Somali girl and her gypsy husband

[Prince Abubu]

I really would like to see a defense of where it's coming from, but it seems like a bitter and ill conceived self-massage for the ego more than anything else, resting on incredible allegations that underly the very same disdain for self and community accused of others, to cover an inexplicable stranger possession of women that should really be examined and sought help for, bc how else do ppl come to such borderline radical view like Somali women hating Somali men en masse, or hating themselves, or hating hating hating for dating others in a foreign pool?

I would love to know how a Somali girl on YT doing a tag with her ajnabi husband by some incredible reach of magic reflects on how Somali women see Somali men. I would really love to know.

You seem to have this weird knack for taking a trend or issue and then isolating it completely from any context like a vacuum. Nobody cares about a girl going on YouTube or Twitter parading her ajnabi boyfriend. When it stops becoming one or two and actually becomes some kind of trend I think we have every right to question their motives. You seem to also like diverting the topic towards faaraxs as well. No doubt there are many faaraxs that have self-esteem issues. But we're not talking about them. We're talking about this weird trend(that actually includes other madow women) where it's a game of one-upmanship between these females to parade their cadaan boyfriend on a social media platform. As if it's some kind of prize they've won. I also think if you put your life online, don't complain when people make observations.

 

[Bielsa]

It seems ppl on here really hate themselves, is this a flawed observation?

I agree. Not me and my family though.

:siilaanyosmile:

 

[Hemaal]

A . Why not just say dillo.

The other favored twin explanation alongside self-hate that is the answer for everything.

Exact meaning of the word "Dhiidhibso" is not a , it's more like a sexual postion where the woman's legs throw the V sign

 

[VixR]

Yeah and people meme and joke about horrendous things including misogynistic jokes towards women who date out of their respective ethnicities. If your response to whatever Somali girls do is "well others do it", then the same can be said about Somali dudes on this forum. You can't make assumptions on the character of Somali men based on one paradigm you find (that isn't even exclusive to us) and then defend Somali girls with that logic.

Yeah they are all over Facebook but by women who are supposed to be devout, chaste and family oriented? Because that's exactly how Somali women carry themselves on Twitter and irl so when they go against that it's weird and something I personally find contradictory.

You're honestly not fair to Somali dudes. If Somali guys suffer from self esteem issues purely because of the paradigm that they eschew girls who date out the same can be said for some degenerate club literally in the tens of thousands dedicated to everything a devout Muslim woman should be refraining from.

And the same can be said for girls who adamantly protest issues that more or less have nothing to do with them. And the same can also be said for the weird trend you and I agree is Somali girl exclusive and that's parading ajnabi partners on social media.

Not sure why you would even bother drawing a line between the two. If one is suffering from self esteem problems, are Somali girls perfectly functioning with zero identity and esteem problems of their own?

I'm sorry, but it's extended beyond the pale of anything that could be characterized as normal. This is not normal. Let's not pretend it is. And the mere existence of a group message gathering place like shaah corner is false equivalency and not a basis for the sort of argument you're trying to make. It's not like I was attacking the hiding behind Islam, a million things a woman should be dictated to do group/club you spoke of, bc I know and understand the reality for those types of forums existing, but this behavior isn't contained to any sitting group, it's literally everywhere.

It's an unrealistic expectation to hold that everyone or even most ppl, much less those on the internet you don't even know, to be chaste and devout. The chaste and most devout ppl you know could be completely different animals when using the internet, and could even use it as an outlet to be able to sustain their 'real life' demeanor so to put that sort of expectation towards an outlet like shaah corner that discusses problems, issues and intrigue in these ppl's private lives is an irrational approach.

Husband tag videos are not Somali girl exclusive, and as for 'adamantly protesting issues that have nothing to do with them', neither is that exclusive or even WRONG, but the reason it triggers you so much for someone to support a cause to the extent that their support must negate Somali causes is something else that should definitely be explored.

 

[Tramo]

A . Why not just say dillo.

The other favored twin explanation alongside self-hate that is the answer for everything.

kkkkkkk @dillo, no it means xishood basically

 

[VixR]

kkkkkkk @dillo, no it means xishood basically

Your gif made no sense.

 

[Tramo]

Your gif made no sense.

its usually said to girls who are accidentally uncovered. it's such an odd word to see online

has ur mom never said to u 'naa dhiidhibso'?

 

[VixR]

its usually said to girls who are accidentally uncovered. it's such an odd word to see online

has ur mom never said to u 'naa dhiidhibso'?

No.

Yeah right, the girl in the gif u posted looked like she was ashamedly walking away from a car drop on the side of a road

 

[Kanye]

I really would like to see a defense of where it's coming from, but it seems like a bitter and ill conceived self-massage for the ego more than anything else, resting on incredible allegations that underly the very same disdain for self and community accused of others, to cover an inexplicable stranger possession that should be examined and sought help for, bc how else do ppl come to such borderline radical view like Somali women hating Somali men en masse?

I would love to know how a Somali girl on YT doing a tag with her ajnabi husband by some incredible reach and magic reflects on how Somali women see Somali men. I would really love to know.

Most people don't believe interracial relationships inherently toxic or based on self-hatred. Hatred is a strong word, perhaps not perceived as well is more accurate. Hence for example, the hair trigger on revert marriages. It's deceptive to say anyone reached these conclusions from just YouTube videos. We can objectively say that Somalis have a bad image universally, correct? Do you also agree that men and women tend to have different requirements from partners? Women tend to put more emphasis on stability and security than men do. Somali men as a collective don't have either one for obvious reasons. On top of that you've got various other factors at play. Somali women (just like many others) identify with feminists/womanists etc. which has fundamental clashes with Somali culture.
All across Twitter, Facebook and Tumblr I've seen innumerous posts on how Somali girls are oppressed while their brothers got a free ride. I've had IRL convos with non-family that more or less concluding the same.

Why is it so difficult to believe, justified or not that this has manifested into a bias against Somali men? I really do not see it as a reach. Somali men represent Somali culture and you guys constantly go off on how bad Somali culture is for Somali women, do you believe you're the only ones that hold that view?

 

[VixR]

These psych evaluations are getting boring. And it always comes from people who're the least qualified to speak



Close your legs I think, I've been told that everytime I was caught not sitting probably lol he was obviously trying to be slick

Something is seriously wrong somewhere.

I suppose dillo wasn't too far off the mark, in that case lol

Exact meaning of the word "Dhiidhibso" is not a , it's more like a sexual postion where the woman's legs throw the V sign

Again, not far off the mark from what was being communicated

 

[Tramo]

No.

Yeah right, the girl in the gif u posted looked like she was ashamedly walking away from a car drop on the side of a road

wait are u actually arguing a word u don't even know dkm

that was my bad, it's hard to find a gif of a gabar dhiidhiibsanayso

 

[VixR]

wait are u actually arguing a word u don't even know dkm

that was my bad, it's hard to find a gif of a gabar dhiidhiibsanayso

No, as in no my mom did not say that to me.

 

[Tramo]

No, as in no my mom did not say that to me.

true, then u didn't have to put my gif game on blast

 

[Ferrari]

I dunno I've seen plenty of girlfriend tags (which ironically don't get much traffic).

But a sizeable amount of new couple videos relating to Somalis seem to just be Somali girls and their ajnabi dudes. It's a ridiculously perplexing paradigm to me because as you said regular Somali couples are few.

I just kinda don't get the whole ordeal. Guys need to get involved in social media tbh. Maybe show their partners so we have a full picture. But I guess they aren't into that sort of thing.

Somali girls copy each other A LOT! They tend to like the same things, the same boys, same careers and etc lol. If one of the you tubers start a new topic, I can guarantee it that majority will follow suit. It is just who they are.

 

[Gojo Satoru]

Somali guys are no different to asian guys

 

[SenseSays]

I'm honestly starting to think [too many] Somali men have an extremely low self-esteem.

To be able to judge the way they do consistently with the same rinsed statements and conclusions, yea, I'm really starting to think the same.

 

[Cukaash]

To be able to judge the way they do consistently with the same rinsed statements and conclusions, yea, I'm really starting to think the same.

 

[dhegdheer]

@Tramo you should've posted a gif of a girl manspreading lmao

Somali girls copy each other A LOT! They tend to like the same things, the same boys, same careers and etc lol. If one of the you tubers start a new topic, I can guarantee it that majority will follow suit. It is just who they are.

Excuse me I'm a special snowflake

 

[Bohol]

Farahs are very confident actually, many of them are married to foreign women but you don't see them parading them around
in youtube videos because.... there is no need for it. They don't see it as a special prize, a pussy is a pussy for them. Now compare
that to halimos like Xawlo&cheese they are even willing to put up with undercover white racists just to get rid of their skin colour.

 

[Ferrari]

@Tramo you should've posted a gif of a girl manspreading lmao



Excuse me I'm a special snowflake

lol what's your problem little thing?
They copy each other to death. It's so sad. Do you even have somali girl friends?