I'm a guy sxb. Don't let the avatar fool you.
Regarding your post, I don't take anecdotes seriously. It's too subjective. I can give you alternative stories too.
My point is dont marry someone who has been muslim for weeks. Only somalis are ok with marrying anyone who says la ilaha ilalallah. Other muslims will tell you get lost. Somali girls are easy fruit. You settle with them because who else want a revert