Virginity is a patriarchal concept. It doesn't hold any true value in real life, besides men's obsession. I agree it's hypocritical to look after a virgin wife, yet past 20yo+, most men are not virgins themselves.
But as we live with others, we all have some hypocritical set of values.
Like, women who hate it to be judged (like the Body Positive women), yet they date only a certain type of men; tall, muscular or slender, or well-off. Yet, they quickly hate when men judge them for their beauty.
As humans, we all have hypocritical stand points and as you said, it's us to recognize them.
But as we live with others, we all have some hypocritical set of values.
Like, women who hate it to be judged (like the Body Positive women), yet they date only a certain type of men; tall, muscular or slender, or well-off. Yet, they quickly hate when men judge them for their beauty.
As humans, we all have hypocritical stand points and as you said, it's us to recognize them.