First off, get the flying f*ck off Asian womens' backs you whiny, little malcontents. Goddamn, wtf is it about Somalispotters and "self-hating" Asian women everywhere on here ffs!
It's about ignoring anything, but about the prevelence of these types views and mindsets of the our community, and how career women are typically viewed, and the support is rare. My mother only part-time for most of her working life, but I wasn't blind to how people would perceive even that, nevermind the projections thrown towards the fullblown careerwoman that was the only fucking Somali doctor in town, and how despite her stature and looks, she remained single and couldn't find anybody worth a damn, the gossip surrounding her detailing where she went wrong until she moved. My parents have already tried me with the whole meet-up thing that elders arrange through family connections, whom I was pressed into meeting, and those young men didn't want a careerwoman, they wanted a pretty, little stay-at-home with no ambitions and two soccer teams. And then you have your quarterly, "will you let your wife work" threads written by anything from 17 year old boys to 20somethings, and threads eschewing women who work, and all the things I've heard expressed and preached about a woman's place within a marriage, on which there are no inconsistencies, all of it fitting like a puzzle piece into what I've gathered and been told all this while, and rightfully know that it would be extremely hard to find someone who can jive with the lifestyle I want to create for myself isn't lost on me, it's abundantly clear! The level of butthurt people display on here for stating realities, and the boucing back with "ze daddy issues" as your back pocket prescription just bc you have no meter to deal with it. Nacala, go screw yourself warya. You did make me laugh with your handy dandy daddy prescription you reach for without fail!
