.

 

[Daacad90]

Yep, Allahimdullah. 2 Years. I am doing well financially and even studies is going really well. 22nd Highest student in National University of Singapore. (Being top 50 in the whole country)

With hard work, everything can work in your desires.

Mashallah iyo subhanaka ya cadim, you're only one year older and this accomplished! I am happy for you walaal

 

[Samaalic Era]

since when 'haasaawayn' is haram r u sure u r not al terrorists

You think the sahaba were approaching women across medina and doing shuukansi

Hasan and Husayn aswell as Ali were all married through arranged marriages. Same for Ibrahim,Ishaq and Yaqub

 

[riyaale]

You think the sahaba were approaching women across medina and doing shuukansi

Hasan and Husayn aswell as Ali were all married through arranged marriages. Same for Ibrahim,Ishaq and Yaqub

u r ultra religious + nationalist +tribalist , weirdo combos r u the reincarnation of mad mullah

 

[Daacad90]

It must be the toxic masculinity in me but I love the idea of someone having to watch me flirt with someone they know LMFAOOOO.

Huh? I thought you were a girl

 

[Daacad90]

Is the poll for decoration yacni? Votegareya abihiina cunee!

 

[Medulla]

Huh? I thought you were a girl

DASBDHAS DSAIBHDBASD ASD AS IMGOING TO SCREAM

Not you too fucking hell. That's it i'm going engage in FKD and misogyny from now on ! I need to bring my rep up

 

[Samaalic Era]

u r ultra religious + nationalist +tribalist , weirdo combos r u the reincarnation of mad mullah

 

[Abdi Caato]

That’s for the betas, parents would look at you very negatively if they had to do all that, real Mali’s raise as the odayaal call it “ladies man” or “play boy”, and expect you to shukansi it up, they only resort to arranged if they think your butt ugly like what @Samaalic Eras parents thought about him, so they tried to help him out(didn’t work so instead of facing more rejection they forced his cousin)

you didn't have to go there sxb

 

[Mercury]

Can you explain what an arranged marriage is? Like does it mean I don't meet my husband face to face until the wedding?

basically your parents find someone for you usually a cousin

 

[Daacad90]

basically your parents find someone for you usually a cousin

Anagu cousin ma guursano, we are elite family we marry from every qabiil just not cousins ma fahamtey? Thats for reer badiyo somalis reer miyi kuwa ah.

 

[Dalmoor]

basically your parents find someone for you usually a cousin

What if you don't live with your parents and are studying elsewhere?

Gotta find yourself a partner not expect and wait for what your parents look for you. That shit is why somalis look so inbred. Cousin marriages

 

[IftiinOfLife]

I'm a gaal. Xaran baan ka ahaay. He's for the other Sacad/HG girls to deal with

I pray you come back sis.

 

[Guled111]

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I don't want my family to find and choose someone for me tho, I will choose who I marry.

May Allah give you a ogadeen husband in the near future macanto or you can wait for me. But it will take 4 years if you can wait

 

[Shmurda]

A sheikh told me you can talk to women alone as long as its in a public area you don't need a mahram listening to your whole convo

Also your hooyo most likely grew up in barre regime them niggas did not give a single shit about what was haram or halal

 

[Teflon]

@Daacad90 just focus on uni and not marriage

 

[B-is-the-code]

Ironically my super duper religious mum keeps asking me if I met a 'decent' guy to marry. She keeps telling me that I am 19 and that when she was my age she used to shukaansi all guys in the town. I told her that shukaansi was haram. She told me that it is not haram if you don't elope together and is only on the basis of getting to know each other What do you guys think, is shukaansi haram?

I think what she meaned is start shukaansi now. When you are 25-30 and ready to marry, then you have few man you was monitoring few years,

and you learned them very well their behavior, and you can filter the boys from the men. Theres somali say "gabadha 1000 nin bay shukaamisaa mid bay kala baxdaa"
The best time to get to knw someone is when you are in school and uni. They cant fake their shit. Haddii kale you will end with an äss eater KKKK and you becoming single mother.

 

[B-is-the-code]

By then you missed out as women secured the market already and all your potential options are married

Ahaha Then they start to complain about there is no good somali men
Then they got no option but an ass eater and gangbanger