Somali girl and her gypsy husband

[Inquisitive_]

So it's for this reason that they parade their ajanabi saviours on Youtube, as a way of communicating to the world 'Hey, look at me, I've been saved, I've made it, I'm a worthy human now'. It's utterly pathetic, but nothing perplexing about it.

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Very few of these interracial marriages are authentic or pure, there is always a caveat, the Arab male would flee from his women because he cannot keep up with the extortionate Meher, or he is unable to court one, hence they go for East African Black or Maghrebi women by default because to them they are cheap in every sense.

The East African women afflicted with self-hate will go for it for the reasons you have described, This artificial created hierarchy system is an outlet for self-hate, for scorned women, for the bottom feeders and scrapers of society

I remember growing up, I was perplexed why I felt deeply ashamed being seen with a White-women or an Asian-women and they were 'just' friends on college/university campuses whom used to latch on to me, despite showing no reciprocating interest.

I never understood this conundrum back then, but this sense of shame was merely a reflection of deep self-worth, an insatiable pride in ones heritage and culture, the only women outside of my preferred Somali that even looked attractive to me were of course our cushitic neighbours that share the same features.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

The world is not your playground, unfortunately for you. As much as you seek to make it so.

No, not a playground but a battleground where competing ideas and worldviews fight for ascendancy. I'm just sharing some of my own views in this battle for Somali hearts and minds, is that a crime?

 

[VixR]

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Very few of these interracial marriages are authentic or pure, there is always a caveat, the Arab male would flee from his women because he cannot keep up with the extortionate Meher, or he is unable to court one, hence they go for East African Black or Maghrebi women by default because to them they are cheap in every sense.

The East African women afflicted with self-hate will go for it for the reasons you have described, This artificial created hierarchy system is an outlet for self-hate, for scorned women, for the bottom feeders and scrapers of society

I remember growing up, I was perplexed why I felt deeply ashamed being seen with a White-women or an Asian-women and they were 'just' friends on college/university campuses whom used to latch on to me, despite showing no reciprocating interest.

I never understood this conundrum back then, but this sense of shame was merely a reflection of deep self-worth, an insatiable pride in ones heritage and culture, the only women outside of my preferred Somali that even looked attractive to me were of course our cushitic neighbours that share the same features.

This is precisely the awkward sort of shit that comes spewing out of these self-appointed social theorist weirdos.

Forget all else, but being deeply ashamed of being seen with White/Asian women due to self worth in your own backgrounddo the two have to do with each other? Weaving intersectionalities that don't exist.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Very few of these interracial marriages are authentic or pure, there is always a caveat, the Arab male would flee from his women because he cannot keep up with the extortionate Meher, or he is unable to court one, hence they go for East African Black or Maghrebi women by default because to them they are cheap in every sense.

The East African women afflicted with self-hate will go for it for the reasons you have described, This artificial created hierarchy system is an outlet for self-hate, for scorned women, for the bottom feeders and scrapers of society

I remember growing up, I was perplexed why I felt deeply ashamed being seen with a White-women or an Asian-women and they were 'just' friends on college/university campuses whom used to latch on to me, despite showing no reciprocating interest.

I never understood this conundrum back then, but this sense of shame was merely a reflection of deep self-worth, an insatiable pride in ones heritage and culture, the only women outside of my preferred Somali that even looked attractive to me were of course our cushitic neighbours that share the same features.

Absolutely sxb. Wallahi rageedi baad tahay.

 

[VixR]

No, not a playground but a battleground where competing ideas and worldviews fight for ascendancy. I'm just sharing some of my own views in this battle for Somali hearts and minds, is that a crime?

I didn't call it a crime. Ideas of all kinds should and can be shared, but you should be able to defend those views. How does your self-and-community hate narrative for ppl marrying out in the West register as a competing view on the world stage, and to what sort of hearts and minds, and to what end?

 

[Tramo]

Ur pretentiousness hasn't gotten old rather quickly. Dhiidhiibso (ask ur parents).

kkkkkkkkkk my nigga said dhiidhiibso

 

[VixR]

kkkkkkkkkk my nigga said dhiidhiibso

What does it mean? I clocked that it doesn't mean what it says in parentheses, GT isnt any help even with alternate spellings.

 

[Inquisitive_]

This is precisely the awkward sort of shit that comes spewing out of these self-appointed social theorist weirdos.

Forget all else, but being deeply ashamed of being seen with White/Asian women due to self worth in your own backgrounddo the two have to do with each other? Weaving intersectionalities that don't exist.

I would have explained it to you, but it requires logic and statistics which due to your physiognomy your not capable of digesting nor understanding

How about a discussion on exotic foods?

 

[VixR]

When self-hate is the your running answer to everything.

The simplest explanations are no longer flavorable, but that we entertain expansive bullshit like Somali girls hating to display Somali husbands due to self-hate even though the vast majority are married to none other. In which case, whether or not she marries a Somali man, she indeed hates him, and those who don't marry from them are the characteristic markers for the actions of those who do.

Put aside self worth, what can it be to see hate for what you are in everything, and in every action?

 

[AceofSom]

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Very few of these interracial marriages are authentic or pure, there is always a caveat, the Arab male would flee from his women because he cannot keep up with the extortionate Meher, or he is unable to court one, hence they go for East African Black or Maghrebi women by default because to them they are cheap in every sense.

The East African women afflicted with self-hate will go for it for the reasons you have described, This artificial created hierarchy system is an outlet for self-hate, for scorned women, for the bottom feeders and scrapers of society

I remember growing up, I was perplexed why I felt deeply ashamed being seen with a White-women or an Asian-women and they were 'just' friends on college/university campuses whom used to latch on to me, despite showing no reciprocating interest.

I never understood this conundrum back then, but this sense of shame was merely a reflection of deep self-worth, an insatiable pride in ones heritage and culture, the only women outside of my preferred Somali that even looked attractive to me were of course our cushitic neighbours that share the same features.

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Excellent post

 

[VixR]

I'm honestly starting to think [too many] Somali men have an extremely low self-esteem.

 

[Inquisitive_]

When self-hate is the your running answer to everything.

The simplest explanations are no longer flavorable, but that we entertain expansive bullshit like Somali girls hating to display Somali husbands due to self-hate ?

You just proved my point, totally misrepresented what I said, self-hate was purely towards the interracial aspect not Somali upon Somali.

With that I mean the fast majority of interracial marriage, not all, because there are always needles in a haystack, statistics backs me on this

Something so basic and elementary you failed to grasp, but you expect me to go deeper into the finer details with this, while your struggling to grapple the very basics. Let's talk about exotic foods or home designs? anything not requiring logic madame.

 

[AceofSom]

I'm honestly starting to think [too many] Somali men have an extremely low self-esteem.

I don't see Somali guys promoting their so called ' ajnabi" spouses on Youtube, thinking they have strike gold

I don't think anyone surpasses some of these Somali girls in low self esteem.

 

[Apollo]

Didn't watch the clip or read any of this thread:

But want to inform y'all on a common mistake: NOT ALL ROMANIANS AND BULGARIANS ARE GYPSY.

Only a small minority of those countries is gypsy. Most are ethnic Europeans who look like Polish/Slav people. This is like saying all Somalis are BANTU because of the small minority of Bantus.

 

[VixR]

I don't see Somali guys promoting their so called ' ajnabi" spouses on Youtube, thinking they have strike gold

I don't think anyone surpasses some of these Somali girls in low self esteem.

See, the fact that you characterize it like that is odd in itself.

But so chasing down these videos of random, numbered girls and positing wide ranging social theories, hurling self hate claims, and nagging their very existence is a sign of esteem?

 

[Bielsa]

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Very few of these interracial marriages are authentic or pure, there is always a caveat, the Arab male would flee from his women because he cannot keep up with the extortionate Meher, or he is unable to court one, hence they go for East African Black or Maghrebi women by default because to them they are cheap in every sense.

The East African women afflicted with self-hate will go for it for the reasons you have described, This artificial created hierarchy system is an outlet for self-hate, for scorned women, for the bottom feeders and scrapers of society

I remember growing up, I was perplexed why I felt deeply ashamed being seen with a White-women or an Asian-women and they were 'just' friends on college/university campuses whom used to latch on to me, despite showing no reciprocating interest.

I never understood this conundrum back then, but this sense of shame was merely a reflection of deep self-worth, an insatiable pride in ones heritage and culture, the only women outside of my preferred Somali that even looked attractive to me were of course our cushitic neighbours that share the same features.

Tbh it's just that African female - European male couples are in high demand. The opposite is shoved down our faces daily so nobody gives a f*ck.

These vids are cringe worthy though. It's almost as if every interracial couple must start a YouTube channel by law.

 

[Bielsa]

Didn't watch the clip or read any of this thread:

But want to inform y'all on a common mistake: NOT ALL ROMANIANS AND BULGARIANS ARE GYPSY.

Only a small minority of those countries is gypsy. Most are ethnic Europeans who look like Polish/Slav people. This is like saying all Somalis are BANTU because of the small minority of Bantus.

I think people know this but deliberately call all Romanians gypsies as an insult.

 

[VixR]

You just proved my point, totally misrepresented what I said, self-hate was purely towards the interracial aspect not Somali upon Somali.

With that I mean the fast majority of interracial marriage, not all, because there are always needles in a haystack, statistics backs me on this

Something so basic and elementary you failed to grasp, but you expect me to go deeper into the finer details with this, while your struggling to grapple the very basics. Let's talk about exotic foods or home designs? anything not requiring logic madame.

This post is brilliant, worth its weight in gold, you never see Somali on Somali relationship promoted on Youtube, no Xaalimo would upload a Youtube clip of her Farah Husband.

Let's separate the wheat from the chaff here.

If I mischaracterized what you wildly indicated in the above, you can choose to expand on it. If you'd rather talk exotic home foods, decor, or dolls, I'm not going to stop you.

 

[Apollo]

I think people know this but deliberately call all Romanians gypsies as an insult.

Lol, Romania is leagues ahead of any African country. Somalis have no right to call them qashin.

 

[Lord Flacko]

I'm honestly starting to think [too many] Somali men have an extremely low self-esteem.

How so?