Stop being so nosy, the guy had a life before you
Alhamdullilah it was less than 2 weeks of talking so I’m not that upset but it’s like WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS?!?!?! My naivness in thinking that men that display themselves as religious and are hafidhs are always good men.I’d tell you to log into his Snapchat too but I don’t want to leave you with no appetite sis
Abaayo mufti menk follows nicki minaj. That should tell you enough.Alhamdullilah it was less than 2 weeks of talking so I’m not that upset but it’s like WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS?!?!?! My naivness in thinking that men that display themselves as religious and are hafidhs are always good men.
You need a man like me who is a virgin and believes the body is a temple that must only be paired with the right individual. Unfortunately for you I’m not attracted to Somali women so I suggest making a visit to your nearest masjid for spiritual guidance.I know nothing about his past and I believed him when he said he’s never dated or been in a relationship before.
However, this man is following women that make adult content and his most recent follows/likes on IG are from this trip he just came back from and welp you guess what i just saw
tbh the dudes who are self proclaimed sheiks and super religious are usually the freakiest dudes on the planet
Abaayo mufti menk follows nicki minaj. That should tell you enough.
They show you what they think you're looking for.Alhamdullilah it was less than 2 weeks of talking so I’m not that upset but it’s like WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS?!?!?! My naivness in thinking that men that display themselves as religious and are hafidhs are always good men.
Where did you meet this weird fellowI know nothing about his past and I believed him when he said he’s never dated or been in a relationship before.
However, this man is following women that make adult content and his most recent follows/likes on IG are from this trip he just came back from and welp you guess what i just saw
MuzzWhere did you meet this weird fellow
awww my deepest sympathies walaasheyMuzz
Always do background checks don't be naive. Being a hafith means nothing it's just memorising and most of them don't even know or understand what they have memorised. Being "religious" (a lot of people portray themselves as pious but there not) doesn't mean they are free of sin we are all human after all. So make sure you always do a background check no matter what otherwise you will end up regretting it.Alhamdullilah it was less than 2 weeks of talking so I’m not that upset but it’s like WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS?!?!?! My naivness in thinking that men that display themselves as religious and are hafidhs are always good men.
Mufti menk is a public figure that's different I believe she follows him and watches his stuff so there was a lot of buzz around it when people found out she was following him so to make a point he followed her back it all public. It's not like the average guy following these girls for his own entertainment.Abaayo mufti menk follows nicki minaj. That should tell you enough.
To me being religious means doing all the fardh and having good akhlaaq and adab in public but more importantly in private. Treating people the way you want to be treated. Doing your best to stay away from sin and lowering your gaze. Pretty much the basics + having your actions match your words.Always do background checks don't be naive. Being a hafith means nothing it's just memorising and most of them don't even know or understand what they have memorised. Being "religious" (a lot of people portray themselves as pious but there not) doesn't mean they are free of sin we are all human after all. So make sure you always do a background check no matter what otherwise you will end up regretting it.
What do you even consider a religious man because I know the difference and it really easy to tell I don't know how women can be so blind sometimes yet so perspective when it suites them.
Good but you should have seen this before giving him a chance or at the start when you where first getting to know him this is day one information you should be seeking.To me being religious means doing all the fardh and having good akhlaaq and adab in public but more importantly in private. Treating people the way you want to be treated. Doing your best to stay away from sin and lowering your gaze. Pretty much the basics + having your actions match your words.
Now this man was following close to 1K people on IG and I will give credit that 95% of the people he were following were men. But I think publicly following women who do OF and make adult content shows you have no xishood and liking explicit pics/videos that are basically soft p*rn… like please where is the shame. Also this wasn’t a long time ago, it was less than a week ago he followed these 2 girls while in vegas for nba summer league.
Had he struggled with this privately i would have sympathy for him and it would be a different story. But now that I know this part of him, my opinion of his character has changed and I can’t erase it.