Jamila GORDON a Successful Somali woman MAYBE an example of the benefits of marrying AJNABI!

[Prince Abubu]

This isn't about the universe, it's about Somalis

Are you dense or being purposely obtuse? I used the term 'universal' in reference to the attempts of you and the other airheads on here to paint every negative experience with somali men as a common occurrence indicative of the problems Somali masculinity, chauvinism, sexism etc., rather than just like...your opinion man.

Your failed and frustrated attempts at meeting a Somali man that fulfills your every need and ticks every box hasn't nothing to do with me.

 

[Assata]

Now this is a good example of a healthy ajanabi relationship.


More power to the sister she deserves it.


I'll stick with my own kind tho.

 

[VixR]

Are you dense or being purposely obtuse? I used the term 'universal' in reference to the attempts of you and the other airheads on here to paint every negative experience with somali men as a common occurrence indicative of the problems Somali masculinity, chauvinism, sexism etc., rather than just like...your opinion man.

Your failed and frustrated attempts at meeting a Somali man that fulfills your every need and ticks every box hasn't nothing to do with me.

It's not just, "my opinion, man", these are commonalities. That you can't deal with the prevalence and very existence of these common threads, themes and mindsets without attaching yourself at its seams dually isn't my problem either

 

[Prince Abubu]

It's not just, "my opinion, man", these are commonalities. That you can't deal with the prevalence and very existence of these common threads, themes and mindsets without attaching yourself at its seams dually isn't my problem either

Ain't that convenient? Every negative Xaliimo stereotype is exaggerated but every negative Faarax stereotype is an objective reflection of reality. Go back to school.

 

[Assata]

It's not just, "my opinion, man", these are commonalities. That you can't deal with the prevalence and very existence of these common threads, themes and mindsets without attaching yourself at its seams dually isn't my problem either

The ajanabi marriage hating 3 musketeers along with some faraxs on here get triggered whenever they see a good ajanabi relationship.

It's really sad when they go on and on wailing about '25 cents/apple mehrs'.

 

[Prince Abubu]

The ajanabi marriage hating 3 musketeers along with some faraxs on here get triggered whenever they see a good ajanabi relationship.

It's really sad when they go on and on wailing about '25 cents/apple mehrs'.

Nobody cares what you marry. You're not that important, get over yourselves.

Just keep us guys out of your mouths, is that hard?

 

[Assata]

Nobody cares what you marry. You're not that important, get over yourselves.

Just keep us guys out of your mouths, is that hard?

Funny considering I didn't @ you in this post.


And I have to deal with the qaashin you and your 2 sidekicks have spread all over this website.


I'm sorry you're just a lowly qaashin stuck on the bottom of somebody's shoe.

But don't ever try me again I'm very important.

The most important person you'll ever have the honor of quoting again.

 

[Prince Abubu]

Funny considering I didn't @ you in this post.


And I have to deal with the qaashin you and your 2 sidekicks have spread all over this website.


I'm sorry you're just a lowly qaashin stuck on the bottom of somebody's shoe.

But don't ever try me again I'm very important.

The most important person you'll ever have the honor of quoting again.

I'm sorry, can you speak in plain English. I forgot my copy of the Ghetto/Foblish dictionary today.

 

[VixR]

Ain't that convenient? Every negative Xaliimo stereotype is exaggerated but every negative Faarax stereotype is an objective reflection of reality. Go back to school.

I'm not done with school yet. And I don't remember saying anything of the kind @the bold that you're randomly characterizing me with

Unfortunately for you, I don't participate in your little online faraax vs xaliimo beefs, so you can miss me with all that bullshit, and while you're at it, I wholesale object to being called a xalimo.

The ajanabi marriage hating 3 musketeers along with some faraxs on here get triggered whenever they see a good ajanabi relationship.

It's really sad when they go on and on wailing about '25 cents/apple mehrs'.

I don't really care how they feel about ajnabi relationships, but when they're painting career choices and community stigmas as daddy issues, you must know you've firmly stepped into cuckoo land. Confused lot!

 

[Prince Abubu]

I'm not done with school yet. And I don't remember saying anything of the kind @the bold that you're randomly characterizing me with

Unfortunately for you, I don't participate in your little online faraax vs xaliimo beefs, so you can miss me with all that bullshit, and while you're at it, I wholesale object to being called a xalimo.

I don't really care how they feel about ajnabi relationships, but when they're painting career choices and community stigmas as daddy issues, you must know you've firmly stepped into cuckoo land. Confused lot!

Where did I say this? Is that what you got from what I said?

I was joking about school before, but seriously now, I think you need to punch whoever is responsible for your education in throat.:siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Cotton Eyed Joe]

@she would be as successful with a Somali husband

 

[dhegdheer]

Wow what a journey, it's amazing what she's made of herself. Truly an inspiration

Also @ everyone reducing her to marrying ajnabi nacala, how about u xoolo read the article

 

[VixR]

Where did I say this? Is that what you got from what I said?

I was joking about school before, but seriously now, I think you need to punch whoever is responsible for your education in throat.:siilaanyolaugh:

Are you bipolar? What did you think you were responding to?

This guy is a complete joke. Let's see if mockery of my education puts a dent into my GPA or intelligence, or helps you affirm your triggered sense of self

 

[Prince Abubu]

Are you bipolar? What did you think you were responding to?

This guy is a complete joke. Let's see if mockery of my education puts a dent into my GPA or intelligence, or helps you affirm your triggered sense of self

I've already stated my problem, please feel free to read what I wrote above.

I'm wasn't mocking you but genuinely concerned about what passes for education in the states.

 

[VixR]

I've already stated my problem, please feel free to read what I wrote above.

I'm wasn't mocking you but genuinely concerned about what passes for education in the states.

I'm not taking the bait on that US vs Brexitland education debate

You sport your daddy-issues card like a sleeve, to the point that my response to @Jubba-man led you to supplant the idea that I have daddy issues into a conversation about careerwomen and community, where it had no business being! Any criticism of ideas that remotely challenges common themes and involves Somali men triggers you to your core, and you feel that any criticism of that nature bespeaks some kind of bad relationship with the speaker's father. I'm sorry, but not sorry, to disappoint you.

Don't you ever bring up my father through the terms "daddy-issues" to me ever again, thank you very much.

 

[Mudug-Madman]

First off, get the flying f*ck off Asian womens' backs you whiny, little malcontents. Goddamn, wtf is it about Somalispotters and "self-hating" Asian women everywhere on here ffs!

It's about ignoring anything, but about the prevelence of these types views and mindsets of the our community, and how career women are typically viewed, and the support is rare. My mother only part-time for most of her working life, but I wasn't blind to how people would perceive even that, nevermind the projections thrown towards the fullblown careerwoman that was the only fucking Somali doctor in town, and how despite her stature and looks, she remained single and couldn't find anybody worth a damn, the gossip surrounding her detailing where she went wrong until she moved. My parents have already tried me with the whole meet-up thing that elders arrange through family connections, whom I was pressed into meeting, and those young men didn't want a careerwoman, they wanted a pretty, little stay-at-home with no ambitions and two soccer teams. And then you have your quarterly, "will you let your wife work" threads written by anything from 17 year old boys to 20somethings, and threads eschewing women who work, and all the things I've heard expressed and preached about a woman's place within a marriage, on which there are no inconsistencies, all of it fitting like a puzzle piece into what I've gathered and been told all this while, and rightfully know that it would be extremely hard to find someone who can jive with the lifestyle I want to create for myself isn't lost on me, it's abundantly clear! The level of butthurt people display on here for stating realities, and the boucing back with "ze daddy issues" as your back pocket prescription just bc you have no meter to deal with it. Nacala, go screw yourself warya. You did make me laugh with your handy dandy daddy prescription you reach for without fail!

The cavemen your parents set you up with are not representative of all young Somali men. Most don't give a f*ck if their spouse works. And this board is full of trolls and people looking to stir controversy/get a reaction. Stop using a handful of personal interactions/anecdotes to paint all Somali men with a wide brush. Do you go to university? How about you try speaking with the Somali dudes there, and ask them about this topic. I guarantee you the answers you receive will me markedly different.

 

[VixR]

The cavemen your parents set you up with are not representative of all young Somali men. Most don't give a f*ck if their spouse works. And this board is full of trolls and people looking to stir controversy/get a reaction. Stop using a handful of personal interactions/anecdotes to paint all Somali men with a wide brush. Do you go to university? How about you try speaking with the Somali dudes there, and ask them about this topic. I guarantee you the answers you receive will me markedly different.

I think you're being dismissive. I'm not judgmental of people who want that kind of lifestyle, I wouldn't even go so far as to call them cavemen, but the fact of the matter is, it's the default position and a common theme, even among young people, and my career choice is rigorous. I'm not saying, "there are none out there", but to say they're not reprensentative is a misrepresentation, you have to admit.

I think people on this thread have discredited the importance of a spouse that's a teamplayer, and the impact a present and mutually supportive partnership can yield.

 

[dhegdheer]

Lmaooo wait I thought u all wanted ur wives to work part time as soon as y'all have kids, but now it's all 'oh most faraaxs would be happy to support ha career'

She'd never get to CEO level working part time

First off, get the flying f*ck off Asian womens' backs you whiny, little malcontents. Goddamn, wtf is it about Somalispotters and "self-hating" Asian women everywhere on here ffs!

It's about ignoring anything, but about the prevelence of these types views and mindsets of the our community, and how career women are typically viewed, and the support is rare. My mother only part-time for most of her working life, but I wasn't blind to how people would perceive even that, nevermind the projections thrown towards the fullblown careerwoman that was the only fucking Somali doctor in town, and how despite her stature and looks, she remained single and couldn't find anybody worth a damn, the gossip surrounding her detailing where she went wrong until she moved. My parents have already tried me with the whole meet-up thing that elders arrange through family connections, whom I was pressed into meeting, and those young men didn't want a careerwoman, they wanted a pretty, little stay-at-home with no ambitions and two soccer teams. And then you have your quarterly, "will you let your wife work" threads written by anything from 17 year old boys to 20somethings, and threads eschewing women who work, and all the things I've heard expressed and preached about a woman's place within a marriage, on which there are no inconsistencies, all of it fitting like a puzzle piece into what I've gathered and been told all this while, and rightfully know that it would be extremely hard to find someone who can jive with the lifestyle I want to create for myself isn't lost on me, it's abundantly clear! The level of butthurt people display on here for stating realities, and the boucing back with "ze daddy issues" as your back pocket prescription just bc you have no meter to deal with it. Nacala, go screw yourself warya. You did make me laugh with your handy dandy daddy prescription you reach for without fail!

Why do ppl on here always act brand new
i swear it hasn't even been a month since the last 'career women are shaytaans invented by Western feminism to corrupt our wimminz' post

 

[Tramo]

Not necessarily. Ilhan Omar is married to a Somali man

or 3 :siilaanyolaugh:

 

[VixR]

Lmaooo wait I thought u all wanted ur wives to work part time as soon as y'all have kids, but now it's all 'oh most faraaxs would be happy to support ha career'

She'd never get to CEO level working part time



Why do ppl on here always act brand new
i swear it hasn't even been a month since the last 'career women are shaytaans invented by Western feminism to corrupt our wimminz' post

I know right!
They turn around pretend that even they aren't being called cucks and boys by the majority who express these views on the regular