It all depends on the socioeconomic status of the people your around. If your around poor/middle class people your gonna hear all their stories. if your around upper middle/rich you hear their cheating ways. In the end people need to be more discreet LOL cuz why I gotta know. Its crazy though why aren't you bringing her back to the states.I agree they cheat too laakin I've heard way more cheating stories from poor naago with nothing to lose.
Marrying anyone back home and never bringing them to the states is just asking to be cheated on.
I donโt know where I found it, but I saw a video of a Madowweyne guy killing his wife because she was apparently cheating. So yes, in Somalia, it isnโt very smart to play with a manโs pride not that I agree with itWhy would you as a woman cheat on your husband in Somalia of all places, barely any laws especially against domestic abuse that nigha will kill you and NO one will defend you for it![]()
What are you, the local scuttlebutt spinner?So, I was back in Somalia early in 2023, and the place I visited had a lot of Somali wives whose husbands were working in the West. I used to talk to people, and one time, this Ciyaal Xafad guy told me a crazy story about a trucker in the U.S. whose wife was cheating on him. Now, to be fair, I understand itโs not a good idea to leave your wife alone for months or even years because, after all, sheโs a human being with needs.
Anyway, this lady letโs call her Hodan got very lonely after her husband had been gone for about nine months. There was this Bajaj driver letโs call him Ahmed who helped her out one time. When Ahmed saw a woman all alone, he started chatting her up, asking things like, โWhereโs your husband?โ As someone who had been alone for almost a year, Hodan opened up and told him all her problems. Ahmed saw an opportunity here and started bringing her food every day, sometimes even for free.
Long story short, they got pretty close, and Ahmed was soon โgetting the cheeksโ on a regular basis. But this is Somalia, and people are very nosy. Someone eventually called the husband letโs call him Abdi, Abdi took the first flight he could back home. They told me he beat the living daylights out of his wife and eventually divorced her.
So, my advice to the brothers here: if youโre going to marry a girl back home, you better be taking care of her. Or, like Dabcasar said, someone else will take care of her for you.