this is the most depressive thing i have read all week.
Jamila GORDON a Successful Somali woman MAYBE an example of the benefits of marrying AJNABI!
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VixR
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What you're doing is projecting your insecurities onto the people in the article, in the sense that you're announcing your disposition disallows you from being a decent partner on the premise of the possibility that it'll go unappreciated, or even scorned, whilst, at the same time, championing this mediocrity and poverty of thought in others by speaking to the inadequacy chasm of the human mind. Crab mentality. Shame on you.I have no interest in continuing this useless back and forth about whose to blame, so feel free to yell into the echo chamber with all of the other ladies about "faraaxs ain't shit".
But the people who are objective will see and acknowledge the reality. Even if you had an extremely leftist faraax like @Bielsa who would gladly finance her education and support her in her career aspirations, she would have likely taken the same trajectory as mentioned above and take him for granted. You know it, I know it, everyone knows it. But instead you had to deflect and go on a rant about how faraaxs ain't shit and how women are oppressed as if I justified any of that behaviour.
Carry on.
I know. It happens.
Gambar
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Why must the jilbab be suugo stained?Would she have done all of this for a faraax who sponsored her and helped fund her education? Or would she have gladly divorced him once it became profitable, blow up to 350 lbs, wear a suugo-strained jilbaab living off of child support and child tax benefits despite years of him supporting her and subsidizing her entire laf back home?
I'm no xalimo basher, but let's not fool ourselves that a faraax would get this same treatment.
Mar mar uunsi ba la isaga shidaa.
Mohamud
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They seem happy. Anyone interested in the qabil? She is an CEO, so no L catching
Lovely couple.
Playing the armchair psychologist now? Fresh from a psych 101 course, I take it?
Before you go all Freud on me, I would first like to mention how it's you who is clearly on the defensive here and referring to the OP, who is a known clown and degenerate, as a good and balanced man all for his praise of this union as my nephew @Mohamud astutely noted.
It's a fact that anyone with adequate experience in the Somali community that a lot of xalimos sadly have a complex regarding themselves, and on average treat their ajnabi husbands and kids far better than they would a Somali husband and Somali kids. Notice how none of the other xalimos who usually ignite those gender wars responded to it, because they know it doesn't apply to them. It's pretty clear who the insecure one with the complex here is.
who would ever prefer that wtfWould she have done all of this for a faraax who sponsored her and helped fund her education? Or would she have gladly divorced him once it became profitable, blow up to 350 lbs, wear a suugo-strained jilbaab living off of child support and child tax benefits despite years of him supporting her and subsidizing her entire laf back home?
I'm no xalimo basher, but let's not fool ourselves that a faraax would get this same treatment.
Mohamud
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I bet you can't even see your toes you gargantuan f*ck you
Why do you hate the Johnson?
i think u guys are onto something, it really bothers him when yu call him fat, he must be really fat irlI bet you can't even see your toes you gargantuan f*ck you
VixR
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Why would they respond to it? It's the typical Farah suugo-stain retort that even I've seen several times, but wanted to dig deeper on it this time to see what you meant by "would she have done all that for a Faraax", only for it to turn out that by "all that" you just meant staying with him, which is the only thing you could deduce from her causal and relaxed, yet unenhanced appearance with him in the photographPlaying the armchair psychologist now? Fresh from a psych 101 course, I take it?
Before you go all Freud on me, I would first like to mention how it's you who is clearly on the defensive here and referring to the OP, who is a known clown and degenerate, as a good and balanced man all for his praise of this union as my nephew @Mohamud astutely noted.
It's a fact that anyone with adequate experience in the Somali community that a lot of xalimos sadly have a complex regarding themselves, and on average treat their ajnabi husbands and kids far better than they would a Somali husband and Somali kids. Notice how none of the other xalimos who usually ignite those gender wars responded to it, because they know it doesn't apply to them. It's pretty clear who the insecure one with the complex here is.
Mohamud
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f*ck it let's scrap. Pick a place.
Why would they respond to it? It's the typical Farah suugo-stain retort that even I've seen several times, but wanted to dig deeper on it this time to see what you meant by "would she have done all that for a Faraax", only for it to turn out that by "all that" you just meant staying with him, which is the only thing you could deduce from her causal and relaxed, yet unenhanced appearance with him in the photograph
Or, it's more likely the fact she's a relatively attractive and fit woman for her age in comparison to her Somali contemporaries and also a senior tech executive and is almost certainly not putting all of that income into some mutual fund for herself. and not pulling her weight around the household That man is winning, can't hate.
But let's not act like most Somali women with the opportunities for education and a husband who is open to them working outside of the home are carrying themselves like that in their relationships.
VixR
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Hands down the most hilarious post you've alifed yet in its sheer, bellylaughing contradiction to everything you've ever expressed on the subjects of marriage and career-womenOr, it's more likely the fact she's a relatively attractive and fit woman for her age in comparison to her Somali contemporaries and also a senior tech executive and is almost certainly not putting all of that income into some mutual fund for herself. and not pulling her weight around the household That man is winning, can't hate.
But let's not act like most Somali women with the opportunities for education and a husband who is open to them working outside of the home are carrying themselves like that in their relationships.
As for me, I know the required reality for the type of partnership my aspirations require and I know it isn't such a common sight to behold.
Hands down the most hilarious post you've alifed yet in its sheer, bellylaughing contradiction to everything you've ever expressed on the subjects of marriage and career-women
As for me, I know the required reality for the type of partnership my aspirations require and I know it isn't such a common sight to behold.
We all have our individual preferences. A careerist woman like her may not be the one for me, but I'm sure a lot of the western raised faraaxs who value that sort of thing she is the ideal wife.
I generally believe many of these households are inherently unstable and most people deep down prefer the traditional way of things, and the stats seem to support it. This is due large in part to how costs of living have soared across the west while incomes declined, forcing people to bring home two incomes just to get by. Perhaps you will be among the fortunate few who buck that trend.
Ah yes, the good old, often used by Self-hating Asian women, racist excuse of "Wyt man, he free me! Wyt man no bad sexist!"
Let's ignore all the young Somali couples who have both spouses working. Let's ignore all the white western couples where the wife takes time off from work or a "career break" to look after the kids. Let's never offer balanced and educated opinions. Let's just emotionally project our daddy-issues onto the internet and paint a whole group of people with the answer brush.
VixR
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First off, get the flying f*ck off Asian womens' backs you whiny, little malcontents. Goddamn, wtf is it about Somalispotters and "self-hating" Asian women everywhere on here ffs!Ah yes, the good old, often used by Self-hating Asian women, racist excuse of "Wyt man, he free me! Wyt man no bad sexist!"
Let's ignore all the young Somali couples who have both spouses working. Let's ignore all the white western couples where the wife takes time off from work or a "career break" to look after the kids. Let's never offer balanced and educated opinions. Let's just emotionally project our daddy-issues onto the internet and paint a whole group of people with the answer brush.
It's about ignoring anything, but about the prevelence of these types views and mindsets of the our community, and how career women are typically viewed, and the support is rare. My mother only part-time for most of her working life, but I wasn't blind to how people would perceive even that, nevermind the projections thrown towards the fullblown careerwoman that was the only fucking Somali doctor in town, and how despite her stature and looks, she remained single and couldn't find anybody worth a damn, the gossip surrounding her detailing where she went wrong until she moved. My parents have already tried me with the whole meet-up thing that elders arrange through family connections, whom I was pressed into meeting, and those young men didn't want a careerwoman, they wanted a pretty, little stay-at-home with no ambitions and two soccer teams. And then you have your quarterly, "will you let your wife work" threads written by anything from 17 year old boys to 20somethings, and threads eschewing women who work, and all the things I've heard expressed and preached about a woman's place within a marriage, on which there are no inconsistencies, all of it fitting like a puzzle piece into what I've gathered and been told all this while, and rightfully know that it would be extremely hard to find someone who can jive with the lifestyle I want to create for myself isn't lost on me, it's abundantly clear! The level of butthurt people display on here for stating realities, and the boucing back with "ze daddy issues" as your back pocket prescription just bc you have no meter to deal with it. Nacala, go screw yourself warya. You did make me laugh with your handy dandy daddy prescription you reach for without fail!
Oh shit, I hit too close to home. I got the perpetual Mrs "I don't care" in a hissy fit. Nobody cares about your views or experiences, but please just have the common sense to know it isn't universal.
OmarLittle
Not your typical Farah
It makes sense. What are the odds of her meeting another Somali male executive? Very slim. Why would she marry an average guy or a Farah? Lol.
Great success story though.
Great success story though.
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