So all my friends who married Western raised Somali women are..

[World]

That isn't their fault though and I heard that's changing.

I feel sorry for them, but marriage isn't a charity.

 

[Gambar]

Instead of blaming western halimos, blames the guys. i mean no girl will still with a guy with minimum wage and are assholess.

It's called entitlement lol.

 

[bluebird]

Nothing... It just says woman back home are more willing to put up with abuse/mistreatment. I'm not an advocate for easy divorce, but a lot of the older generation somali woman low key hate their husbands but they put up with them for traditional reasons sometimes just go quietly insane. The only western somali couples who are divorced I know, one the man was alcoholic and the other chatted with women all the time.

 

[captain mali]

Most western raised halimos are annoying feminist.

 

[Someone]

Most western raised halimos are annoying feminist.

That's generalizing. You just have to find the right one

 

[ArchBishopofAtheism]

Still the man's fault?

Largely yes. They do shit like this by night

and spend all day at places like these

 

[ArchBishopofAtheism]

Not true. Just gotta find the right lady. Unless you're an incompetent Abdi that expects everything to be easy.

 

[Someone]

Your wife isn't your maid, you cant expect her to stay at home every minute of the time cooking for you.

 

[captain mali]

That's generalizing. You just have to find the right one

Most halimos i have talked to was brainwashed with that gaalo nonsense

 

[AussieHustler]

Mr Farah

Whether you marry a Somali chick from back home, Seattle, El-Salvador or from Neptune, your destiny is to become a serial single father. Instead of worrying about it, better if you embrace it. Like Mama Malyuun and Eeddo Menace, one day, you will be telling the next generation the unfortunate love-life you had. You better beg Sophisticate to begin writing your biography.

 

[MadNomad]

Largely yes. They do shit like this by night View attachment 27886
and spend all day at places like these View attachment 27887

What part of "Men who are not bums" did you not understand? Time to improve your reading comprehension sxb.

 

[Mr.Haggis]

Marrying a girl back home is so much better and cost-efficient.

 

[MadNomad]

Why don't you just get a maid in that case? You seem incapable of caring for yourself, so she can provide you extra assistance. Its cheaper too

You're a typical faraax though only thinking about yourself. God help all Somali women, the men ain't shit.

You've been hear for a couple of days and are already part of the "Faaraxs ain't shit" gang, showing your hand a little too early aren't you

@embarassing Lazy generalizations is a beloved tradition on this site, embrace it :siilaanyosmile:

 

[Dhiig Sookeeye]

Somali girls in the west get bored easily really..

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

They say home is where the heart is feminism has corrupted these xalimos you might aswell be chatting to a Becky they have no feminine characteristics they have mostly become like the Caribbean hair hatted hooligans argumentative loud abrasive narcissistic materialistic a sense of entitlement about them personally I tend to avoid them.

Most of my friends who married a xalimo raised in the west are divorced 99% didn't even make it a year.

Whereas the brother I know who's wife's Live back home and they travel back home every 6 mouths or so are still happily married masha Allah.

 

[agnes]

That's cause those women need the men and not for the best reasons.

 

[Mercury]

Divorced now....but the ones that went back home and bought their wife's here are still married with them.


So what that say about Western raised Somali women?

Both were raised in different environment


Back home the women is the one breaking her back doing all the chores and raising the kids 24/7 on her own while the husband sitting somewhere eating khat cause thats normal

The ones raised in the west expect more the one back home not so much

 

[ArchBishopofAtheism]

What part of "Men who are not bums" did you not understand? Time to improve your reading comprehension sxb.

Abdis fall into two categories: the bum that chews khat by night and spends all day chatting at coffee place, and the metrosexual male that is 110lb, gels his hair, wears tight clothing and is every much as feminine as the xalimo he's trying to bag. The prospects for Abdis are dim unless there's a massive revolution. A third category that eclipses the other two should be created. Maybe this third category does exists but I'd say ~ 10% of Abdis fall into it.

 

[Someone]

Abdis fall into two categories: the bum that eats khat by night spends all day chatting at coffee place, and the metrosexual male that is 110lb, gels his hair, wears tight clothing and is every much as feminine as the xalimo he's trying to bag. The prospects for Abdis are dim unless there's a massive revolution. A third category that eclipses the other two should be created.

Which one are you?

 

[Inquisitive_]

The notion that its all about 'money' which the diaspora females cite makes me laugh as if they don't care about the money themselves, while in fact the opposite is the case! they are far more materialistic and superficial, you can easily observe this by the amount of money that is wasted to marry them.

The other common false beliefs is that the marriages back home survive because those women are easier to handle or submissive, this is absolute BS, a smart women has no need to be loud or confrontational she gets what she wants without agitating her partner.

It's only the stupid dumb women that has lost control of a situation that seeks confrontations and the diaspora are filled with such women, people falsely attribute these women to be somehow 'strong', 'smart' or 'independent'.

It's one of the fundamental reasons why the marriages from back home survive, because your dealing with a superior women on every level that has been shaped through hardship/struggles which their entitled pampered bimbo looking counterparts never had.