Ok so here’s the red flags
1) Claims he wants to marry you but wants to have fun with you first before marriage. Red flag number one because he can also just smash and dash and never hear from you again and your reputation and self esteem will be ruined if you try to tell anybody what happened. He’ll call you a liar and someone promiscuous and he’ll lie to anybody to save his reputation leaving you heartbroken and broken. That’s the risk of you to fly and link up with him and not tell anybody about it.
2) he wants you as a second wife and a side piece. Something that YOU don’t even want but he wants to smash first.
ok so even if you marry him your not even getting what you want from this relationship he’s not giving you a ring first and your only gonna have the SLIGHT CHANCE TO be women number two.
You’re literally taking all the risk and he gets all the reward and for what? the 30% chance of you being a second wife? Do you truly think that’s love and he doesn’t want to use you?
