I should ask a man for his IG on day 1? wouldn’t that be weird ??Good but you should have seen this before giving him a chance or at the start when you where first getting to know him this is day one information you should be seeking.
I should ask a man for his IG on day 1? wouldn’t that be weird ??Good but you should have seen this before giving him a chance or at the start when you where first getting to know him this is day one information you should be seeking.
No I mean find out what all his socials are on your own basically investigate ask around about him I'm sure someone knows his Ig for example around him. If you have brothers get them to do it for you and observe his circle of friends because he is only going to chill with like minded individuals. If there all wannabes gangsters then maybe that's a hint that he isn't pious after all. If there going around flirting with girls or talking about filth then avoid him altogether.I should ask a man for his IG on day 1? wouldn’t that be weird ??
That’s probably why…Muzz
Sometimes its so easy to do background check on a person these days. My parents introduced me to a guy they claimed was a sheikh until I discovered his fb and saw that he was following a bunch of women dressed inappropriately. I ended things that same day. Good riddance to qashin.
Sometimes I wonder if they actually want to find out who they really are though, without actually telling you. Because, how can they not know a potential wont check the people you follow on sm. Maybe theyre hoping you will accept them as theyre. Allahu Aclam.
Count your blessings Allah revealed who he is sooner.
Wasn’t this just youStop being so nosy, the guy had a life before you
Good men deserve good women. She’s for street and should go back where she came. Allah loves him, he saved him before it was too late
Girl this has happened to me before. A few were just starting or just in my dms, and like 2 were actually talking.
Listen… i just need a normal quiet guyThe fact that you had a go through his following list speaks volumes
1k followers at that. You went through the whole list huh
Don’t listen to that individual. He’s trying to make you seem crazy when you were being smart and saving yourself future pain. Says more about him that he is judging you for being careful.Listen… i just need a normal quiet guy
Are you taking shots at meDon’t listen to that individual. He’s trying to make you seem crazy when you were being smart and saving yourself future pain. Says more about him that he is judging you for being careful.
Are you taking shots at me
Sure thing palNo, I’m speaking the truth. I don’t shy away from that.
Exaactly!! I’m not a doqon. I do background checks and stalk all the guys I talk to on social media. He said he didnt think I would judge him of his instagram but walal the content you consume is what occupies your heart and mind. Struggling with your gaze privately is one thing, but publicly liking posts?? Loooool I can’t be with someone who has no self-control or shame.Don’t listen to that individual. He’s trying to make you seem crazy when you were being smart and saving yourself future pain. Says more about him that he is judging you for being careful.
If I had social media, I would use it to investigate cause we are living in times of extreme fitnah. A woman has to do all she can to protect herself from losers.
Aint you supposed to be on vacation walal?Sure thing pal
View attachment 231367
Does that mean I can’t be on here ?Aint you supposed to be on vacation walal?
Dang. i hope they’re taking you out at night at least! If not, then drop them little kids of with your other relatives or at dugsi.Does that mean I can’t be on here ?
I’m here stuck with little kids doing babysitting duty while on vacation right now. My older cousins taking advantage of me
Not many Will be upfront and honest with you just cause someone is hafidh or religious dont mean they good I know a guy whose a hafidh and his dad is a sheekh the guy got drunk and ambulance had to come pump his stomach or else he would die from alcohol poisoningAlhamdullilah it was less than 2 weeks of talking so I’m not that upset but it’s like WHY ARE YOU LIKE THIS?!?!?! My naivness in thinking that men that display themselves as religious and are hafidhs are always good men.
If the roles where reversed Id doubt you would continue talking to someone who says theyre religious but at same time they liking pictures of the opposite sexThe fact that you had a go through his following list speaks volumes
1k followers at that. You went through the whole list huh
Listen… i just need a normal quiet guy
ngl having social media is an immediate red flagExaactly!! I’m not a doqon. I do background checks and stalk all the guys I talk to on social media. He said he didnt think I would judge him of his instagram but walal the content you consume is what occupies your heart and mind. Struggling with your gaze privately is one thing, but publicly liking posts?? Loooool I can’t be with someone who has no self-control or shame.