Well, times have changed. Too bad that your mindset is in the gutter.
Having said that, what do Somali women gain from waiting around for someone from the 10% of the Somali male demographic who have their shit together to suddenly show up and propose marriage?
Somali men have used, abused, disrespected, harmed, curtailed and ruined Somali women for decades. It's only now that you feel they are exploring their God given options that you are upset. You probably would prefer her to be with a loser from your own ethnicity rather than someone who is appreciative of her and can take care of her.