Single women over 30, enter please

[Samaalic Era]

Why?

Its probably because your views are usually held by that age group maybe

 

[Formning1]

 

[Halimo-2018]

Its probably because your views are usually held by that age group maybe

Are you suppose to be his rep? Get out of here..

 

[Samaalic Era]

@Halimo-2018 That didnt warrant a qashin

 

[HalimaJ]

My sister married a doctor at 30. Mashallah she is happily married with a beautiful baby.

Also, by the time I got married, I was what you would call near enough 'expired' if we are going to go by sspot misogynist standards.

Ladies, don't listen to these bitter and socially awkward men on sspot. Remember, everything is calaaf and the qadr of Allah.

 

[HalimaJ]

I don't feel sorry for them. If you see how they attack incels and put up their standards, while they are young then you will realise they caused their own problems. I'm talking about the really narcissistic women, that dated up their whole lives and realised the bad men didn't want them anymore.

They are just as mentally ill as incels, yet society mocks incels and they expect everyone to feel sorry for narcissistic, manipulative females that made bad decisions on their own.

Why do women having standards really upset some of the men here? That isn't manipulative.

Funnily enough, most women I know want men that are accomplished like them. Everything they asked for, they had as well. What is manipulative though, is expecting women to constantly lower their standards.

 

[Yahya]

Why do women having standards really upset some of the men here? That isn't manipulative.

Funnily enough, most women I know want men that are accomplished like them. Everything they asked for, they had as well. What is manipulative though, is expecting women to constantly lower their standards.

Expecting a man on the deen that can provide is good enough in islam. Anything more is shallow. I don't criticise women, they are free to choose but their choice is what they will have to live with.

 

[HalimaJ]

Expecting a man on the deen that can provide is good enough in islam. Anything more is shallow. I don't criticise women, they are free to choose but their choice is what they will have to live with.

Islam allows people to choose. Attraction and personality ect is important in relationships. We are not robots.

 

[Tukraq]

My sister married a doctor at 30. Mashallah she is happily married with a beautiful baby.

Also, by the time I got married, I was what you would call near enough 'expired' if we are going to go by sspot misogynist standards.

Ladies, don't listen to these bitter and socially awkward men on sspot. Remember, everything is calaaf and the qadr of Allah.

That can happen but isn’t normal as most people have married by 25 outside AA’s who’ve had baby mommas by then, at 30 you can usually find single men that are recently divorced though so there is a pool for you to pick from honestly, but yeah from what I’ve seen most women get it done early, Mexican women are locked up by 19, Cadaan women by 22/23 all have there rings, and Madow women in the same age range, since zina is haram waiting till 30 in this damn near haram by association I expect Muslims to get married ASAP or at least pre 23, this goes for men and women or else hormones and shaytan get the best of you

 

[Hardwork2019]

According to a classical somali saying
A womens natural habitat is the home of her husband or the grave.
being 30+ and single is weird i mean i cant wait 3 nights with out having sex how can a woman wait 30 years to have virginal sex with her spouse?

 

[NotMyL]

That can happen but isn’t normal as most people have married by 25 outside AA’s who’ve had baby mommas by then, at 30 you can usually find single men that are recently divorced though so there is a pool for you to pick from honestly, but yeah from what I’ve seen most women get it done early, Mexican women are locked up by 19, Cadaan women by 22/23 all have there rings, and Madow women in the same age range, since zina is haram waiting till 30 in this damn near haram by association I expect Muslims to get married ASAP or at least pre 23, this goes for men and women or else hormones and shaytan get the best of you

Out of touch with reality as always, kaaley do you live in your own little box? Cadaaan women are least likely to marry in their 20s and most Mexicans aren’t married, they breed like rabbits at a young age but aren’t married.

 

[Mahacagalla]

Out of touch with reality as always, kaaley do you live in your own little box? Cadaaan women are least likely to marry in their 20s and most Mexicans aren’t married, they breed like rabbits at a young age but aren’t married.

Most adaans at 22/23 where does he live Czech Republic?

 

[IstarZ]

According to a classical somali saying
A womens natural habitat is the home of her husband or the grave.
being 30+ and single is weird i mean i cant wait 3 nights with out having sex how can a woman wait 30 years to have virginal sex with her spouse?

And some here refuse to admit that Somali culture is intrinsically misogynistic.

Marriage isn’t about coitus. When ppl rush into marriage for halal nooky without doing proper checks and ignoring red flags, it ends badly.

Somalis like to be in miserable marriages for the sake of intercourse.

 

[NotMyL]

And some here refuse to admit that Somali culture is intrinsically misogynistic.

Marriage isn’t about coitus. When ppl rush into marriage for halal nooky without doing proper checks and ignoring red flags, it ends badly.

Somalis like to be in miserable marriages for the sake of intercourse.

I’m pretty sure it’s because divorce in our culture is considered a huge failure and mostly blamed on the women, that’s why you see a lot of married women who are miserable. They would rather be in miserable
marriage than be talked about

In fact according to my local masjid one of the problems with Somali couples is the lack of intimacy, so I’m curious on why you think they are staying married for sex?

 

[IstarZ]

I’m pretty sure it’s because divorce in our culture is considered a huge failure and mostly blamed on the women, that’s why you see a lot of married women who are miserable. They would rather be in miserable
marriage than be talked about

In fact according to my local masjid one of the problems with Somali couples is the lack of intimacy, so I’m curious on why you think they are staying married for sex?

It’s either that or the kids. I think it’s more likely to keep up appearances and for the kids. I also think they get attached to the man because he is the father of their kids and their first experience of intimacy. It’s all messed up anyway.

Divorce isn’t a big deal anymore. Unmarried women beyond a certain age are the new pariah. Garoobs all the rage because they are low maintenance.

 

[Halimo-2018]

And some here refuse to admit that Somali culture is intrinsically misogynistic.

Marriage isn’t about coitus. When ppl rush into marriage for halal nooky without doing proper checks and ignoring red flags, it ends badly.

Somalis like to be in miserable marriages for the sake of intercourse.

Finally someone with brain. Your 100% right. 90% of the somali marriages i know are in misery.

 

[Tukraq]

Out of touch with reality as always, kaaley do you live in your own little box? Cadaaan women are least likely to marry in their 20s and most Mexicans aren’t married, they breed like rabbits at a young age but aren’t married.

Most adaans at 22/23 where does he live Czech Republic?

The US, maybe Europe is different but post 21 they all got rings on, as for Mexicans that’s legal marriage, I think there married according to there culture though

 

[IstarZ]

Finally someone with brain. Your 100% right. 90% of the somali marriages i know are in misery.

Why do you think that is sis?

 

[Halimo-2018]

Why do you think that is sis?

Lack of understanding. Getting married for the wrong reasons and having too many kids without having stable Income using Allah will provide as scapegoat.

 

[Southerner]

Watch out for disingenuous friends in your ear pointing out flaws in a potential spouse

and don't use calaf as an excuse for your decision making