Single women over 30, enter please

[Tukraq]

I know loads of women who got married in their late 20's and early 30s.

Some even to younger men.

Whatever is meant to be, is meant to be.

I don’t even see men unmarried by 30 lol it’s not just women if your a guy an unmarried by 30(especially if Muslim) I’m looking at you weird, look around even for caddans once 25 rolls around they all have rings, blacks all have Baby mommas and daddies by a similar age, and even younger for Latinos, by 25 you should be married since the baby momma culture is haraam, being completely single until 30 whether male or female is rare and viewed negatively

 

[Finesse]

I don’t even see men unmarried by 30 lol it’s not just women if your a guy an unmarried by 30(especially if Muslim) I’m looking at you weird, look around even for caddans once 25 rolls around they all have rings, blacks all have Baby mommas and daddies by a similar age, and even younger for Latinos, by 25 you should be married since the baby momma culture is haraam, being completely single until 30 whether male or female is rare and viewed negatively

What about people that do istikharah and feel they cannot marry whoever was interested? Whether they are male or female?

There are people who are not meant to get married early and that's fine.

Nothing weird about it.

Is it weird when someone cannot find a job? Cannot find a house? Or has other wordly struggles?

Just say Alhamdulilah for your blessings and don't judge others for not having the same blessings.

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

Aduun waa labo, dumar iyo diin. Xoolo layesho iyo dawlad ladhiso waa dumar lagu dhaqdo daraadod. Diintana waa waxaad ilaah ula hortagi laheyd daarta dambe, ma garatey. Intaad nooshahayna nolosha ayey kuu fududeyn. Everything is those 2.

Rasuulka waa taa u yiri"aduunka waa raaxo gaaban waxaana ugu raaxo badan waa dumar". Thats why xoolo loo kasbado, thats why cunto fiiican loo cuno for galmo macaan oo badan. If you eating qashin galmoda qashin ayey noqon. Thats why ciidan iyo hub loo yeesho ,in la dhowrto dumarka. Laakinse dumarka waa in halal aad ku guursatid waxaan kale maaha ujeedada

 

[NotMyL]

Your one of the few reasonable level headed female's on here not afraid to at least touch on the uncomfortable truth as it relates to the sister.

I don't think you'll ever understand how incredibly rare this is, as guys we don't shy away from telling each other the bitter cold truths, but hablaha for some reason almost always lie in each other's faces.

At least in the states you have female's that somewhat look after themselves unlike here in the UK so I could at least understand why they feel so entitled and put in minimal effort.

Imagine a population of mostly fat/obese Xaalimo's who don't even look after themselves physically or aesthetically despite biological predisposition, yet still feel incredibly entitled to good male but on her own timetable ?

Lol waar ninkan and fat xaalimos maha kala heesto, listen inquistive maybe girls would listen to your advice more if you stopped relating everything to their weight.

 

[Libaaxseendheer]

@Finesse you are not providing solutions. You are just calaacaling sharafey

 

[Finesse]

@Finesse you are not providing solutions. You are just calaacaling sharafey

Are you a single woman over 30?

If not, what is itching?

 

[Caraweelo]

You are mistaken. We are not my walaal as I can't be walaalo with an cadaan, gaal man. Furthermore, your life choices do affect (with an "a") me directly as I have to read through your nonsensical, incoherent drivel. Why don't you spam Arab forums instead? Somalis already have enough problems as it stands.

P.S.: I think that in order for that "No one" YouTube meme to work, the person you are mimicking must provide a response that would appear to make them ridiculous. As I understand in your example, "triggered somali males" appear to be susceptible to bouts of hysterical laughter for no apparent reason. This adds neither an informative nor comical element to your post, but only serves to underscore your lack of situational awareness in regards to popular culture. May I suggest watching some funny videos on YouTube today for examples on how to do the "No one" thing correctly? This could be in addition to your usual favourite YouTube program "How to Pretend to be Somali on the Internet"

You are still triggered and I'm still gonna live my life as I want and you can't do anything about it. Stay in denial and stay bitter while i'm living the best life I can.

This is a public forum not your house, if you are triggered by women having different views than you then get off the internet and go live in a cave.

p.s. I will mute your notification next time because you are not presenting any useful discussion.

 

[astorecalledkmart]

You are still triggered and I'm still gonna live my life as I want and you can't do anything about it. Stay in denial and stay bitter while i'm living the best life I can.

This is a public forum not your house, if you are triggered by women having different views than you then get off the internet and go live in a cave.

p.s. I will mute your notification next time because you are not presenting any useful discussion.

For the sake of accuracy, my triggering is derived from the fact that you are an cadaan man with broken English. You always post offensive comments attacking Somalis, religion, and our culture, and then run away when you meet a Somali with a greater command of language than yourself. Gross generalizations that blindly insult millions or billions of people based on your own warped views isn't discourse, it's idiocy. People can upvote you all they want, but I see straight through your charade - you are neither Somali nor a woman.

Trying to spin this as a "bad Somali man is against women" debate is beyond stupid given my pro-feminist writings above, but then again, being the racist, anti-Somali pretender you are, that's the only narrative that your very limited degree of neuronal networks could provide. If you didn't understand what I wrote because you read at below second-grade level, I sincerely apologize. I am glad that you are muting notifications from me - a roundabout admission of defeat is an admission of defeat nevertheless.

Stay salty Sergei, Robert, or whatever your actual name is - until we meet again! I look forward to calling BS on whatever you have to post next.

 

[Caraweelo]

For the sake of accuracy, my triggering is derived from the fact that you are an cadaan man with broken English. You always post offensive comments attacking Somalis, religion, and our culture, and then run away when you meet a Somali with a greater command of language than yourself. Gross generalizations that blindly insult millions or billions of people based on your own warped views isn't discourse, it's idiocy. People can upvote you all they want, but I see straight through your charade - you are neither Somali nor a woman.

Trying to spin this as a "bad Somali man is against women" debate is beyond stupid given my pro-feminist writings above, but then again, being the racist, anti-Somali pretender you are, that's the only narrative that your very limited degree of neuronal networks could provide. If you didn't understand what I wrote because you read at below second-grade level, I sincerely apologize. I am glad that you are muting notifications from me - a roundabout admission of defeat is an admission of defeat nevertheless.

Stay salty Sergei, Robert, or whatever your actual name is - until we meet again! I look forward to calling BS on whatever you have to post next.

It is not my problem that you live in your own bubble and not familiar with the existence of Somali Atheists and Somali Christians... surprise surprise WE exist You being in denial of the diverse groups of Somalis only show your narrow-minded way of thinking. You can't accuse everyone who disagree with you being a white.

I'm a somali and english is not my language and this thread is not an exam hall to test our english, if you want to brag about how much english you know, open your own thread for that.

This forum is for discussing about somalis, islam and culture and i will criticize any topic related to it as I want and if you get offended easily, it's your problem not my problem that you can't handle other somalis who have different views than you.

p.s. I will still mute your notification because you are repeating same points (cadaan, triggered).

 

[Formning1]

This artikel kept showing up on my Facebook timeline ever since i commented on this somalisspot Thread. F* algrothism. https://www.wsj.com/articles/a-good-man-is-getting-even-harder-to-find-11570200829?mod=e2fb

 

[astorecalledkmart]

It is not my problem that you live in your own bubble and not familiar with the existence of Somali Atheists and Somali Christians... surprise surprise WE exist You being in denial of the diverse groups of Somalis only show your narrow-minded way of thinking. You can't accuse everyone who disagree with you being a white.

I'm a somali and english is not my language and this thread is not an exam hall to test our english, if you want to brag about how much english you know, open your own thread for that.

This forum is for discussing about somalis, islam and culture and i will criticize any topic related to it as I want and if you get offended easily, it's your problem not my problem that you can't handle other somalis who have different views than you.

p.s. I will still mute your notification because you are repeating same points (cadaan, triggered).

The issue isn't about being an atheist - everyone is entitled to their opinions and I could care less about your personal beliefs. The issue is the insulting manner in which you speak, which is in keeping with the sort of language used by racist pretenders who seek to make Somalis feel ashamed of being Somali. Other people state beliefs that I don't agree with, but I stay quiet because they are respectful. You on the other hand downvote and insult anyone with a pro-Somali or pro-religion message (now that's not very open-minded of you is it?) - if you're polite, then I would be in the wrong to post a negative rebuttal about you. If you're going to insult innocent people who've done nothing to you, then expect to get checked.

P.S. The other issue is the fact that you are not Somali and are in fact an cadaan man...

 

[bluebird]

It's never too late and inshallah you will get many lovely children.


Read this, a woman who is 52 finally gave birth to TRIPLETS, after years of trying to conceive.

Allah provides what he wishes to who he wishes.

Thank you. I would hate to have a baby that age because I’m not trying to raise kids for the rest of my life lol let alone triplets

 

[Gambar]

@Finesse I was at a wedding on Saturday, the bride was 32 and the groom was 26 this was both of their first marriages. Please don't give any thought to what these neck bearded, dragon breath losers have to say. These dusty men don't live in the real world, they talk to their pillows, pretending it's a woman. How can we possibly take them seriously? Especially the fat ass who's obsessed with women's weight. Rumor has it he looks like Dahir Calasow who gained 200 lbs.

Miskeen, iska daa he uses a CPAP machine.

 

[Gambar]

It's never too late and inshallah you will get many lovely children.


Read this, a woman who is 52 finally gave birth to TRIPLETS, after years of trying to conceive.

Allah provides what he wishes to who he wishes.

Who the hell wants to chase a toddler at 52?

Gabdho have kids young if you can, you’ll have all the energy in the world and by the time they’re adults you won’t be needing elder care.

 

[Yoo]

Single is good. I love my individuality. I cant stand being defined by a man my whole life. Nothing against men that has always been my personality. Lifetimes comes down to experience we don't all have to live the same experience. Our parents relied heavily on their kids by the time they were 40 they were considered old lol whereas now not so much people can take burden off of their kids specially in the diaspora. However i think having kids is important to a woman's health not 10 kids but at least 1 or 2. I've seen so much regret on older women over 40 who never had kids i don't think a lot of women can handle that much regret. For sure not me i do respect any woman who's strong enough to handle it and i am absolutely not the kind of woman to look down on anyone who doesn't have kids i would welcome them to baby sit my kids to get their baby fever fix lol

Your 18-19...

 

[Abdalla]

If you're reading this and you worry about marriage, pray to Allah that he gives you a righteous spouse. I don't know of a dua for marriage, but perhaps make the same dua as prophet Zakaria

وَزَكَرِيَّا إِذْ نَادَىٰ رَبَّهُ رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَ

And (remember) Zakariya (Zachariah), when he cried to his Lord: "O My Lord! Leave me not single (childless), though You are the Best of the inheritors."

Address your sorrow and worries only to Allah

 

[Halimo-2018]

Your 18-19...

Turned 30 in may. Alxamdulilah

 

[Yoo]

Turned 30 in may. Alxamdulilah

Sure buddy

 

[Mehmet]

Most 30-35 year old somali women are poor waiting for a somali man to save them financially. They are in student loan debt, have condominium debt, car lease debt, credit card debt, vacation debt and they socially drink. They are also the type to marry idris elba and not answer if hes muslim or not.

I think we need to teach somali guys how to be financially successful , as opposed to just surviving jail to save such women.

My advice to the somali girls 30-35? f*ck you, your generation never helped mine, all you guys did was gossip, scam the community, watch america's next top model, do shitty open spoken word poetry, hoe around, have jamaican kids, and do drugs, move back in with hoyo and abo, hide your tattoos with wrist bands, and pretend to be virgins!


To the good ones, I hope you find a man one day, keep your head up, i'm rooting for you.

30 to 35 got serious kibir issues and only a small few will find a life partner cause of it

 

[Halimo-2018]

Sure buddy

Why?