Pros and cons marrying back home
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QueenofKings
Kick in the door wavin the .44
If you find one you like marry her, but be prepared to bring her over to Europe or NA. It’s only fair.
You'd have nothing in common, with an upbringing from the west both your experiences would be worlds apart. Imagine you and the kids vibing with the latest Pokemon movie then your wife goes 'war ninyahow ma walaantahey? Waxaan jiirka naga dhaa, ciyaal maatahey? Afaarahaa qabso'
Yeah, I'm good.
Yeah, I'm good.
My kids will know the hardships that comes witg living a nomadic life and at the same time educated, they'll end up very successful.
The only way my kids will go to the west is if they pursue a higher educationDesert Flower
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Has there been a success story between a western guy and a woman back home? They’re much more conniving and ruthless than the rosy picture you’re painting. To each his own though.
girls back home they do pick up on things fast as you can see her the girls expect the man to help with household choresIs there anyone here who married a girl from back home and why? I find the women here more understanding, outgoing and funny. They might not have an academic background but they pick up things surprisingly fast. Something about the women in somalia that makes them hella attractive
and the guys telling them they copying cadaan and not following somali dhaqan
Nah if she is young and around you a lot, she'll pick up a lot. Also, back home they use social media a lot. You'd be suprised.
The thing is with our parents generation is that they were married to and only hung around with others born and raised back home.
No its simply due to lack of contraceptions.
Bro at this rate u should ask for mehr not the other way round
do you want me to act like every other somali guy?
Is there anyone here who married a girl from back home and why? I find the women here more understanding, outgoing and funny. They might not have an academic background but they pick up things surprisingly fast. Something about the women in somalia that makes them hella attractive
Back home wife is special. It takes a smart husband to manager her. Make sure u marry her in Somalia and do not bring her to the west right away. Maybe after birthing 2 to 3 kids.
The western wife, u have the advantage of less expense of bringing her here. But also u have to get a special religious one. Otherwise u will divorce within six month
If I can keep my wife fully dependent on me then divorce wouldn't me an issue but religious girl would be great. Thanks for the advice edoBack home wife is special. It takes a smart husband to manager her. Make sure u marry her in Somalia and do not bring her to the west right away. Maybe after birthing 2 to 3 kids.
The western wife, u have the advantage of less expense of bringing her here. But also u have to get a special religious one. Otherwise u will divorce within six month
Marrying back home is not for everyone but i advise getting someone who is well known by your family.
I did the girl was 18 years old she was very well known my uncles wife sister daughter she was a quran teacher and had very good dacan and deen virgin she grew up to respect men and she knows the rights of husband.i was naughty boy for much of my life but my mum sat me down and got me in contact with this girl
Alhamdulilah was best decision of my life she treats me like a king gives me daily massages after work irons my clothes every morning without fail cooks me hot meals all the time she doesnt just leave the house when she wants etc you can not find this type of woman in west they all grow up hating men are to westernised career minded and have a feminist mindset you luck if you get a hot meal everyday let alone other stuff LOL
Every man deep down wants this type of woman but just cant get them in the west
I did the girl was 18 years old she was very well known my uncles wife sister daughter she was a quran teacher and had very good dacan and deen virgin she grew up to respect men and she knows the rights of husband.i was naughty boy for much of my life but my mum sat me down and got me in contact with this girl
Alhamdulilah was best decision of my life she treats me like a king gives me daily massages after work irons my clothes every morning without fail cooks me hot meals all the time she doesnt just leave the house when she wants etc you can not find this type of woman in west they all grow up hating men are to westernised career minded and have a feminist mindset you luck if you get a hot meal everyday let alone other stuff LOL
Every man deep down wants this type of woman but just cant get them in the west
Villainess
smooth talk on a rainy summer evening
Is she your cousin? No wonder. your last threads makes sense
you sound like you have a skewed view of somali girls
You can get a western Somali women that you would far more like to easily Relate to and that will pay half the bills and take up cooking, cleaning and so on. With low expectations and all you are required is to be a part time daddy
Or get a women with no skills, you would be a money drained trying deal with government and you pay for the living expenses of two adults, put on her A game still she get the passport with no guarantee she will stay and that will be far more expensive to divorce since she had no salary or saving
Or get a women with no skills, you would be a money drained trying deal with government and you pay for the living expenses of two adults, put on her A game still she get the passport with no guarantee she will stay and that will be far more expensive to divorce since she had no salary or saving
