My mom wants me to marry...

[Basra]

Guys my mom wanted me to marry this guy who lives in Somali, and I showed no interest. Now he is planning to marry, so he called my mom, and my mom seems to be angry at me for not showing interest at first. The guy has been calling our house twice, every day, and today I picked up the phone. He tried to start a conversation with me, and I tried to keep things short. After that he called again and asked my mom if he could live in one of the rooms in our house in Somalia, with his future wife.
I have recently started to talk to this other Somali guy(who lives in diaspora), and my mom got pissed since he is from a different clan. The whole thing is super uncomfortable and since corana is everywhere I have to spend 24/7 with a unhappy mom, who is trying to sabotage me and the diaspora guy from talking

Sorry I can't help u with advice.

 

[Qalanjo98]

Sorry I can't help u with advice.

Edo why are you like this?

 

[Basra]

Edo why are you like this?

Eedo I don't know, I can't explain it

 

[Sleepy Hollow]

His family are probably well connected politically and your family was hoping to use this marriage to gain it for themselves. Their probably keeping you in the dark about it because they know you wouldn't accept it so you got a whole spiel about culture and clan to guilt you into it.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Tell your mom my story, how my father thought a brother from Kenya was a good man. Turned out he was a broke alcoholic.

 

[Guled111]

I an turning 22 this year. I don’t want to marry someone from back home, I have worked to hard for me to end up as a housewife. I don’t really have any elder in the diaspora...

If the guy is ogaden don't worry walaal, is all good

 

[Guled111]

Tell your mom my story, how my father thought a brother from Kenya was a good man. Turned out he was a broke alcoholic.

Are you ogadeen nayaa?

 

[Qalanjo98]

Tell your mom my story, how my father thought a brother from Kenya was a good man. Turned out he was a broke alcoholic.

Wait what is your story?

 

[Qalanjo98]

Are you ogadeen nayaa?

Waryaa maa Ogaden dontaa ba ku hayaa?

 

[Qalanjo98]

His family are probably well connected politically and your family was hoping to use this marriage to gain it for themselves. Their probably keeping you in the dark about it because they know you wouldn't accept it so you got a whole spiel about culture and clan to guilt you into it.

Nah I actually met the guy last time I was in Somalia. His family are ordinary

 

[Qalanjo98]

Eedo I don't know, I can't explain it

Eedo I can be your friend if you need someone to talk to

 

[Marsh]

I an turning 22 this year. I don’t want to marry someone from back home, I have worked to hard for me to end up as a housewife. I don’t really have any elder in the diaspora...

"IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO LOOK INWARD AND START ASKING YOURSELF THE BIG QUESTION: WHO ARE YOU AND WHAT DO YOU WANT?"

 

[Guled111]

Waryaa maa Ogaden dontaa ba ku haysa?

Nin ogadeen waa macaan hunno, ee soo qabo

 

[Qalanjo98]

Nin ogadeen waa macaan hunno, ee soo qabo

That a no from me, jk I don’t have anything against Ogaden people

 

[Qalanjo98]

"IT'S TIME FOR YOU TO LOOK INWARD AND START ASKING YOURSELF THE BIG QUESTION: WHO ARE YOU AND WHAT DO YOU WANT?"

I know what I want, I just don’t know how to get my mom’s approval

 

[Sleepy Hollow]

Nah I actually met the guy last time I was in Somalia. His family are ordinary

Then why in the world does your family want you marrying a broke dude

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Wait what is your story?

My father meet a guy in the mosque , wearing a white khamis , he told my dad he was looking for a wife and that he's a accountant. My dad recommend him me.....my father told me he meet someone who he liked & gave me his number to talk with , I didn't ever call him. The guy I found out a few month later was homeless and he was 35 years old who liked drinking.

 

[Guled111]

That a no from me, jk I don’t have anything against Ogaden people

Me making dua she gets 10 ogaden kids in the future

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Are you ogadeen nayaa?

I'm not, I'm gadabursi.

 

[Figo]

Guys my mom wanted me to marry this guy who lives in Somali, and I showed no interest. Now he is planning to marry, so he called my mom, and my mom seems to be angry at me for not showing interest at first. The guy has been calling our house twice, every day, and today I picked up the phone. He tried to start a conversation with me, and I tried to keep things short. After that he called again and asked my mom if he could live in one of the rooms in our house in Somalia, with his future wife.
I have recently started to talk to this other Somali guy(who lives in diaspora), and my mom got pissed since he is from a different clan. The whole thing is super uncomfortable and since corana is everywhere I have to spend 24/7 with a unhappy mom, who is trying to sabotage me and the diaspora guy from talking

Make your mom happy and marry the guy from back home. Your moms happiness> your happiness.