Pros and cons marrying back home

[Shimbiris]

Are u dumb? Somalis here have better oral hygiene, comes with having better diet

For real, diet's affects on dentition are well-documented. In fact, one of the pioneers of eating right and organic back in the day was a dentist who got curious about why dental carries and malocclusion were suddenly becoming so much more common in the west and he went on a global search for the healthiest people possible, especially orally speaking and how they managed to do it. He generally noticed more traditional, rural people had the best overall health, facial development and oral hygiene due in large part to their diets and that this could catastrophically break down in one generation when they began eating like westerners:

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I myself noticed my breath pretty much never got odorous after giving up processed and grain-based foods and somewhat limiting fruits as well. Brushing my teeth at this point is more a habit or insurance policy than a necessity. These Walkers and cake munching Xalimos shouldn't be badmouthing no sista raised on traditional food.

 

[Distant1]

I was going to say you will save thousands of dollars but I a friend of mine had to spend 8000 dollars for the brides family.

They know how to suck you dry.

 

[King Khufu]

Pros for me marrying home side is an obediant clean woman that has romantic grace with good values.

The only down fall is they tend to fall in love too easily. Therefore they get needy and long not after that greedy too! Lmao. Eh?

 

[Western4Life]

Have you been to Somalia? The young women there are vicious. They are much harder to court. They will insult you over things that are not worthy of insult. If you are part of the sensitive Gen Z generation, they will break you. They grew up in tough environments, much more tough than our tough mothers. It's a surviving mechanism to verbally attack you. You will have to deal with that personality your whole life.

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[dr.leorio]

Have you been to Somalia? The young women there are vicious. They are much harder to court. They will insult you over things that are not worthy of insult. If you are part of the sensitive Gen Z generation, they will break you. They grew up in tough environments. It's one of their surviving mechanisms.

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That's funny because I had the opposite experience when I went back home years ago. The young women were mostly friendly, polite and tended to my every need. I even had 2 marriage proposals from women I didn't even introduce myself to. They obviously wanted the Greencard but offered to teach me Somali instead of clowning me.

If you carry yourself like a strong man who doesn't give a F and not a weak-willed yuppie you'll be just fine.

 

[Western4Life]

That's funny because I had the opposite experience when I went back home years ago. The young women were mostly friendly, polite and tended to my every need. I even had 2 marriage proposals from women I didn't even introduce myself to. They obviously wanted the Greencard but offered to teach me Somali instead of clowning me.

If you carry yourself like a strong man who doesn't give a F and not a weak-willed yuppie you'll be just fine.

It has nothing to do with carrying yourself as a strong man and not being a yuppie. They are mentally stronger than you due to their upbringing. They cannot even cry when death occurs or they will never hear the end of it. Your case is the exception, not the rule.

Of course they have to tend to your needs, especially if they are the house maids. That's the culture they were brought up in.

Those girls just wanted you for citizenship, like you said, which is why they were nice to you. How about the other women who are not desperate to move abroad? Or other women who did not want you? You possibly had very little time outside. We were outside at least 16 hours a day, including time spent in the miygi.

I hear the women are even more vicious in Mudug.

Anyone can confirm their viciousness in Somalia. They will chew you and spit you out.

 

[dr.leorio]

It has nothing to do with carrying yourself as a strong man and not being a yuppie. They are mentally stronger than you due to their upbringing. They cannot even cry when death occurs or they will never hear the end of it. Your case is the exception, not the rule.

Of course they have to tend to your needs, especially if they are the house maids. That's the culture they were brought up in.

Those girls just wanted you for citizenship, like you said, which is why they were nice to you. How about the other women who are not desperate to move abroad? Or other women who did not want you? You possibly had very little time outside. We were outside at least 16 hours a day, including time spent in the miygi.

I hear the women are even more vicious in Mudug.

Anyone can confirm their viciousness in Somalia. They will chew you and spit you out.

I've been back home multiple times with my longest stay being 4 months in Qoraxey. Trust me I know what you mean by them being mentally strong but I simply adapted and got use to it. I actually enjoy their banter ngl. That's why I can't even relate to my cadaan cohorts and their 1st world problems anymore.

However, the Gen Z snowflakes couldn't handle a few days in the desert, let alone a whole marriage. The only ones capable of marrying back home are the mature millennials or odays.

 

[The alchemist]

For real, diet's affects on dentition are well-documented. In fact, one of the pioneers of eating right and organic back in the day was a dentist who got curious about why dental carries and malocclusion were suddenly becoming so much more common in the west and he went on a global search for the healthiest people possible, especially orally speaking and how they managed to do it. He generally noticed more traditional, rural people had the best overall health, facial development and oral hygiene due in large part to their diets and that this could catastrophically break down in one generation when they began eating like westerners:

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I myself noticed my breath pretty much never got odorous after giving up processed and grain-based foods and somewhat limiting fruits as well. Brushing my teeth at this point is more a habit or insurance policy than a necessity. These Walkers and cake munching Xalimos shouldn't be badmouthing no sista raised on traditional food.

I remember reading about how the dental conditions worsened drastically from the Paleolithic to Neolithic transition, that is, the time of hunter-gatherers changing their subsistence to agriculture dependence. The change in dietary intake and food processing was the main contributor to this decline in oral hygiene, including a reduction in stature on the body, more physiological stress, nutritional deficiency, and facial size reduction. Also, the larger population size made it conducive for diseases to spread, among other factors, such as living with animals in closer proximity.

 

[Shimbiris]

I remember reading about how the dental conditions worsened drastically from the Paleolithic to Neolithic transition, that is, the time of hunter-gatherers changing their subsistence to agriculture dependence. The change in dietary intake and food processing was the main contributor to this decline in oral hygiene, including a reduction in stature on the body, more physiological stress, nutritional deficiency, and facial size reduction. Also, the larger population size made it conducive for diseases to spread, among other factors, such as living with animals in closer proximity.

It's so severe that a lot of archaeologists apparently use "tooth decay" as an initial marker of a burial being post Neolithic-Revolution because that would apparently be unheard of with paleolithic peoples. I don't have the data on me now but I also recall them displaying that life-expectancy only began matching and surpassing the paleolithic during the modern era and before that it was mostly just elites in post-neolithic societies who could match paleolithic people. This whole thing is so severe that they've coined the phrase "Diseases of Civilization" for stuff like cancer, type-2 diabetes, obesity, depression, schizophrenia and the current high incidence of eye issues myopia because these things were pretty much unheard of with paleolithic and some other indigenous cultures like even some pastoral and farming cultures that managed to have an on-point enough diet.

 

[so_wavey]

do you want me to act like every other somali guy?

ask for meher

 

[so_wavey]

If a Somali man marries a woman back home and will love her and treat her well there is no problems with that. I don’t think any normal sane person sees a problem with that .

Guys like you though are hypocrites and immoral , you sleep around, Allah knows what kind of diseases you have or how many children you have running around. Then you want to go to Somalia and get an innocent Somali girl who has no clue what kind of man she is marrying . I pray decent girls back home end up with chaste and clean men. The reason why you are so suspicious of Somali women in the west is because you are a degenerate yourself, it takes one to know one

We all can make mistake in this duniya best one is who stops it and ask allah for forgiveness

I am going going to do things that is good for my interests nothing wrong with marrying girl back home its choice and many of my friends have done the same and are happy

so are you honestly saying a man who changed his ways cant have a good decent girl?

 

[Western4Life]

I've been back home multiple times with my longest stay being 4 months in Qoraxey. Trust me I know what you mean by them being mentally strong but I simply adapted and got use to it. I actually enjoy their banter ngl. That's why I can't even relate to my cadaan cohorts and their 1st world problems anymore.

However, the Gen Z snowflakes couldn't handle a few days in the desert, let alone a whole marriage. The only ones capable of marrying back home are the mature millennials or odays.

What were the girls' clans who were kind to you? Reer Warfa and Abdullah girls are the meanest.

 

[Leila]

We all can make mistake in this duniya best one is who stops it and ask allah for forgiveness

I am going going to do things that is good for my interests nothing wrong with marrying girl back home its choice and many of my friends have done the same and are happy

so are you honestly saying a man who changed his ways cant have a good decent girl?

No one is perfect obviously, there’s nothing wrong with a changed man having a decent wife but stop generalizing all Somali women in the West.

I’m calling you a hypocrite because you have the same past as those loose girls . You have spent too much time with immoral women that you think all Somali girls are the same as those women . You are projecting based on your own experience , there are plenty of Somali girls in the West who keep themselves pure and are decent people.

 

[Mercury]

We all can make mistake in this duniya best one is who stops it and ask allah for forgiveness

I am going going to do things that is good for my interests nothing wrong with marrying girl back home its choice and many of my friends have done the same and are happy

so are you honestly saying a man who changed his ways cant have a good decent girl?

Changed your ways you're a hypocrite if you truly changed your ways why would you talk like this ?

you take 100 somali girls back home and take 100 somali girls in west majority of the somali girls in the west dont have modesty and are *********s compared to somali girls back home basically more chance of a good girl back home then here its to do with the enivorment and the fitna around they causes these girls to get messed up

 

[so_wavey]

No one is perfect obviously, there’s nothing wrong with a changed man having a decent wife but stop generalizing all Somali women in the West.

I’m calling you a hypocrite because you have the same past as those loose girls . You have spent too much time with immoral women that you think all Somali girls are the same as those women . You are projecting based on your own experience , there are plenty of Somali girls in the West who keep themselves pure and are decent people.

I never once said all Somali girls in west are all like that I have been with Somali girls in the past and so have my friends and it’s a running Trend Majority of Somali girls in west are on wrong way it’s clear this doesn’t mean there good ones but they are rare.I actually rate those Somali girls who stay pure in west because it’s very rare

 

[so_wavey]

Changed your ways you're a hypocrite if you truly changed your ways why would you talk like this ?

you take 100 somali girls back home and take 100 somali girls in west majority of the somali girls in the west dont have modesty and are *********s compared to somali girls back home basically more chance of a good girl back home then here its to do with the enivorment and the fitna around they causes these girls to get messed up

I have I am not the same as I was when I was younger Alhamduliah

 

[Anisah The Serpent]

I have I am not the same as I was when I was younger Alhamduliah

But have you changed your views?

 

[inflorescence]

When guys think women back home are npcs who do whatever you say

 

[so_wavey]

But have you changed your views?

What views can you please elaborate ?

 

[so_wavey]

I think one user might be right I may be projecting my experiences but that still doesn’t change the fact my point is true Somali girls in west are very loose in majority of cases though there are some Mashallah girls who kept themselves chaste but very rare these days ever year it’s getting worse