That is messed up but if you say anything against this mental disorder they will call you ever name in the book. That is abnormal behaviour and he should go to a mental hospital.
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I think you would hurt him or her.
Have you told your parents yet?
I'm not selfish. They will not accept my help if I tell them. My circumstances are unique.
As always. One rule for you, and another rule for others.