Alot of men,are weak, and sheep, they follow whatever their desires say, which is why everyone just conforms to society.99 percent of men, I believe, are more influenced by the woman around them then they would like to admit.
I do not believe this at all, in fact, growing up around criminals, I found it is the lack of father, and boys, who have the most crime, women are innocent, it is when a man destorys a women, fails to take care of her, fails to raise children, he raises criminals, and 90% of the criminals are men, who stab cheat steal murder do drugs, and commit zina then boast about it, cause so many single mothers, if men controlled themselves, soceity would be fixed.but often times it is his evil wife behind the scenes, goading him on inspiring him to do the greatest of evils.
I do not believe this, when a man is evil, a women cannot stop him, in fact he will destroy any women who gets in his way, man is the real evil one'm not attributing all evil to females, I'm saying some of the most heinous wouldn't have happened if the right woman was there.
when there is a good man, he makes the entire society good, which is why we only have male prophets, when a women is good or evil, her good is limited to the men in her family, and even then, its not always promised they will be good, when a man is evil though, he will destroy all of soceity
the man is the backbone of society, when he is evil, everything will be evil, he will kill and steal and r4pe the most, he will burn everything down
women on the other hand, if they are evil, are not going to r4pe murder steal burn and do all of this stuff, it is not in their brain
man who cannot resist fitna of women are weak, and have traits of evil to a certain degree, which is why we see a decline of society, women are becoming the leaders, men are following women, they are givne in to their lusts and desires for women, and that destroys men, makes them evil. You see, when a women is the leader of society all will crumble, women only ever destroy men when a man allows itYour right , there is some men who can resist the fitna of a women, but these are the 10 percent who have reached a certain pyschological maturity.
example, if u have a country, full of wh0res, men will put rules in the government, will dscipline the women, restrict them, from doing zina, from dressing inapropriately, men in family will have gheerah and stop them, there evil will soon go away
but if men, promote naked women, and wh0res, then we get an entires society of zaanis, of promosicous men and women and STDs and single mothers and degeneracy, men destroyed soceity by their own weakness of will and it was all their fault. and their will be nothing women can do to stop that, men will even r4pe women if they are evil, but women will hardly ever r4pe a man, it is not in their nature, women never mass r4pe a village.
You see my friend, whenever you see and evil soceity, I will show you the most evil people there, it will all be the men, if you set them straight everything else is straight
If you see a great society, a great revolution, a great idea, a great invention, these will almost always be by men, if you see a great country I will show you the great men behind it.
There is no argument here, you show me evil in society, whether its banks and greedy people hoarding money, it will all be men being greedy and hoarding money, you see zina, men promote it and commit zina, have the highest sex drives and declothe and force women, you show me advertisements, men made them, you show me violence, mostly men, you shwo me abuse, men, you show me bullying, mostly men, you show me slavery, men, you show me viel language and insults and cruelty, men, worst behaviour in society, men, people who are drunk and cause mischief and urinate evreywhere, men, hooligans of sports, men, killing over trivial things, men.
Men men men men.
When will you understand
Allah gave us as men one of the greatest blessings, we, if we had the control, can reform and change an entire society, but we can also destroy and entire society, let this be a reminder to you
When we have an influx of men educating, secular and deen, an influx of men who are entrepenuers, earning money, influx of strong men, who are strong persevere, are educated intelligent merciful, can lead a society, can forbear the pains and sacrifice their life for the good, when you get these men, they make life for everyone easy, Alhamdulillah, for the men who helped us live our privelaged life, alhmadulillah for men who made roads electrciity technology brought in wealth and moeny. You see, a group of great men will change society
A group of great women, can only change a soceity, with what? Guess who, men
Maryam AS, and Aasiyah RA, they were the best women, why, because they raised great men, they couldnt make an entire soceity good by themselves, all the great men you see, sometimes they had good mothers, sometimes they didn't but the key factor, is they were all strong and decided to be good, and acted on it, the women can be an influencing character but no matter how hard she tries she cannot change a man destined for evil.
So, what we take from this is, even if all women are great(women are great btw, and women are good people and better than men in general as I have literally highlighted this entire time) they cannot really change society. But men, when they are great, with Allahs tawfeeq, will change and entire society
TL:DR
Good men make an entire society good despite what women do. Bad men will destroy society and women cannot stop it
Good women will not make society great(in 99% of cases) unless she influences a man to do it
Bad women will not destroy society unless evil men allow her to do so