Well most of the criteria for modesty for men is already done by us. Men don't have such strict rules for appearance that women do.Is it right for Muslim women to be attacked in public for looking Muslim but Muslim men are just blending in?
This doesn't sit well with me.
Both genders should look and behave like Muslims in public.
Do you know how many Muslim women have been assaulted and bullied in public? May Allah protect all hijabis and men who actually look Muslim in public.
Women have strict rules because it's for their own benefit, society treats women differently to men because women are different to men. Simple.
I'm not really sure why you think men aren't doing enough.