Lol when you uphold other people’s beauty standards. Ohh the cuckery.

[Farhiya 687]

It’s anonymous134, remember that pick me girl.. the girl thinks she will find her true love on Somalispot.

Um what? I made this account like at the end of 2017 lol I don’t remember. If I were a pick me chick wouldn’t I be extremely bias AF. You can’t tear down half the population and expect things to be fine. I said this to guys too they can’t degrade women/girls. And think that’s fair wtf.

 

[NAAFO]

Sis I appreciate your deep and insightful post but we cannot fox anything unless we identify the problem. You mentioned Hodan but who was it that killed her? Ofcourse it was a Somali man.

Somalia and Afghanistan have a deep rooted patriarchal society and these two places are listed as the worst places to live for everyone.

In order to rebuild our country we need to break down the system that led us to this. Would you disagree with anything I’ve said?

@Knowles Your logic is faulty its basically "a sister died recently (Hodan) at the hands of a Somali man therefore its the fault of Somali men" Which is wrong for so many reasons because her husband also died at the hands of a rebel is that his fault that him and his wife died but by your logic its the fault of all somali men instead of making distinctions between people especially men you need to understand that a lot of these rebel groups recruit young men who are under every law whether secular law or Islamic law are still boys/children are you saying these children are evil for simply being males you need to put aside what you've read/learned in a gender studies class and we're nothing like the Afghans who's custom it is to f*ck Bacha boys and practice marrital rape every culture has a patriarchy even whites/Europeans use to burn their women at the stake and accuse them of being witches for simply having their menstruel cycles which viewed as supernatural phenomenon and satanic

 

[NAAFO]

Thanks. Aww that’s sad I wish her all the best.

@Farhiya 687 Your a great somali sister Mash'Allah, Wallahi if your posts are any indication you seem reasonable, intelligent, & most importantly objective you don't seem like the type of person who is susceptible to certain ideologies and regurgitates the opinions of others without thinking if these agendas represent them or their people and are harmful to them in any way, Mash'Allah we should empower sisters like you who are clearly critical thinkers Mash'Allah

 

[Schematics]

Being ugly on the inside is worse.

Unfortunately, the outward looks are what attract people to you first. The phrase "first impressions matter" was born out of that reality. Before you speak, you were judged partially already.

Granted there are some universal standards for female beauty, judging beauty and ugliness are both subjective descriptions. . From a male perspective, the beauty of the woman relates to her sex appeal most of the time. How her body is curved and the contours it has play a huge role in a man's analysis of a woman's good looks. Occasionally, on my way to lunch and off the train, I miss a step because I am taking in all those details on a female who just walked out of a store and cut in front of me. I try not to be caught murmuring "Damn!". That would be embarrassing and signal desperation right? But there I am helpless and reacting. Can't help it when you see a flaming hot gazelle in tight jeans and a t-shirt who intentionally put her phone on her back pocket exactly to highlight her rumps.


PS: What timo Madow said about males is accurate. A guy can have average or below average facial features and yet be considered handsome by most women if he has strength and firm body. There are males who can be called Beautiful but it is not something men are comfortable with. Most males prefer healthy body and agility over soft facial features.

 

[Tukraq]

The dumbest thread, you don’t consciously pick what your attracted to it happens naturally

 

[The alchemist]

The dumbest thread, you don’t consciously pick what your attracted to it happens naturally

Both.

 

[Halimo-2018]

Unfortunately, the outward looks are what attract people to you first. The phrase "first impressions matter" was born out of that reality. Before you speak, you were judged partially already.

Granted there are some universal standards for female beauty, judging beauty and ugliness are both subjective descriptions. . From a male perspective, the beauty of the woman relates to her sex appeal most of the time. How her body is curved and the contours it has play a huge role in a man's analysis of a woman's good looks. Occasionally, on my way to lunch and off the train, I miss a step because I am taking in all those details on a female who just walked out of a store and cut in front of me. I try not to be caught murmuring "Damn!". That would be embarrassing and signal desperation right? But there I am helpless and reacting. Can't help it when you see a flaming hot gazelle in tight jeans and a t-shirt who intentionally put her phone on her back pocket exactly to highlight her rumps.


PS: What timo Madow said about males is accurate. A guy can have average or below average facial features and yet be considered handsome by most women if he has strength and firm body. There are males who can be called Beautiful but it is not something men are comfortable with. Most males prefer healthy body and agility over soft facial features.

This is why i intentionally try to out look how someone looks and go by how they treat others. Looks are captivating for only for a matter of time then you really dont see it anymore.

 

[Farhiya 687]

The dumbest thread, you don’t consciously pick what your attracted to it happens naturally

Lol I clearly stated beauty standards. Again please find where I said “Omg wtf why are you attracted to them stop it”. Talking about blinding following standards that aren’t yours. Maybe this wasn’t for you to see.

 

[Farhiya 687]

@Farhiya 687 Your a great somali sister Mash'Allah, Wallahi if your posts are any indication you seem reasonable, intelligent, & most importantly objective you don't seem like the type of person who is susceptible to certain ideologies and regurgitates the opinions of others without thinking if these agendas represent them or their people and are harmful to them in any way, Mash'Allah we should empower sisters like you who are clearly critical thinkers Mash'Allah

Thanks you seem great yourself. All the best.

 

[TekNiKo]

@Farhiya 687 Your a great somali sister Mash'Allah, Wallahi if your posts are any indication you seem reasonable, intelligent, & most importantly objective you don't seem like the type of person who is susceptible to certain ideologies and regurgitates the opinions of others without thinking if these agendas represent them or their people and are harmful to them in any way, Mash'Allah we should empower sisters like you who are clearly critical thinkers Mash'Allah

You know your name naafo means handicap in Somal right? Weird name.

 

[NAAFO]

You know your name naafo means handicap in Somal right? Weird name.

@TekNiKo Yes I know what it means brother that's the beauty of nicknames they can be as creative or controversial as you want especially Somali nicknames because Somali nicknames can funny in a dark way but maybe my nickname might be influenced by personal experience

 

[TekNiKo]

@TekNiKo Yes I know what it means brother that's the beauty of nicknames they can be as creative or controversial as you want especially Somali nicknames because Somali nicknames can funny in a dark way but maybe my nickname might be influenced by personal experience

Are you disabled?

 

[Tukraq]

Lol I clearly stated beauty standards. Again please find where I said “Omg wtf why are you attracted to them stop it”. Talking about blinding following standards that aren’t yours. Maybe this wasn’t for you to see.

you don't pick your beauty standards like I said, it happened naturally(as in what gets you erect/wet the most, you can't just randomly decide lol)

 

[Sophisticate]

you don't pick your beauty standards like I said, it happened naturally(as in what gets you erect/wet the most, you can't just randomly decide lol)

Men have greater rigidity than women in terms of their beauty standards. That's not to say exceptions don't occur. It's all relative.

 

[NAAFO]

Are you disabled?

@TekNiKo Why you asking brother? I'll tell you when you tell me your motivations?

 

[Farhiya 687]

you don't pick your beauty standards like I said, it happened naturally(as in what gets you erect/wet the most, you can't just randomly decide lol)

Lol. I get your point but I’m not talking about that.

I’ll give you an example. I have a friend he is beyond gorgeous and a really cool person. All his life he’s parents said he’s too dark to be attractive. Legit whenever I go places with him everyone is staring at him or smiling. But he think they’re judging him. When he introduced me to his parents ngl I hated them. For instilling this hatred into my friend. Now that you understand things abit deeper that passes.

All I’m saying is ok you’re influenced by different cultures. But feeling ashamed for something you can’t control. You shouldn’t. Like be proud being black, white, green etc.

 

[Farhiya 687]

you don't pick your beauty standards like I said, it happened naturally(as in what gets you erect/wet the most, you can't just randomly decide lol)

Lol. I get your point but I’m not talking about that.

I’ll give you an example. I have a friend he is gorgeous and a really cool person. All his life he’s parents said he’s too dark to be attractive. Legit whenever I go places with him everyone is staring at him or smiling. But he think they’re judging him. When he introduced me to his parents ngl I hated them. For instilling this hatred into my friend. Now that you understand things abit deeper that passes.

All I’m saying is ok you’re influenced by different cultures. But feeling ashamed for something you can’t control. You shouldn’t. Like be proud being black, white, green etc.