older men >>> younger guys

Aseer

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It don’t matter whether u have dad in ur life or not stuff like this happens it’s not how your raised cuz somali household they barely talk about relationships and no offence but somalis allow such big age gaps themselves along as he is somali which is quite concerning.
I am in a completely different generation that grew up in the west so I wouldnt be thinking the same as the older generations.
but their "relationship" is illegal
Thats a completely different story then, I would NOT allow that to happen to my daughter who is a minor
 

Aseer

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I still witness such age gaps even in the west. And I’m talking somalis who parents weren’t brought up in the west
It depends on the individual and if they are compatible then there is no issue with it, the only thing I would personally draw the line at as a waalid is when a minor is involved.
 
All men want to sleep with you. Some just want to do it the halal way and to marry you first. Don't ever be deluded into thinking a man wants something else. No, it's not your sparkling conversation, achievements or anything else they first notice.

Older men just know how to make it seem as if they like you for you. They will manipulate and love bomb you.

Older men seek younger girls for manipulation purposes, or to use you as a broodmare without a regard for your happiness and wellbeing. Never trust them, unless you are also of a mature age and can make your own calculated choices.
 
To me personally the chances of that happening would be very low due to the way I would raise her, but if it did happen then I would do what any normal father would do and investigate and cut her off from the guy. You just gotta raise them right and be involved in their life.
the only girls I’ve seen ”dating” older men had uninvolved and irresponsible parents
 
the only girls I’ve seen ”dating” older men had uninvolved and irresponsible parents

There is woman on reality tv right now, whose older husband publicly dumped her. This is after he groomed her when she was young and he spent years mistreating her, cheating on her. Now that she's in her 30s or 40s, the nasty predator has decided to finally get rid of her, after she served whatever narc purposes he had. She is absolutely devastated and cannot believe it. The groomer is all she has ever known. Do you know how sick this is?

Young girls get mentally and emotionally destroyed by older men. But they are always stubborn when young and refuse to listen to their loved ones about their groomer.
 
huh wdym i only started talking to this guy for a week

yeah since he lives in another country

Have you seen the movie 'Taken' yet. Go watch it.


I really hope you're trolling. Why would you see some man without telling your parents first. Is it because you know yourself it's a problem?

Please carefully consider the following outcomes from seeing some random stranger without your family knowing. And in another country at that.

1. Sex slavery/trafficking
2. Organ harvesting
3. Rape
 

Keep it a boqol

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I appreciate it when normal men warn girls about predatorial men. Sometimes people act as if women are jealous and keeping young girls away from good relationships.
i’m in my mid 20s i can’t even imagine entertaining a women who isn’t even in college yet

Also the fact the dudes already talking about sexual stuff and getting a hotel @OPIUM KHAT please don’t link with him
 
i’m in my mid 20s i can’t even imagine entertaining a women who isn’t even in college yet

Also the fact the dudes already talking about sexual stuff and getting a hotel @OPIUM KHAT please don’t link with him

He wants to sexually exploit her somehow. The most surviveable outcome from such a creep is that he steals her virginity with cheap shukansi and fake marriage. The worst options are rape (video taped), sex trafficking, organ harvesting etc.
 

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