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Mohamud

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@VixR that's why I advocate for young marriage. It's actually unnatural for men and women to stay single well into their 30s.

Aren't fertility and growth rates increasing though with proper nutrition and lifestyle comprehension?

Like iirc the average dude has his growth plates fusing at around 23 now, and women are increasingly having children in their late 20s and early 30s.

Getting married before 25 sounds like lunacy in this day and age given job competition and increasing wealth gaps.

Especially for dudes who lack a biological clock by and large. I wouldn't advocate early marriages to the snapchat generation sxb.
 

Mohamud

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Wait you said well into 30s. I guess a young marriage is correlated to that to mean mid 20s? Then we're in agreement.
 

Nin xun

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Aren't fertility and growth rates increasing though with proper nutrition and lifestyle comprehension?

Like iirc the average dude has his growth plates fusing at around 23 now, and women are increasingly having children in their late 20s and early 30s.

Getting married before 25 sounds like lunacy in this day and age given job competition and increasing wealth gaps.

Especially for dudes who lack a biological clock by and large. I wouldn't advocate early marriages to the snapchat generation sxb.
I'd rather have my kids in my mid - late 20s, isn't it so that having kids in your later years increases the chances of your kid being born with autism or down's syndrom?
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Mohamud

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I think that was only correlated to the 35+ crowd and wallahi who's having a kid then. Personally I want a kid when I'm 27ish. My SO will likely be younger than me so it should be fine.
 
Aren't fertility and growth rates increasing though with proper nutrition and lifestyle comprehension?

Like iirc the average dude has his growth plates fusing at around 23 now, and women are increasingly having children in their late 20s and early 30s.

Getting married before 25 sounds like lunacy in this day and age given job competition and increasing wealth gaps.

Especially for dudes who lack a biological clock by and large. I wouldn't advocate early marriages to the snapchat generation sxb.

Get married young at 23 or 22 but do not have kids early wait for couples years. Marrying young is like having your best friend, lover, soulmate with you. It is beautiful thing.
 
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Mohamud

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I'm turning 23 in two weeks. f*ck that shit. Do you guys know the statistics of these before 25 marriages? Like more than half of them break before they're 30.

Again we're not like our parents who had a life expectancy of maybe 65. Making a life altering decision just 4 years into adulthood is honestly a mentality I see championed by less sophisticated and broken societies. It's just not practical.
 

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Marriage sucks a useless contract be free and enjoy life who needs a woman and a man when you can have ten cats and freedom no nagging no smells no crying nothing just purring and constant cuddles
 
Wait you said well into 30s. I guess a young marriage is correlated to that to mean mid 20s? Then we're in agreement.

18-25.

Aren't fertility and growth rates increasing though with proper nutrition and lifestyle comprehension?

Like iirc the average dude has his growth plates fusing at around 23 now, and women are increasingly having children in their late 20s and early 30s.

Getting married before 25 sounds like lunacy in this day and age given job competition and increasing wealth gaps.

Especially for dudes who lack a biological clock by and large. I wouldn't advocate early marriages to the snapchat generation sxb.

People will find all sorts of excuses to delay marriage. Marriage isn't a walk in the park but requires some effort and commitment just like with everything else in life.

Yes, women are conceiving in their late 20s and 30s but it becomes more dificult with age. Not just getting pregant but carrying a baby full-term. A lot of these "career women" end up regretting not starting a family early.

I advocate it for guys too because it's harder for them to remain chaste and it will make them mature quicker giving them a sense of responsibility and gives them a focus.
 

Nin xun

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I'm turning 23 in two weeks. f*ck that shit. Do you guys know the statistics of these before 25 marriages? Like more than half of them break before they're 30.

Again we're not like our parents who had a life expectancy of maybe 65. Making a life altering decision just 4 years into adulthood is honestly a mentality I see championed by less sophisticated and broken societies. It's just not practical.
That's has do with the fact that people are more adolescent psychologywise(25 is the new 18) in western society nowadays and are therefore not as ready for the realities of marriage, that combined with the zina makes it possible for people to wait with marriage.

If you're not willing to commit zina it's very difficult to control ones urges as we're humans after all, that and the fact that marriage is half our deen.
 
18-25.



People will find all sorts of excuses to delay marriage. Marriage isn't a walk in the park but requires some effort and commitment just like with everything else in life.

Yes, women are conceiving in their late 20s and 30s but it comes more dificult with age. Not just getting pregant but carrying a baby full-term. A lot of these "career women" end up regretting not starting a family early.

I advocate for guys too because it's harder for them to remain chaste and it will make them mature quicker giving them a sense of responsibility and staying away and gives them a focus.

That's actually a myth. I agree with the rest though.

18-25 for women and 25-30 for men is ideal.
 
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