No I turned that down, I made the thread to get consolation
Pros and cons marrying back home
- Thread starter durwa
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just say mashallah
Xaruun
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May Allah bless us with submissive loyal wives who work hard to please us, amiin
Are u dumb? Somalis here have better oral hygiene, comes with having better dietNo way!! The western ones look 100x better. Unless you want a xalimo back home that has yellow teeth.
KingSomali999
UNKOWN.
Mashallah. Tbh that’s the best way to find a religious wife. Don’t let these somali girls shame you men into not marrying from back home, they talk shit about them and try to paint you as some control freak just cuz ur marrying back home.
reality is like you said, Somali girls in the west really are brainwashed by feminists and they really do hate men. Women are naturally followers so this idealogy spread like a disease
not easy these days to find ahki!
Ahki they only shame you because they they know thats a option we men have girls really cant do the same so its sour grapes.
End of the day best to have a peaceful life with a woman who treats you like a king and she knows her role as a wife these girls in west majority of time make very bad wives its not their fault really the system contributed to it very feminist veiws
Bro you will find a girl who has been with guys before asking for 30 k meher and top of that she wont treat you like a king subahnallah
Somali girls in west grow up hating their brothers and fathers they grow up with resentment because they feel in the house their mum doesnt treat them same as brothers so they cant wait leave the house and be free of that. that intern effects their future husband
You must be still a teenager i dont agree with that but say that was true those women you say look better 100x are always available without marriage you can have them for fun and leave them but a real man doesnt just look at a big booty to be the father of their kids life is about living stress free with a woman who respects you.No way!! The western ones look 100x better. Unless you want a xalimo back home that has yellow teeth.
I been there and done it take it from a older may allah forive me i had my fun with these nice westernized women in my young days but got someone with the same looks but submissive man respecting with deen and dacan ALHAMDULILAH
Why you getting annoyed lol?
if you take 100 girls back home and 100 girls in west majority back home are submissive and respect men
Look at your own paragraph.
You only need 1 woman. You can find the kind of woman you want in the west but your options would be limited. There an average of 100k Somali in a UK, Canadia and American. Half are men then their women in a marriageable age and single. You probably have 5000 at best but if you cut out single mothers...
You surrounded by 100+ single Somali Women at marriageable age no need to worry
In Somalia there is 100k+
Personally, I've don't to Relate to a fob Somalis. Yet, I have no trouble relating to other first world. Somali guys and girl's.
The zero chance I would mail order a bride. If I ever do so, I would go for something better then 3rd world black women
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dr.leorio
death\emitter
If you care about your future children, your reputation and family legacy you'll marry from back home.
It's unfortunate but the quality of Somali women in the diaspora has diminished dramatically over the last two decades. Most of these women have fallen for Dajjals feminism hook, line and sinker. You might get lucky and find yourself a wifey here but why take the risk?
It's unfortunate but the quality of Somali women in the diaspora has diminished dramatically over the last two decades. Most of these women have fallen for Dajjals feminism hook, line and sinker. You might get lucky and find yourself a wifey here but why take the risk?
Xaruun
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If she’s one of those kawaal types then yeah
CanoGeel
"Show respect to all people, but grovel to none"
How did you conjure up these delusional fairy-tales that women back home are destitute ignorant illiterates with Dependent Personality Disorders. Contrary to your outrageous assumptions, there are many skilled professionals with college level training and some earned post graduate education from across the world; as far as China, Eastern Europe, India, MENA and even in the West. Women provide essential services and are dominant force in some industries but really work all sectors . And honestly some were born in to an affluent families and many have poor background but attained remarkable goals by pushing thru war zones and dodging bullets to reach school. The notion that they are somehow all inept because they were born and grew up back home is pathetic and insult to their dignity.Don't get me wrong, I contend that woman back home are not necessarily more marriage material than in the west or compatible to everyone and vice versa. there are plenty of exceptional women in both and you have your choice but I am just triggered by your slight and condescending generalization towards them.
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I've heard plenty of Somali guys that went back home, established a successful business there, giving back to their country, and marrying a wifey material. I think if you plan to marry women back home then it's better if you just live there. There is no point working in diaspora and visiting your wife every 6 months back home. That's a sad position to be in.
However, you can find submissive women in the diaspora as I did. It's not really difficult you just need to be smooth and ask questions if she is traditional and religious. Communication is key to finding out the potential of your future partner. If she's not you can always move on and find the next one.
Don't be fooled by the internet where you see crazy Xalimos ruining Somali women's image and going against their cultural and religious values because many of them aren't like that. Most truly want to submit to a strong man. The true feminists you guys keep talking about are usually single.
However, you can find submissive women in the diaspora as I did. It's not really difficult you just need to be smooth and ask questions if she is traditional and religious. Communication is key to finding out the potential of your future partner. If she's not you can always move on and find the next one.
Don't be fooled by the internet where you see crazy Xalimos ruining Somali women's image and going against their cultural and religious values because many of them aren't like that. Most truly want to submit to a strong man. The true feminists you guys keep talking about are usually single.
