You should ask that question to @anonimo. I’m sure you’ve seen our interaction. The last part, no the guys here will simply accuse you of tugging on their conscious when you frame it close to home. Strange really when the very topic is about a social issue that can happen to any woman.Do you mean regarding the impermissibility of marital rape? It cannot be anything other than haram. However this ruling is circumvented by cultural considerations in many societies and not religious grounds. There is no difference of opinion that causing physical trauma to one's wife is impermissible, then how can marital rape which causes physical harm and many times even worse psychological trauma not be anything other than impermissible.
Pseudo online experts who secretly revel in seeing women harmed should not be any authority on religious matters. I suspect they would change their tune really quickly if it was their sister married to an abusive husband. But that's the hypocrisy you would expect.