My friend came out and is texting me

[Fratello]

It’s not sus if you’ve already came out

 

[Geelraac]

.

Wallahi i can relate

 

[Basra]

i know this one farah whos gay but is in the closet. I found out after using his phone to call someone and i ended up seeing some stuff on his phone. He came clean to me and told me he was gay and not to expose him. Ive been thinking about it for the past week and i havent come to a conclusion on what to do. Hes always texting me and saying he never told anyone about his sexuality and that i could be a great pillar of support. He cried on the phone cause i didnt pick up his call even though i was at work and he thought i dumped him and that i was mad. He said he wouldve killed himself if i exposed him cause he dosent want to be ostracised by somali community. Im in a dillema right now i only asked this guy for his phone to make a call and now he sees me as a therapist and cries over the phone when he talks to me. This is too much for me right now. idk what to do. Just to let u know this guy is a educated guy with good career and a honest man. I always thought he was a good guy. I never once thought he was gay but he was a bit soft though. All of a sudden he tells me his gay and releases all his pent up emotions on me. I my self might go insane if he continues with his behavior.

tell him u r also a lesbian


HA HA HA HA HA HA

 

[Shibbane]

Maybe there is a mismatch.

This person considers you a friend, but you don't think of the person as a friend but just an acquaintance.

It is good to clarify the boundaries.

Reassure the person that you will not expose them and if they make you uncomfortable, tell them they and you both need to move on from this issue.

In plain English: "I am not going to expose you. This is not my problem. Go deal with your problems, seek therapy, and leave me the hell alone".

 

[Octavian]

keep it to ur self
tell him to stop bothering u and to seek some help

 

[Octavian]

Do not out him, he’s clearly struggling and he could lose his family & community over this. Tell him that you need to distance yourself and advice him to see a scholar or get closer with his deen.

i thought u left ?

 

[Basra]

i thought u left ?

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

Hook him up with @486th President and call it a day

 

[Octavian]

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this was funny back in 2017 basra not anymore

 

[Basra]

this was funny back in 2017 basra not anymore

i curse u then

 

[Octavian]

i curse u then


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[Revolutionary]

tell him u r also a lesbian


HA HA HA HA HA HA

Basra aren't you a lesbian?

 

[Basra]

Thats sexual harassment

 

[Basra]

Basra aren't you a lesbian?

Kiir iyooo kuuut Eeedo.


Go sit down



Call @Royalflush for me would u hon

 

[Octavian]

Basra aren't you a lesbian?

the sspot suugo scientific community has yet to answer that question

 

[Basra]

the sspot suugo scientific community has yet to answer that question

u r such a divine creature

 

[Revolutionary]

u r such a divine creature

 

[Basra]

@Revolutionary r u fascinated by me? Tell me why

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

@Basra ii soo dir informationka

 

[Revolutionary]

@Revolutionary r u fascinated by me? Tell me why

You're very funny